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J R Hudson with l to r, son Ted, daughter Hattie, second wife Nealie.

J R Hudson with his grandchildren

James Robert Hudson was born on December the 8th, 1868 to an orphaned,  teenaged,  unwed mother, in Stanly County, North Carolina. Harvest season was over, if there was a harvest at all. Farms had been abandoned, fields lie untilled. The male population had been decimated, reduced largely to one of old men, young boys and crippled or blind soldiers. There were a few healthy survivors of the war, but not many. JR's mother had lost her own mother in childbirth at age 8. Then her father died in the war in 1862. The previous census had shown her living with her stepmother and two younger sisters. Her stepmother, Sarah Ann McSwain Hudson would remarry an elderly merchant, John Norwood and have more children. Half-sister Ella, born the year their father died, in 1862, would not show up again. Sister Sarah Ann, born the year their mother Sarah Ann Lee Hudson, died, would marry a Whitaker, son of Nelson and Sophia Murray Whitaker. In the first census JR Hudson shows up in, his unwed mother is living with her little sister Sarah and her husband. 

I remember when I was small, my grandmother telling me her father had been illegitimate and that her grandmother's name was Caroline Singleton. There were two Caroline Singleton's in the area. One born a Singleton and the other married a Singleton. I finally found the answer to who she was on her death certificate. The married Caroline Singleton had been born Caroline Hudson. A lightbulb went off and I realized, James Robert had been given his mother's maiden name, having been born when she was only 15 and unmarried. Her father was named, Burwell, and I discovered he was one of the sons of Hudson family patriarch, William Joshua Hudson, Jr, who lived nearly 100 years, who had not returned from the war. Everything fell into place. 

On Dec 6, 1890, just two days before his 22nd birthday, J. R married  19 year old Judith E. "Judy" Aldridge, the daughter of J. Pink Aldridge and his wife Susan Floyd Aldridge. Her father Pink was a first cousin of my great, great grandmother on my mother's side, Frances Julina Aldridge Davis.
The marriage certificate list father as unknown and mother as Caroline Singleton. At age 27, Caroline had married Robert Dock Singleton, known as 'Dodie', the son of a shoemaker who had settled in the small growing town of Center, which would be renamed Norwood, after the Norwood brothers store.

JR and Judie would bring 8 children into the world, but not all at once. Bessie, the oldest, who would marry Henry Bunch, would not arrive until 5 years after the wedding in 1895, the second daughter, my grandmother, Hattie Helen Hudson McSwain Thompson, would not arrive until 1899. The 1900 census would find the young family living in the town of Norwood. The census indicates that JR was working as a farm laborer while his wife was housekeeping and that he owned his home, but it was a house and not a farm. The census also indicated that Judie had been the mother of 3 children with two living, Bessie and Hattie.

By 1910, JR and Judie had moved their young family into the country not far from Norwood Town, because they were still in Center Township. Center had once been what the area of Norwood was called, as it was a Centerpoint on the old road from Salisbury to the Cheraws, and the site of an early Methodist Camp Meeting site. Eventually, the old River town of Allenton, that predated Norwood by many decades, would be abandoned due to Thyphoid and other outbreaks and the survivors would move up to the old Camp Meeting grounds and the town of Norwood formed.

JR is listed as a farmer, not a farm laborer. He is renting his home, and it is a farm, not just a house. The census indicates that he and Judie, along with older daughters Bessie and Hattie, can read and write. Two more children have joined the family, Walter in 1901 and JoAnne, in 1905. The census indicates that Judie has born 6 children, 4 of whom are living. The sixth one was son Robert Lee, who was born in 1909 and died in 1910 and is buried in the same plot as his mother.

By the next census, JR has moved his family again, this time to the other side of the river in Anson County, in the township of Ansonville. He is running his own farm and his family are working on that farm as laborers. Older daughters Bessie and Hattie are married by then, Bessie to Henry Bunch from Wake County, North Carolina and Hattie to Eleazor McSwain from the Center and Tyson area of Stanly County. Both sisters would marry young men who would fight in World War I. Henry Bunch would survive. Eleazor McSwain would return ill and die.

Bessie and Henry Bunch would set up houskeeping near Mountain Creek, near New London in Harris Township, Stanly County. Hattie and Eleazor in Norwood. Bessie and Henry would have 3 children as families during this era and into the Great Depression, would get smaller. They were Cora, named after Henry's mother, Henry Jr, who would be called Herman, and Walter, named after the sister's beloved younger brother, Walter C. Hudson. Hattie would remarry, a younger man, William J Thompson and have one son, named Robert William, after his father and his grandfather, James Robert Hudson.

Henry Bunch, Sr's death certificate reveals the middle name of his wife Bessie, who is otherwise just shown as Bessie F. Hudson Bunch. The 'F' stands for Freeman. Not a typical middle name for a daughter. If JR and Judie were to chose a family surname as a middle name for their firstborn, would they not have chosen a family surname, like Aldridge, Judie's maiden name, or Floyd, her mother's maiden name? Their other daughters were given feminine maiden names. Could Freeman be a clue as to who JR's father was?

In 1920, Craven Reece Hudson (1912) and Edith Julia Hudson (1915), have joined the family. I would know Craven Reece Hudson as Uncle Ted and Edith, I would never know. She died just short of her 17th birthday.  Shortly before Christmas in 1922, on the 18th of December, Judie Hudson would die of Bronchial Pneumonia, following influenza. The "Flu" as we know it, was a very deadly disease in those days. Today, it might knock us out of a few days of work or school.

On February 25, 1928, JR would marry his second wife, Cornelia Blalock in Center Township by Phillip L Shoe.  Witnesses were R D Burleyson, Mrs.  R L Calloway and D N Burleson.

Tombstone of JR's mother Caroline Hudson Singleton

Tombstone of J R's parents

In 1930, JR and his second wife Nealie are living in Harris, at the end of Mountain Creek Road, in the Harris Community. I remember going into this old house as a young child, while my grandmother was visiting the children of her sister Bessie, Cora Bunch Williams and Herman and Eula Bunch, whose families remained on this road and on this land. I remember her finding treasures and showing me old schoolbooks she used as a child that were stored there. In 1930, youngest son Craven Reece (Ted) was living with his father at age 18, while 15 year old Edith was living in Albemarle with her sister Hattie and her husband Will Thompson. JR is listed as a farmer and Ted is listed as working at the brickyard. The Yadkin Brickyard operated until just a few years ago, not very far from where the Hudsons lived at this time. By 1940, Ted had married and moved on and older son Walter had moved back home. Walter had never married, had been a soldier and in the previous census, was working in Albemarle as a jailor at the County Jail. JR was still farming up on Mountain Creek Road between New London and Badin, right off of Hwy 740. 

James Robert Hudson would not quite make another census, he died on November 5, 1949 of Bronchial pneumonia, anemia and cause unknown. Basically, the same disease that killed his first wife and daughter Edith.  He was 78 years old, a retired farmer. Both wives, Judy Aldridge and Cornelia Blalock are listed. 

His father is listed only as Hudson, his mother as Caroline Singleton. On his marriage license to Cornelia Blalock, his father is listed as Robert Hudson and his mother as Caroline Hudson. Was his father really a Hudson, a relative of young Caroline or was this a vague reference to his stepfather, Robert "Dodie" Singleton and the clerk just assumed that his name was Hudson and JR maybe too embarrassed to offer a correction, not wanting his new bride to know the circumstances of his birth. Or was his father really Robert Hudson. Or was his oldest daughters middle name "Freeman" a hint as to his biological heritage. There were no Freemans in either JR or Judie's family tree. We may never know. 

My Daddy, Robert Thompson, bears a strong resemblance to his grandfather in photos, as his mother Hattie, bore a strong resemblance to JR's mother Caroline. They both carry the soft, deep blue eyes and Daddy had JR's ears and shape of head and face and inherited the early whitening of the hair. It would be terrific if some biological descendants of JR Hudson would all get together and have a DNA test and compare it to others on Ancestry.com and she what unknown distant cousins pop up. Rule out the ones who come from other parts of their family tree and see what unknown connections who lived in the area shortly after the Civil War they have in common. This might determine JR's real surname. Until then, JR will continue to be a broken branch on the family tree. James Robert, father unknown. 

Tombstone of Judy Hudson and infant Robert Lee Hudson

James R. Hudson
Age:	9
Birth Year:	abt 1871
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1880:	Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Male
Marital Status:	Single
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Neighbors:	View others on page
Cannot read/write: Blind: Deaf and dumb: Otherwise disabled: Idiotic or insane:	View image
Household Members:	Name Age John W. Whitaker 26 Sallie A. Whitaker 19 Thompson A. Whitaker 5m Caroline Hudson 26 James R. Hudson 9

Name:	James Hudson
Age:	28
Birth Date:	abt 1872
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1900:	Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Male
Relation to Head of House:	Head
Marital Status:	Married
Spouse's Name:	Judie Hudson
Marriage Year:	1891
Years Married:	9
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Occupation:	View on Image
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age James Hudson 28 Judie Hudson 28 Bessy Hudson 4 Hattie Hudson 8/12

Robert Hudson
Age in 1910:	39
Birth Year:	1871
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1910:	Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Male
Relation to Head of House:	Head [Self (Head)]
Marital Status:	Married
Spouse's Name:	Juda E Hudson
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age Robert Hudson 39 Juda E Hudson 38 Bessie F Hudson 14 Hattie H Hudson 11 Walter K Hudson 8 Jaana B Hudson 5

James R Hudson
Age:	57 [54]
Birth Year:	abt 1863 [abt 1866]
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1920:	Ansonville, Anson, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Male
Relation to Head of House:	Head
Marital Status:	Married
Spouse's Name:	Judith E Hudson
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home Owned:	Rent
Able to Read:	Yes
Able to Write:	Yes
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age James R Hudson 57 [54]  Judith E Hudson 48 Walter Hudson 18 Joe A Hudson 15 Cravan Hudson 8 Julia Hudson 5

James R Hudson
Gender:	Male
Birth Year:	abt 1872
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Race:	White
Home in 1930:	Harris, Stanly, North Carolina View Map
Marital Status:	Married
Relation to Head of House:	Head
Spouse's Name:	Nelie Hudson
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Occupation: Education: Military Service: Rent/home value: Age at first marriage: Parents' birthplace:	View image
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age James R Hudson 58 Nelie Hudson 47 Craven R Hudson 18

ames R Hudson
Age:	67
Estimated Birth Year:	abt 1873
Gender:	Male
Race:	White
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Marital Status:	Married
Relation to Head of House:	Head
Home in 1940:	Harris, Stanly, North Carolina View Map
Farm:	Yes
Inferred Residence in 1935:	Harris, Stanly, North Carolina
Residence in 1935:	Same House
Sheet Number:	11A
Number of Household in Order of Visitation:	208
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age James R Hudson 67 Cornelia Hudson 58 Walter Hudson 36

Cornelia Blalock, JR's second wife, buried in Norwood City Cemetary

JR's tombstone, buried at Cottonville with Judie, Walter and Edith. 

Frederick 5000: Part One of Frederick F Starnes

Frederick F Starnes or Sterns is buried in Meadow Creek Primitive Baptist Church Cemetary near Locust,  in Stanly County, North Carolina. The cemetary is in close proximity to both Mecklenburg and Cabarrus Counties. F. F. Starnes spent his last years in Mecklenburg, but most of his life in Cabarrus, and part of his life in Union County.

He has been a phantom to researchers and descendants. The reason has been two little letters. In a census, the census taker notated that he was born in Georgia. This part I have not verified as true or not. At present, I am trying to find proof that his father was in Georgia, at least for a little while, long enough for his oldest son to be born there.

And do I know who is parents were...sure! Was it difficult to figure it out? No. Why someone hasn't before me, I have no idea. I guess they are seeing for the fruit and not looking up at the tree.

If you find an apple under an apple tree, surrounded by other apples, the probability that it fell from that tree. Now, it is certainly possible that someone brought an apple from many many miles away and just randomly placed it under that tree. Possible, but not probable. I mean, the apple could have been zapped there by an alien if you watch enough TV. But not likely.

Fred Starnes
Age in 1860:	24
Birth Year:	abt 1836
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1860:	Union, North Carolina
Gender:	Male
Post Office:	Monroe
Value of real estate:	View image
Household Members:	Name Age James N Gaddy 22 Martha E Gaddy 22 William H Gaddy 1 Mary C Gaddy 5/12 Rocsey J Hale 6 James A Hale 4 Fred Starnes 24 Mary Starnes 24 Allace Starnes 6 Ollivy Starnes 5 John Starnes 2

Fred and Mary first show up in the 1860 census of Union County. He is listed next to his father Frederick Starnes and mother Bettie.  He is not in the 1850 census, that I can yet locate, but both his father Frederick Starnes and his grandfather, Frederick Starnes, are.

 He is not living in the household of the Gaddy's. This is a computer glitch, that failed to separate households. 'Allace' refers to daughter Sarah Alice who would marry Wiley Monroe Linker and 'Ollivy' refers to Margaret 'Leavy' Starnes, my ancestress, who married Robert Lemmonds. John is only listed in this census, so likely died as a child, prior to the move to the Rocky River community of Cabarrus County. Several of the Starnes children died young. Most of them buried at Rocky River Presbyterian Church in Cabarrus County.

Daughter Martha Ann lived to be 11 years, 6 months and 9 days old.


Daughter Georgia Ann lived to be 7 years, 6 months and 25 days old.


By 1870, the family was living in Cabarrus County. Thomas, Martha and Della have been born.

F F Stearns [F F Starnes]
Age in 1870:	40
Birth Year:	abt 1830
Birthplace:	Georgia
Home in 1870:	Township 1, Cabarrus, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Male
Post Office:	Concord
Value of real estate:	View image
Household Members:	Name Age F F Stearns 40 Mary L Stearns 33 Sarah A Stearns 16 Margt R Stearns 14 Thoms Stearns 9 Martha A Stearns 6 Delphi Stearns 1

And then the 1880. Frederick L Starnes, Georgia Ann and Daisy have been born. Grandma Martha Byrum has came to live with the family as well.

Name: F.F. Starns [F.F. Starnes]  Age: 51 Birth Year: abt 1829 Birthplace: Georgia Home in 1880: Rocky River, Cabarrus, North Carolina Race: White Gender: Male Relation to Head of House: Self (Head) Marital Status: Married Spouse's Name: Mary L. Starns Father's Birthplace: North Carolina Mother's Birthplace: North Carolina Neighbors: View others on page Occupation: Farmer Cannot read/write: Blind: Deaf and dumb: Otherwise disabled: Idiotic or insane: View image Household Members: Name Age F.F. Starns 51 Mary L. Starns 43 Margaret A. Starns 23 Thomas M. Starns 19 Dalphia A. Starns 10 Georgia A. Starns 7 Fredrick L. Starns 5 Dasie L. Starns 2 Martha Byram 70

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Township 1 is Harrisburg and along the border of Mecklenburg and not very far from the intersection of Mecklenburg and Union Counties. Just across the Midland township is the border of Cabarrus and Stanly.  His first wife Mary, and 3, possibly 4 of their children are buried in the Rocky River Presbyterian Church cemetary, which is in Cabarrus County, but very close to the Clear Creek community of Mecklenburg.

He was a Civil War soldier in the 48th infantry. Information on the 48th infantry states that they were recruited from Union County, among others, which is the stronghold of the Starnes family.

48th Regiment, North Carolina Infantry

OVERVIEW:

48th Infantry Regiment completed its organization in March, 1862, at Camp Mangum, near Raleigh, North Carolina. Men of this unit were recruited in the counties of Union, Davidson, Iredell, Moore, Chatham, and Forsyth. Ordered to Virginia, the regiment was assigned to General J.G. Walker's and Cooke's Brigade. It fought with the Army of Northern Virginia from the Seven Days' Battles to Fredericksburg, then moved to Pocataligo, South Carolina, where it was stationed until August, 1863. Returning to Virginia, the 48th was involved in the conflicts at Bristoe, The Wilderness, Spotsylvania, and Cold Harbor. It then endured the hardships of the Petersburg siege south of the James River and the Appomattox operations. It reported 18 killed and 70 wounded at Oak Grove, lost over fifty percent of the 400 in the Maryland Campaign, and sustained 175 casualties at Fredericksburg and 123 at Bristoe. The unit surrendered with 12 officers and 87 men. Its commanders were Colonels Robert C. Hill and Samuel H. Walkup; Lieutenant Colonel Albert A. Hill; and Majors B.R. Huske, William H. Jones, and Francis L. Wiatt.

F. F. Starnes
Side:	Confederate
Regiment State/Origin:	North Carolina
Regiment Name:	48 North Carolina Infantry
Regiment Name Expanded:	48th Regiment, North Carolina Infantry
Company:	E
Rank In:	Private
Rank In Expanded:	Private
Rank Out:	Private
Rank Out Expanded:	Private
Alternate Name:	Frederick F./Sternes
Film Number:	M230 roll 37

Frederick F Sternes
Residence:	Union County, North Carolina
Occupation:	Farmer
Age at enlistment:	30
Enlistment Date:	21 Mar 1862
Rank at enlistment:	Private
Enlistment Place:	Union County, NC
State Served:	North Carolina
Survived the War?:	Yes
Service Record:	Enlisted in Company E, North Carolina 48th Infantry Regiment on 19 Apr 1862.
Birth Date:	abt 1832
Sources:	North Carolina Troops 1861-65, A Roster

He was held as a prisoner of war. Afterwards, he settled in Cabarrus County, with his wife Mary Byrum. From there, he is easily traced. It is beforehand that is the mystery.

Nathan Monroe Starnes was a first cousin and buried in the same family plot as Fred F. Starnes

Tombstone of Elisabeth Starnes, wife of N. Monroe. 

One of Monroe and Elizabeth Starnes

Abigairl D Furr Starnes Strarnes Misenheimer, wife of John C Starnes, second wife of  Frederick F Starnes,  second wife of Marion Harrison Misenheimer, her third husband. 

Daughter of Monore and Elizabeth Starnes

Close up of Tombstone of F. F Starnes.