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J R Hudson with l to r, son Ted, daughter Hattie, second wife Nealie.

J R Hudson with his grandchildren

James Robert Hudson was born on December the 8th, 1868 to an orphaned,  teenaged,  unwed mother, in Stanly County, North Carolina. Harvest season was over, if there was a harvest at all. Farms had been abandoned, fields lie untilled. The male population had been decimated, reduced largely to one of old men, young boys and crippled or blind soldiers. There were a few healthy survivors of the war, but not many. JR's mother had lost her own mother in childbirth at age 8. Then her father died in the war in 1862. The previous census had shown her living with her stepmother and two younger sisters. Her stepmother, Sarah Ann McSwain Hudson would remarry an elderly merchant, John Norwood and have more children. Half-sister Ella, born the year their father died, in 1862, would not show up again. Sister Sarah Ann, born the year their mother Sarah Ann Lee Hudson, died, would marry a Whitaker, son of Nelson and Sophia Murray Whitaker. In the first census JR Hudson shows up in, his unwed mother is living with her little sister Sarah and her husband. 

I remember when I was small, my grandmother telling me her father had been illegitimate and that her grandmother's name was Caroline Singleton. There were two Caroline Singleton's in the area. One born a Singleton and the other married a Singleton. I finally found the answer to who she was on her death certificate. The married Caroline Singleton had been born Caroline Hudson. A lightbulb went off and I realized, James Robert had been given his mother's maiden name, having been born when she was only 15 and unmarried. Her father was named, Burwell, and I discovered he was one of the sons of Hudson family patriarch, William Joshua Hudson, Jr, who lived nearly 100 years, who had not returned from the war. Everything fell into place. 

On Dec 6, 1890, just two days before his 22nd birthday, J. R married  19 year old Judith E. "Judy" Aldridge, the daughter of J. Pink Aldridge and his wife Susan Floyd Aldridge. Her father Pink was a first cousin of my great, great grandmother on my mother's side, Frances Julina Aldridge Davis.
The marriage certificate list father as unknown and mother as Caroline Singleton. At age 27, Caroline had married Robert Dock Singleton, known as 'Dodie', the son of a shoemaker who had settled in the small growing town of Center, which would be renamed Norwood, after the Norwood brothers store.

JR and Judie would bring 8 children into the world, but not all at once. Bessie, the oldest, who would marry Henry Bunch, would not arrive until 5 years after the wedding in 1895, the second daughter, my grandmother, Hattie Helen Hudson McSwain Thompson, would not arrive until 1899. The 1900 census would find the young family living in the town of Norwood. The census indicates that JR was working as a farm laborer while his wife was housekeeping and that he owned his home, but it was a house and not a farm. The census also indicated that Judie had been the mother of 3 children with two living, Bessie and Hattie.

By 1910, JR and Judie had moved their young family into the country not far from Norwood Town, because they were still in Center Township. Center had once been what the area of Norwood was called, as it was a Centerpoint on the old road from Salisbury to the Cheraws, and the site of an early Methodist Camp Meeting site. Eventually, the old River town of Allenton, that predated Norwood by many decades, would be abandoned due to Thyphoid and other outbreaks and the survivors would move up to the old Camp Meeting grounds and the town of Norwood formed.

JR is listed as a farmer, not a farm laborer. He is renting his home, and it is a farm, not just a house. The census indicates that he and Judie, along with older daughters Bessie and Hattie, can read and write. Two more children have joined the family, Walter in 1901 and JoAnne, in 1905. The census indicates that Judie has born 6 children, 4 of whom are living. The sixth one was son Robert Lee, who was born in 1909 and died in 1910 and is buried in the same plot as his mother.

By the next census, JR has moved his family again, this time to the other side of the river in Anson County, in the township of Ansonville. He is running his own farm and his family are working on that farm as laborers. Older daughters Bessie and Hattie are married by then, Bessie to Henry Bunch from Wake County, North Carolina and Hattie to Eleazor McSwain from the Center and Tyson area of Stanly County. Both sisters would marry young men who would fight in World War I. Henry Bunch would survive. Eleazor McSwain would return ill and die.

Bessie and Henry Bunch would set up houskeeping near Mountain Creek, near New London in Harris Township, Stanly County. Hattie and Eleazor in Norwood. Bessie and Henry would have 3 children as families during this era and into the Great Depression, would get smaller. They were Cora, named after Henry's mother, Henry Jr, who would be called Herman, and Walter, named after the sister's beloved younger brother, Walter C. Hudson. Hattie would remarry, a younger man, William J Thompson and have one son, named Robert William, after his father and his grandfather, James Robert Hudson.

Henry Bunch, Sr's death certificate reveals the middle name of his wife Bessie, who is otherwise just shown as Bessie F. Hudson Bunch. The 'F' stands for Freeman. Not a typical middle name for a daughter. If JR and Judie were to chose a family surname as a middle name for their firstborn, would they not have chosen a family surname, like Aldridge, Judie's maiden name, or Floyd, her mother's maiden name? Their other daughters were given feminine maiden names. Could Freeman be a clue as to who JR's father was?

In 1920, Craven Reece Hudson (1912) and Edith Julia Hudson (1915), have joined the family. I would know Craven Reece Hudson as Uncle Ted and Edith, I would never know. She died just short of her 17th birthday.  Shortly before Christmas in 1922, on the 18th of December, Judie Hudson would die of Bronchial Pneumonia, following influenza. The "Flu" as we know it, was a very deadly disease in those days. Today, it might knock us out of a few days of work or school.

On February 25, 1928, JR would marry his second wife, Cornelia Blalock in Center Township by Phillip L Shoe.  Witnesses were R D Burleyson, Mrs.  R L Calloway and D N Burleson.

Tombstone of JR's mother Caroline Hudson Singleton

Tombstone of J R's parents

In 1930, JR and his second wife Nealie are living in Harris, at the end of Mountain Creek Road, in the Harris Community. I remember going into this old house as a young child, while my grandmother was visiting the children of her sister Bessie, Cora Bunch Williams and Herman and Eula Bunch, whose families remained on this road and on this land. I remember her finding treasures and showing me old schoolbooks she used as a child that were stored there. In 1930, youngest son Craven Reece (Ted) was living with his father at age 18, while 15 year old Edith was living in Albemarle with her sister Hattie and her husband Will Thompson. JR is listed as a farmer and Ted is listed as working at the brickyard. The Yadkin Brickyard operated until just a few years ago, not very far from where the Hudsons lived at this time. By 1940, Ted had married and moved on and older son Walter had moved back home. Walter had never married, had been a soldier and in the previous census, was working in Albemarle as a jailor at the County Jail. JR was still farming up on Mountain Creek Road between New London and Badin, right off of Hwy 740. 

James Robert Hudson would not quite make another census, he died on November 5, 1949 of Bronchial pneumonia, anemia and cause unknown. Basically, the same disease that killed his first wife and daughter Edith.  He was 78 years old, a retired farmer. Both wives, Judy Aldridge and Cornelia Blalock are listed. 

His father is listed only as Hudson, his mother as Caroline Singleton. On his marriage license to Cornelia Blalock, his father is listed as Robert Hudson and his mother as Caroline Hudson. Was his father really a Hudson, a relative of young Caroline or was this a vague reference to his stepfather, Robert "Dodie" Singleton and the clerk just assumed that his name was Hudson and JR maybe too embarrassed to offer a correction, not wanting his new bride to know the circumstances of his birth. Or was his father really Robert Hudson. Or was his oldest daughters middle name "Freeman" a hint as to his biological heritage. There were no Freemans in either JR or Judie's family tree. We may never know. 

My Daddy, Robert Thompson, bears a strong resemblance to his grandfather in photos, as his mother Hattie, bore a strong resemblance to JR's mother Caroline. They both carry the soft, deep blue eyes and Daddy had JR's ears and shape of head and face and inherited the early whitening of the hair. It would be terrific if some biological descendants of JR Hudson would all get together and have a DNA test and compare it to others on Ancestry.com and she what unknown distant cousins pop up. Rule out the ones who come from other parts of their family tree and see what unknown connections who lived in the area shortly after the Civil War they have in common. This might determine JR's real surname. Until then, JR will continue to be a broken branch on the family tree. James Robert, father unknown. 

Tombstone of Judy Hudson and infant Robert Lee Hudson

James R. Hudson
Age:	9
Birth Year:	abt 1871
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1880:	Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Male
Marital Status:	Single
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Neighbors:	View others on page
Cannot read/write: Blind: Deaf and dumb: Otherwise disabled: Idiotic or insane:	View image
Household Members:	Name Age John W. Whitaker 26 Sallie A. Whitaker 19 Thompson A. Whitaker 5m Caroline Hudson 26 James R. Hudson 9

Name:	James Hudson
Age:	28
Birth Date:	abt 1872
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1900:	Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Male
Relation to Head of House:	Head
Marital Status:	Married
Spouse's Name:	Judie Hudson
Marriage Year:	1891
Years Married:	9
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Occupation:	View on Image
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age James Hudson 28 Judie Hudson 28 Bessy Hudson 4 Hattie Hudson 8/12

Robert Hudson
Age in 1910:	39
Birth Year:	1871
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1910:	Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Male
Relation to Head of House:	Head [Self (Head)]
Marital Status:	Married
Spouse's Name:	Juda E Hudson
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age Robert Hudson 39 Juda E Hudson 38 Bessie F Hudson 14 Hattie H Hudson 11 Walter K Hudson 8 Jaana B Hudson 5

James R Hudson
Age:	57 [54]
Birth Year:	abt 1863 [abt 1866]
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1920:	Ansonville, Anson, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Male
Relation to Head of House:	Head
Marital Status:	Married
Spouse's Name:	Judith E Hudson
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home Owned:	Rent
Able to Read:	Yes
Able to Write:	Yes
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age James R Hudson 57 [54]  Judith E Hudson 48 Walter Hudson 18 Joe A Hudson 15 Cravan Hudson 8 Julia Hudson 5

James R Hudson
Gender:	Male
Birth Year:	abt 1872
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Race:	White
Home in 1930:	Harris, Stanly, North Carolina View Map
Marital Status:	Married
Relation to Head of House:	Head
Spouse's Name:	Nelie Hudson
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Occupation: Education: Military Service: Rent/home value: Age at first marriage: Parents' birthplace:	View image
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age James R Hudson 58 Nelie Hudson 47 Craven R Hudson 18

ames R Hudson
Age:	67
Estimated Birth Year:	abt 1873
Gender:	Male
Race:	White
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Marital Status:	Married
Relation to Head of House:	Head
Home in 1940:	Harris, Stanly, North Carolina View Map
Farm:	Yes
Inferred Residence in 1935:	Harris, Stanly, North Carolina
Residence in 1935:	Same House
Sheet Number:	11A
Number of Household in Order of Visitation:	208
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age James R Hudson 67 Cornelia Hudson 58 Walter Hudson 36

Cornelia Blalock, JR's second wife, buried in Norwood City Cemetary

JR's tombstone, buried at Cottonville with Judie, Walter and Edith. 

The Forever Windblown: Sweet Caroline.

The first time I saw her picture and heard her name I was 5 years old. The summer before first grade. The haunting photo of the lost old lady in a baggy sack of a dress with a large collar and deep pockets, and the pointed shoes,  never left my memory. Her image was captured in front of a weathered cottage, not underpinned, with fields in the background. Her light colored hair was pinned up, but falling down and looking wind blown. She looks not at the camera, but to the distance. What was she looking at, if at anything at all? What sites and change those eyes had seen. Her name was Caroline Ann Hudson Singleton. She was born November 21, 1852 and died June 11, 1930. She was my Grandmother's Grandmother. I find this generation the most intriguing. Maybe it's because they were survivors who suffered through a pivotal, painful period of American history. They carried the cross for future generations and paid for the sins of previous ones.

Caroline was born before the Civil War, when slavery was in existence, and the area she grew up in was sending wagaons and later, trains,  full  of cotton to the ports in Wilmington. She was the oldest daughter of Burwell 'Burl' Hudson and his first wife Sarah 'Sallie' Lee. Burwell was one of the sons of Stanly County Hudson patriarch William Joshua Hudson, who was known for his long life of 100 years and of having fathered over 20 children, outliving two wives and marrying a 30 year old when he was 70 and  his last child being born during his mid-80's. Burwell was a son of  Joshua's first wife, Elizabeth 'Betsey' Smith. Joshua had been born near the Virginia/North Carolina line and came to the Anson County area at a young age. He bought 800 acres in what is present day Stanly County from Lewis McSwain and built a small sturdy home on Ugly Creek, in which he raised 22 children, which still stands.

Sallie Hudson would die prior to 1860.  She was the daughter of James Carl Lee and Elizabeth Duke or Duck Lee. Sarah Ann, born in 1860, younger sister of Caroline,  may have been the daughter of Burwell's second wife, Sarah A. McSwain, whom he married on January 17, 1860, possibly immediately after the death of his first wife, Sarah Ann Lee Hudson. Between Caroline Ann and Sarah Ann were Marion M and Emma Francis Hudson.

Caroline Hudson
Age:	26
Birth Year:	abt 1854
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1880:	Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Female
Marital Status:	Single
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Neighbors:	View others on page
Occupation:	At Home
Cannot read/write: Blind: Deaf and dumb: Otherwise disabled: Idiotic or insane:	View image
Household Members:	Name Age John W. Whitaker 26 Sallie A. Whitaker 19 Thompson A. Whitaker 5m Caroline Hudson 26 James R. Hudson 9

Several of the Hudson boys went to war during the Civil War. Burwell did not return. He died December 7, 1862 in Richmond, Virginia. Caroline and her  two youngest sisters were left fatherless and living with their stepmother near their grandfather in the 1870 census. Her brother Marion M Hudson and sister Fanny were living with their grandfather Calvin Lee.  Sometime around the time of that census, Caroline met a man. She may have known him already, he may have been a neighbor, or even a relative. That part is not known and probably never will be.

Her mother died when she was about 8. Caroline must have had to be a mini-mother to her younger siblings. Then her father died when she was around 10. She had a stepmother, Sarah Ann McManus, who married an elderly man, John Norwood, in November of 1870. She was 39, he was 73. They would have 2 children together, John Henry Norwood, born in 1872 and Laura, born in 1874.

The days and years of post Civil War reconstruction were ones of desparation and suffering in Stanly County. There was a report of women and children from the southern part of the county, raiding the storehouse in Albemarle for want of food. All the males that were left were old men and young boys. Of the soldiers who did return, many did not return whole, but missing limbs or minds. Suicides were rampant. Murders went unreported and unpunished. Fields were abandoned. People were starving. Citizens, both black and white, were uncertain of how to move forward. Many tried relocation, heading mostly North and West. Many widows, orphans and the elderly, did not have the means or the health to relocate. Some young widows like Sarah Ann McManus Hudson married old widowers, who had homes and property, like John Norwood. Some would marry teenage boys 10 years their junior. Females of this time had few resources or rights,  and fewer options.

How Caroline became an unwed teenaged mother is not known. Perhaps she became the mistress of a more secure married man. Several men in Stanly County in these days actually supported two families, having children by both a wife and a mistress simultaneously, or back and forth. Perhaps she met a boy her age and fell in love, and without the guidance of her father or mother, a pregnancy occured.

What is known is that she had a son she named James Robert Hudson on December 8, 1868, six years after her father died.

My grandmother looked very much like Caroline, her own grandmother, in her later years. My Daddy, Robert, carried a strong resemblance to his grandfather, J R Hudson.

I would like to see several descendants of James Robert Hudson take the Ancestry.com DNA test, to see what distant cousins may pop up, genetically, to at least track down what family his father probably came from. I have a theory, based on Caroline's naming of her children, and known 'ramblers' of the Tyson community during these days, of who fathered J. R.

James Robert Hudson was not Caroline's only child. On November 26, 1881 she married Robert Dock 'Dodi' Singleton, the son of Tillman F Singleton and Fannie Swaringen Singleton. Dodi had just lost his first wife, Priscilla Duke, who had died in 1880. She might have died in childbirth, but they had no child.

Dodi and Caroline would have 7 children: Sarah Frances Singleton, named for her 2 grandmothers, who never married, (1883-1927); Rosa Ellen Singleton (1885-1953), who would marry Randall F Morton;
David Tillman Singleton (1888-1974), who would marry Dannie Morris; his twin sister Sophronia Ann 'Fronie' Singleton (1888-1963) who married Jonah O Morton; Mary Florence Singleton (1891-1878) who would marry Jacob Eudy, Burl Whitley Singleton (1893-1944) who would marry Rilla Ethel Thompson; and the youngest daughter, Pearl Eldora Singleton, (1899-1931) who would marry Lewis Thompson.

Caroline Singleton
Age in 1910:	57
Birth Year:	1853
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1910:	Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Female
Relation to Head of House:	Wife
Marital Status:	Married
Spouse's Name:	Robert D Singleton
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age Robert D Singleton 55 Caroline Singleton 57 Frances Singleton 26 David Singleton 22 Francis Singleton 22 Mary Singleton 19 Burl Singleton 16 Pearl Singleton 13

J. R. Hudson would have 2 daughter by the time his mother had her last child. My grandmother was born the same year as her Aunt Pearl Singleton.

The only other photo I have seen of Caroline, she and Dodi are in middle age. Her blonde hair appears windblown and disheveled in this photo, even more so as the one made in her later years. She even appears to be wearing the same dress, albeit 20 years perhaps prior to the other photo. I've even been able to picture her as a windblown, disheveled little 8 year old, just having lost her mother, as she gazes out across and endless meadow. 

Caroline Singleton
Age:	68
Birth Year:	abt 1852
Birthplace:	North Carolina
Home in 1920:	Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Race:	White
Gender:	Female
Relation to Head of House:	Wife
Marital Status:	Married
Spouse's Name:	R Dodi Singleton
Father's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:	North Carolina
Able to read:	Yes
Able to Write:	No
Neighbors:	View others on page
Household Members:	Name Age R Dodi Singleton 62 Caroline Singleton 68 Fannie Singleton 37 Mary Singleton 27 Pearl Singleton 22

Caroline died on a June day in 1930, at the age of 77, and is buried in the Norwood Cemetery in Norwood, North Carolina. She was a witness to the Civil War and lost her father. She saw her son off to fight in WWI. She saw her granddaughters bob their hair, wear pants or 'bloomers' and shorter skirts during the Roaring 20's. She rode in a car, talked on a telephone and listened to the radio. What a burden of sorrow and shame she had carried. What a breadth of change she had experienced.