Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Where the Crab Apples Bite





Crab Apple trees are beautiful pollinizers, valued as decorative trees for their lovely spring flowers, their tart fruit used mainly in jellies, or for apple cider and an orchard of them can be a fragrant and  magical place in the spring. Crab Orchard was the name of a Township in early Mecklenburg County. It attained its name from an actual grove of Crab Trees that grew along the old Berryhill Road

While Crab Apple trees are inarguably lovely, they can also be painful. The wilder, more natural varieties, have thorns, or spurs, that can be painful when they bite. In the decades before, and shortly after the turn of the century, the 1800 to 1900 century, they all had thorns.


While taking a magnified look at the life of Margaret Ella Honeycutt, a daughter of Maniza Honeycutt, and supposedly George Washington Cagle, of Stanly County, North Carolina, and the many men in her life, some in Clear Creek Township, and others in Crab Orchard, in Mecklenburg County, where her family had relocated, I came across a conglomerate group of families more entangled than shaken, not stirred, spaghetti. 

It began with Jesse Saunders or Sanders, Ella's second husband. Jesse was much older than Ella, and she was his third wife. In fact, below is Jesse Sanders and his family in the 1860 census. At this time, they were located in Cabarrus County, near the town of Mount Pleasant, the census taker noted this section was a subdivision East of NC RR, which I take to mean the North Carolina Railroad. This is 1860, just before the Civil War. The railroad existed, but not yet in my neck of the woods in Stanly County, but I don't know how early it arrived in Cabarrus, so I am not entirely sure what "NC RR" meant. 



Here, Jesse is 36 years old, his wife is Elizabeth and their first three children have been born. Jesse and Elizabeth will have four in total. Next to their young family is the Wiley Saunders or Sanders family, and Wiley is only two years older than Jesse. Two men, close in age, living next to each other. The first question to enter my mind is, are they brothers. I would seek to find out more about Wiley later, and that's where my fall down the rabbit hole began. But first, lets explore more closely what we know about Jesse. 


So Jesse was a 36 year old man in 1860, with a family, and Ella wasn't even born yet, in fact, she wasn't in the 1870 census, either. Her first appearance was as an eight year old in the 1880 census, in Stanly County. We do know they were married in 1900, but not before they had two sons together, and was expecting a third child, who turned out to be their daughter, Mary. Their oldest son, whom they named Wylie D. G. Sanders, was born on January 24, 1895. Was this after his brother Wylie, perhaps? Wylie's birth suggests that Jesse had met Ella, who had moved to the Clear Creek section of Mecklenburg County with her mother and other siblings by this time.


The "L. Huneycutt" above the word Salem in this portion of the 1911 map of Clear Creek Township, Mecklenburg County, would have been Ella's uncle, Lindsey Huneycutt. Just above the big "R E" is marked Arlington Church, where Ella, and much of her family, including Lindsey, are buried.

Ella had met a dangerous, violent, crazy man, named James Alex Hagler, by whom she had a son, named Bub Alec Hagler, in 1891. Jesse seems to have taken her in and protected her. He raised her son as his own.


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In May of 1894, Alex Hagler had gotten into a fight with Miller Sanders, seen incorrectly as "Sadders", above. Miller, or Millard, was the Stephen M. Sanders in the 1860 census, and I can only imagine he was defending his aging father. This is about the exact time Ella became pregnant with Wylie. Jesse would have been about 60, and Ella, already having been married once and the mother of two children, Della and Bub, was all of 17.

Also mentioned in the article was Jesse's other son, Albert, and an action involving a MR Berryhill. Berryhill is another name to remember, as the congregate of families I will be looking into lived upon the Berryhill Road. So that gives a collective of three surnames to the Crab Orchard/ Clear Creek Clan: Sanders, Hagler, Berryhill.





Jesse's military record of his service in the Mexican War gives the following information. 

He was 21 years old, with blue eyes, fair (blonde) hair, with a 'ruddy', or reddish complexion. It stated he was born in Mecklenburg County, North Carolina, which is in opposition to his obituary. It could have been misunderstood by him to mean where he was living. He had enlisted on April 6, 1847, in Charlotte, by A. Harrison, in the 5th Regular Army. He was discharged on March 10, 1848, due to Debility. In the remarks, which seemed to describe where they were discharged, or how they were killed or injured, I can't decipher.


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A later newspaper article clears up what the remarks may have claimed. As it is so faint, I will transcribe the part relating to Jesse Sanders. Titled "Survivors of the Mexican War" and subtitled "But Three Mecklenburg Veterans Survive This Conflict of More Than a Half Century Ago - The Unfortunate Story of Mr. Jesse Sanders". 

"An Observer Reporter was talking with the genial Squire D. G. Maxwell yesterday........ Mr. Jesse Sanders, who now lives near Newell's, is the last of these aged citizens. There was no brave man nor more patriotic citizen than Mr. Sanders. His story is a very unfortunate one. At a camp near Matamoros (Mexico), he was taken with the most violent form of smallpox. It was necessary that he be removed and hence an ambulance was secured. As the wagon was moving off, the mules became frightened and ran away, throwing Mr. Sanders to the ground and severely injuring his back. He recovered from the smallpox with the loss of an eye. However, during the last half century he has been suffering with his back and has never recovered. Mr. Sanders draws a very comfortable pension from the government. While there are but three surviving veterans, still there are widows of these who participated in this struggle of long ago". 

The article was published in 1905, a year before Jesse passed. Knowing of his injuries, and the over 40-year age difference between Jesse and Ella, one can only wonder if he took her in and married her as an act of kindness, and also who the true father of the three Sanders children born of Ella Honeycutt. 


There are two documents that give a bit of a hint on who Jesse was, and where he came from. One was his marriage license to Ella Honeycutt. In this, she is seen by her married name of Yow, and her mother as 'Niza' Honeycutt.  The date was June 28th, 1900. This was the year of  the 1900 census, which was taken of them just a few days before the marriage. She had been living with Jesse as his housekeeper and had already had two Sanders children and was pregnant with the third.



I had to get a closer view of the document to attempt to transcribe the names of Jesse's parents.



His mother is clearly named as Sallie Sanders, a diminutive of Sarah. However, his father's name, which starts with a "J" is not as easy to deduce. Is it Joel? There doesn't appear to be an 'e'. Is it Josh? That last letter appears to be an 'l', not an 'h'. Honestly, it appears to be Jorl, which isn't a typical name in the English language.


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The other document that provides insight is his obituary, dated Monday, October 1, 1906. Yes, the marriage was brief, the relationship, longer. The facts that stand out were where he lived, near Newell Station, and it claimed he was over 90, he was not. He had given his age as 69, just six years prior. He was said to have been a resident of Mecklenburg County for 45 years, which would place his move there at 1861. He was living in Cabarrus County in the 1860 census, which is the first one that I know was our Jesse, as there were more than one Jesse Sanders in the state at that time. It also states that he was born in Union County, which at the time he was born would have placed him in either Anson, or Mecklenburg County, as Union wasn't formed until 1842. He is portrayed as an interesting character, and a Mexican War Vet. His widow is not named, just noted, but she was Ella. Not named are her three children, that were supposedly his, and of his four adult children, only Eliza, (Mrs. Nick Yates), Albert, and Sarah, (Mrs. William Bird), are mentioned, meaning Miller/Millard/Willard had predeceased his father. 

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The last I found of Miller was his mention in a 1902 petition with his father, as "Willard". This gives Miller/Willard a death year of between 1902 and 1906.

Back to what we know about Jesse.

In 1870, Jesse is living in Crab Orchard Township, Harrisburg Post Office. This is where he will spend his days for the rest of his life. Note that Crab Orchard was in Mecklenburg, while Harrisburg is in Cabarrus. He is now a widower, with his four teenaged children by his first wife, known only as Elizabeth, Eliza, 18, Miller, 15, Albert, 13, and Sarah, 11. Jesse's age is given as 37.



Jesse remarries in May of 1872 to a lady named Mary Bird. Actually, the name written in the mother's spot is Mary Bird, but the woman's name was indeed Mary. The document is so faded that the other names are impossible to make out. 


Mary Byrd or Bird Sanders is living in the 1880 census, when she is shown as a 32 year old, giving her a birth year of around 1848. This is all I know about the second wife, her name, Mary Bird and her year of birth.




To add to the family names to be on the lookout for, the four children of Jesse Sanders and his wife, Elizabeth married into the following families:


Eliza Jane Sanders Yates

Eliza Jane Sanders (1852-1930) married Nicodemus Yates.

Stephen Miller (Millard/Willard) Sanders (1855-1902) Never Married.

Albert Sanders (1857-1924) married Mary Jane Phillips.

Sarah A. Sanders (1859-1927 is) married William Henry Bird or Byrd.

Note that Jesse Sanders married a Mary Bird in 1872, who was deceased by 1900, and probably before he became involved with Ella Honeycutt Yow by at least 1894. Was there a relation between Mary Bird and William Henry Bird?

Especially of note is the wife of Albert Sanders, Mary Jane Phillips. She was the daughter of Henry and Esther Phillips. In my earlier post on Ella, Her Mother's Savage Daughter, it was noted that her insane lover, James Alex Hagler had been married to another daughter of this couple, named Harriett Phillips. This is the same fellow that Miller Sanders had fought with in 1894. Harriett had left Alex by then, as she was having two more sons, but not by Alex, but by a mysterious D C Taylor. Not only that, two of Alex's brothers had married Phillip's sisters. So, two more surnames to log into the Crab Orchard Collective, Byrd/Bird and Phillips. It's about time to look into the Phillips family. 




The above shows the townships of Mecklenburg County. The City of Charlotte has nearly eaten the entire thing, but you can get an idea of where Crab Orchard sat in correlation with Clear Creek, where the Honeycutts settled, and how close they were to the Cabarrus County border.

The Phillips

1850 Union County


Henry Phillips raised his family in Union County. In 1850, Henry is a 37 year old farmer, whose birthplace is unknown. His 28 year old wife Esther, is from Union County, as was all seven of their children; Eliza, 12, Mary, 11, William S., 10, M. J. 9, S. C., 7, infant Isabella, and son, J. M. who lost his place in line. Henry's first wife was Esther Mullis Phillips, daughter of Solomon R. Mullis and his wife, Edith Griffin, and she passed away in 1852.

Henry remarried as men with young children often did, on August 1, 1853 to Mary Elizabeth Fincher.



Mary was the daughter of  Elias Fincher and Marion West, and she is in my family tree, as I have Fincher ancestors.



The 1860 census shows Henry as 48 and Mary as 28. His son, John, by Esther, is the only one of his older children in the home and he and Mary have three already, Harriett, who would marry James Alex Hagler, Henry M. and Samuel A. 


By 1870, they are up to seven.





And by 1880, their last child, Barbara, or Barbary, has arrived.

All in all, Henry and his second wife, Mary, will have 10 children, and these are primarily with whom we are concerned. 

Henry Phillips children with Esther Mullis Phillips were:

Elizabeth "Eliza Phillips (1838-1919) Married William H. Aycock

Mary Phillips (1839-1863) Married Michael Bryant Harrell.

Monika Jane aka "Micky Jane" Phillips (1841-1901) Married Josiah Helms.

Sarah L Phillips (1843- between 1870-1880) Married Calvin Williams.

John Milton Phillips (1847-1917) Married Caroline Hinson

Isabella Phillips (1850- before 1860) appears to have died as a child.

Henry Phillips and Mary Elizabeth Fincher Phillips children were:

Harriett Edith Phillips (1855-1929) Married James Alexander Hagler first. Later relationship with D C Taylor and brief marriage to Harvey Barley/Barlow.

Henry Milton Phillips (1855-1934) Married Mary Isabella Haywood

Samuel Alexander Phillips (1858-1934) Married Carrie Elizabeth Biggers.

William Jackson Phillips (1840- before 1870) Married Adaline Helms. Injured in the Civil War, later died of wounds. 

Celia Ann Phillips (1860-1945) Married Isaac Wilson "Wilkes" Hagler, a brother of James Alex Hagler.

Mary Jane Phillips (1863-1945) Married Albert Sanders.

Adaline Phillips (1868-1929) Married Daniel Rome Kepley.

Annie Emilissa Phillips (1869-1939) Married Michael Hokes "Mike" Hagler, a brother of the before mentioned Hagler's.

Barbara Phillips (1870-unknown) Appears to have died as a child or teen.

As one can see, there was a connection between the Hagler's and Sanders through the Phillips family, which is how Ella probably met them. 


Henry Phillips dies in 1881, leaving Mary with all of those children.


Mary Fincher Phillips is found in 1900, boarding with a Cochran family. Her daughter, Adaline is boarding with her, with a one month old baby boy named Johnson Phillips.

1910

Mary died in 1904. Following Adaline, she is found in 1910, living with John Hooks Hagler and his young family. She's listed as an Aunt, and is, as he is the son of her sister, Harriet, and Crazy Alex Hagler.

Also in the home is her sister, Eliza Phillips, and her two young children. She's not a widow. In the next household, her husband, Mike, is listed, working as farm help.

As for Crazy Alec's wife, Harriet Phillips, she's remarried, to a nice older fellow named Henry Barley from Clear Creek 


Her boys by DC Taylor, who remains a mystery, for the moment, have been bound out to work for neighbors.



They are seen as Hired boys, Edd and Brice Taylor, Edd 17 and Brice 15, working for families listed next to each other, about five households away from their mother. They will go by Taylor the rest of their lives. 

So we're paying close attention to the following families now, Sanders, Taylor, Phillips, and to a lesser degree, Hagler and Berryhill.

Now, with that sample background on the Jesse Sanders family and their connections with the Phillips, Hagler and Taylor families, back to the question of Who Was Wylie Sanders, not Jesse's son, Wylie, but the one he lived next to in 1860, who was two years his senior. 

Who Was Wylie Sanders?

Like Jesse, I have not confidentially located Wylie in the 1850 census, or any records prior to his appearance in the 1860 census of Cabarrus County. Taken on the 21st of June, 1860, Jesse is shown as 36 and Wylie as 38, side by side, in Mount Pleasant Post Office, in the "Subdivision of NC RR", of which description, I am not certain. In his household, besides himself was: Adeline P. age 38, which we can assume to be his wife. She is later seen as Emeline. Having seen the juxtaposition of these two names before in these old records, similar to Caroline and Camaline, and other names, I don't believe there was both an Adeline and an Emeline, but they referred to one woman. There was a 9 year-old boy, Wilson and one year old fraternal twins, Mary and Pinkney. Lastly, a 48 year old woman named Sarah Walls completed the household grouping. Both Jesse and Wylie are seen as Day Laborers.




Wylie makes a second appearance in the 1860 census. This time he was enumerated in the 'Western Section' of Cabarrus County, by a different census taker, and this was on June 2, 1860, a few weeks before he was enumerated with his family. This happened rather often in these old records. Many were missed, some were counted twice or more. Here, Wylie is working as a laborer on the farm of a Robert S. Query. Their neighbor, Wilson Bones, was working as a laborer on the railroad, so that shows that the railroad was indeed coming through those parts in this years. Of note, on the farm of Elam Query next to Robert is a 17 year old laborer named Obediah Walls, and above Elam, the household of a 27 year old William Walls and his wife, Adeline. Recall there was a Sarah Walls living with Wylie and his family. 


NameWiley Saunders
SideConfederate
Regiment State/OriginNorth Carolina
Regiment42nd Regiment, North Carolina Infantry
CompanyB
Rank InPrivate
Rank OutPrivate
Film NumberM230 roll 34


As time would have it and as was destiny for the time, Wiley Sanders or Saunders, enlisted in the Civil War. His record was not outstanding in any form, aside from its lack of extraordinariness, to be honest. He appeared at every roster, was neither sick nor injured, well into 1865, which was unusual in and of itself. Then late in the War, near its culmination, he was taken Prisoner at Fort Fisher and then transferred to Fort Delaware. Wylie may have made it home, but then again he may not have. There is no real record of what happened to him. Two facts remain. 

Wylie had enlisted in Rowan County under Major George Gibbs.





In June of 1865, his wife, Emeline Sanders, a Housekeeper, was swearing her allegiance before a Provost Marshall, my guess, to apply for his pension, relief or other reasons, also in Rowan County. 


As for Jesse, who had served in the Mexican War when he was younger, he appears to have registered for a Senior Reserve militia in Mecklenburg County, where I knew he had moved to. 



While there were many Sanders or Saunders in the War, as the spellings were interchangeable, especially in the areas of Montgomery and Randolph Counties, and also in Franklin County, with a Jesse A. and Jesse H. in Montgomery, there was only one Jesse I have found in Mecklenburg, and that was the Jesse who married Ella Honeycutt. Jesse had named his oldest son with Ella, Wylie, and I believe he may have been the namesake of this Wylie.

Wylie Pinkney Sanders appears no more, except in the records of his children, from whom we learn that his middle name was Pinkney. So now we must switch over to Emeline.


As Wiley was enumerated twice in 1860, Emeline was also enumerated twice in 1870, which was a propitious occurrence, as it gives not one, but two glimpses into her life in those days.

On September 17, 1870, Emeline is shown living in Crab Orchard, in Mecklenburg County, with a Post Office in the town of Harrisburg, which was in Cabarrus. They seem to have been close to the County line.



NameEmeline Saunders
Age in 187038
Birth Dateabt 1832
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Dwelling Number97
Home in 1870Crab Orchard, Mecklenburg, North Carolina
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Post OfficeHarrisburg
OccupationKeeping House
Personal Estate Value45
Inferred ChildrenPinkney Saunders


Household members
NameAge
Emeline Saunders38
Pinkney Saunders11
Mary Saunders11
Sarah Saunders3
Sarah Walls55
   Burah Walls  20


Emeline is shown as a 38 year-old housekeeper, with her 11 year-old twins, Pinkney and Mary. She now has a three- year-old daughter, Sarah. Still in her home is Sarah Walls, 55, and now included is Sarah's son, Burah 20, which is quite fortunate, as I will explain momentarily. Sarah is listed as an invalid, while Burah is listed as a laborer.



Later, on  September 20, same place, same channel, we're presented with a very different scenario. Next to a Mr. Pinkney Berryhill, who lived nest to an older, W. H. Berryhill, was the home of a 55 year old invalid widow named Sarah Berry and her 20 year old son, Burrell. Emeline Sanders is working as a laborer for Mrs. Berry. Next door, the twins, Pinkney and Mary, labeled as age 12 in this one, are picking cotton for Mary Waisner, age 45.  Mary Waisner is a widow, with a 22 year old daughter named Ellen and a 17 year old daughter named Roxie. Also in the home is a 5 year old Sarah "Whiley", whom I believe could very well be the same child as 3 year old Sarah Sanders in the previous record. Ages were very fluid in these old records. 



You might have noticed one character missing in this timeframe, that of Wylie's oldest son, Wilson Sanders. James Wilson Saunders is found in the same Township and same Post Office as the rest of his family, 9 pages over, working on the farm of Mr. William Carter.  He's now 20, just above him is another Saunders, Francis, 23. Turns out just a few months prior, Wilson married Miss Francis Carter, so this is his wife. Also in the home of William and Jane is their widowed daughter, Sarah Carter Taylor, 27, and her children. They are living among a whole grove of Carters and Taylors. Now is where I turn my attention to another set of characters in this menage that were recently introduced, Sarah and Burah Walls and Mary Wasiner. First, the Walls. 

We know that Sarah was living with Wylie and Emeline in 1860 and that Sarah and Burah were living with Emeline in 1870. Sarah was a very common name, but Burah wasn't and it was fortunate that Burah Mckee Walls had joined his mother in 1870, because then, I was able to locate the family quickly and easily. 

Sarah Walls was the widow of a William Walls, with origins in Rowan and Cabarrus, before arriving in Mecklenburg. He was some relation to a Sterling, or Starling Walls, born about 1795, and a Lewis Martin Walls, born about 1815.


NameWilliam Walls
GenderMale
RaceWhite
Residence Age49
Birth Dateabt 1801
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Residence Date1850
Home in 1850Back Creek, Mecklenburg, North Carolina, USA
OccupationLaborer
IndustryIndustry Not Reported
Line Number42
Dwelling Number1087
Family Number1092
Inferred SpouseSarah Walls
Inferred ChildEmeline Walls; Pleasant Walls; George Walls; Lanson Walls; Ann Walls; Wesley Walls
Household members
NameAge
William Walls49
Sarah Walls38
Emeline Walls19
Pleasant Walls15
George Walls12
Lanson Walls8
Ann Walls5
Wesley Walls4
Kee McWalls1
George Jorden32

Burah McKee Walls was the youngest child in the family, and as shown above in the 1850 census, Emeline was the oldest. Second born was William Pleasant Walls, who was shown in the 1860 census above Wylie Sanders when he was in the Robert Query household. Obediah Walls, on the same page, was the son of Lewis Walls. Lewis Walls married a Lucinda Jordan, whose brother, George, is seen in the William Walls household, above.

Burah McKee Walls, the key to unlocking this relationship, married a Mary C. Deaton Howard in Iredell County in 1874. They had one child, a daughter, and he died on 1898, at the age of 48, in Broughton Hospital, in Morganton, and is buried on the hospital grounds there. A brief bit of research on this family gives us the maiden name of Sarah Walls. She was a Saunders.

So now we have three older members of a Saunders/ Sanders family, Jesse, Wylie and Sarah. How do they relate, if they relate at all? But, back to Emeline and her children again.

Wylie evidently died prior to 1870, as his wife and children are alone, and he wasn't noted as passing away during the course of the war. How long did he live afterwards, though? Who was the little girl, Sarah? Had she been born just before or soon after he died? Or was she the child of someone else?

Emmaline in not seen after 1870, it appears she expired before 1880.

Their oldest child, son James Wilson Sanders, born about 1851, had married Francis Carter. There were no children born to that marriage. He then married Alice C Taylor, after Frances died in 1900. Alice was the daughter of Harvey Smith Taylor and Mary Ann Jordan. Another Taylor, and another Jordan, recall, Lewis M. Walls had also married into the Jordan family. What a soup! There were three children born into the Sanders-Taylor union: John Franklin Sanders in 1903, Annie Mae in 1905 and Leila Belle in 1906. Sadly, Alice died in 1909, Wilson followed in 1910, both buried at Hickory Grove, where a number of those previously mentioned are buried. 



The children lived with relatives and in orphanages afterward. 

The twins next, Mary and Pinkney both born in 1859. Mary M. Saunders married William Thomas Walker, son of Billy and Polly Freeman Walker on September 26,  1877. He had been previously married to an Elizabeth and had two children. Together, they had three more, Cora, Parks and one unknown. It appears Mary and Tom separated, but didn't divorce. She moved to Rock Hill, York, South Carolina, where she died on March 3, 1916, at age 57. Her husband died March 26, 1927 in Gaston County, NC

Pinkney Pleasant Saunders also married in 1877 to Mary Louisa Ingram, daughter of Frank Ingram. The family worked in textiles and moved from Crab Orchard, Mecklenburg to Ebenezer in York County, SC. They had seven children between 1879 and 1897; Emma, Pinkney, Mary, John, Will, Jesse Walker and Archie.

Pinkney Pleasant Saunders died on September 5, 1938, in Rock Hill, York, South Carolina at the age of 79.


As for the little girl, Sarah, born in 1867, no more of her is known. Was she Emeline and Wylie's child, or Emeline and someone else's, or no relationship at all? Was she a Saunders, a While or a Whitley? 

Mary Waisner 

The next person I wish to scrutinize is Mary Waisner. As shown earlier, in 1870, she was a 45 year old widow, with two daughters, Ellen and Roxie, who had the Saunders twins, at 12, Mary and Pinkney, picking cotton, and living with her, while their mother, Emeline was occupied next door at Sarah Berry's. She also had a five year old Sarah 'Whiley' in her household. 


Going back a decade, before the appearance of Mary and her daughters in Crab Orchard, she is found in the Eastern Division of Mecklenburg, in 1860, which was probably the same place she was in ten years later. Her husband, David Waisner, is still alive in 1860. There was a David Waisner who served in the Civil War, who signed up in Greensboro. I am not inclined to believe they are the same man as Mary's David was born in 1802, making him a little long-in-the-tooth. Ellen has been born, but Roxie has not, and there is a one-year-old son, John, who appears to have died as a child.

Ellen marries John A. Adams in 1875 and in the 1880 census, they all appear to be living in the same place, and all along Berryhill Road.



Mary and Roxie are listed in household 148, Ellen and her husband are in 149, and in 151 is the Henry Taylor family that there's much intermarriage with over two or three generations. As an aside, Mary Huck, who was just below them in 1870, is just above them in 1880, so they were along Berryhill Road the entire time. 

Mary isn't seen after 1880, and her burial place is unknown, but very possibly she was interred at Hickory Grove in an unmarked, or no longer marked, grave. Her daughter, Roxanna Waisner, never marries, and lives with her sister's family until she passes away at the age of 67 on December 19, 1921, into the realm of birth certificates.

Roxie's death certificate gives the name of her parents as David Waisner and Mary Sanders. ANOTHER Sanders. 

The informant was J. F. Waisner and she was buried, unsurprisingly, at Hickory Grove.  So who was J. F. Waisner? John Frank Waisner was the son of John D. Waisner and Mary Jane Clark. He grew up in Paw Creek in Mecklenburg County, born around 1853. I get the feeling he was probably Roxie's cousin on her father's side, though I've not researched the Waisner's deeply enough to be certain of that. 

I jumped a little bit ahead with that, revealing Roxie's death certificate. There were more surprises and connections.



The 1900 census shows the Adams, with their son, Kenny J. It's difficult to read, but the R. Waisner, sister-in-law was Roxie.  Right below them is a very familiar looking record. J Sanders, followed by sons Millard, an adult, and three little boys Alec, Wylie and Guy Sanders and ending with boarder, "E. Yould". This was the census record of Jesse Sanders, with his son Millard by his first wife and Ella Honeycutt Yow, just days before their marriage, with her son Bub Alec Hagler, and their sons, Wylie and Guy Sanders, while Ella was pregnant with their last child, daughter Mary. Was she named for Mary Sanders Wisner?


The last census, 1910, was blurry, but legible. It leads off with Dennis Melley, the Irish miner and Civil War Vet who served in Pennsylvania, and married Mary J. Sternes, mentioned earlier. They have with them an adopted child named Mamie Phillips. She must be from the Henry Phillips family in some way, just from the proximity and entanglements. They are followed by Ellen Waisner Adams, her son, John and her sister Roxanna. They are followed by the Taylors, who have two grandchildren, John F. Sanders and Lela B Sanders, children of James Wilson Sanders, who had married his daughter, Alice Taylor, both who had died within the previous two years. They are followed by more Taylor relatives, and Ceni A. Grant, whose actual name was Serena Taylor Grant. 

I've now uncovered four senior Sanders, who lived near each other, in multiple locations, staying connected and their children staying connected, almost like.. A Family.

Sarah Sanders Walls (1812- before 1880)
Wylie Pinkney Sanders (1822-before 1870)
Jesse Sanders (1824-1906)
Mary Sanders Waisner (1825-before 1900)

In Jesse Sanders records, his mother's name is Sarah, or Sallie as a diminutive. His father's name starts with a "J", but is unclear. I haven't found Jesse in the 1850 census. Going back another decade, I have found this record of a female-led household for a Sarah Saunders. 


It shows a woman in her forties in a household with two young women in their 20's (could one have been Sarah Saunders Walls? There's another teenaged girl and two boys between 10 and 14. That works for Jesse and Wylie. Could the teenaged girl have been Mary, as her age "floats", like often happened in census records of those days, especially for women who liked to pass themselves off as younger. Have I found the Sanders family, at least, in part. I wouldn't think Sarah Sanders Walls was necessarily a sister, perhaps an aunt, instead. After all, she was the mother of Emeline Walls, who married Wylie. Cousin marriages were common, uncle/nieces not so much, but that did happen on a rare occasion, especially among the landed gentry. I found it among the Hairstons of the enormous Cooleemee Plantation, and the Balls of South Carolina.

There is one more record that I found interesting. 


In 1850, in the town of Chesterfield, South Carolina, just below the NC boarder, three young adult Sanders, appearing to be a sibling group, are living with a Mrs. Jane Perris, (which turns out to be Pervis), and her son James. Two of them match up with Wylie Pinkney Sanders and Mary, but there is a third, Jane. This record requires more research. Could this have been a different Pinkney Sanders? Are the Purvis's tied in somehow? Of course, there's much more to discover, if I chose to go down this rabbit hole. One thing is for sure, for the Sanders and their conglomerate neighbors and interwoven families, there was lots of excitement and entanglement on Berryhill Road, and those Crabapple trees certainly did bite. 



Monday, December 29, 2025

The Last Davis



I woke up this morning to discover that my mother's last living sibling had passed away. Lewis Douglas Davis was the oldest of the four Davis siblings, and the longest lived. His obituary can be accessed below.


The photo above shows a proud father and his four little ones, all born within a span of six years. From left to right is Sylvia, the third child, then Doug, the oldest, born in 1933, then Granpa, whom I lovingly called "Pawpaw", with my Momma, the youngest, born in 1939, sitting on his knee, while Pawpaw hugged the shoulder of Kent, the second oldest. They are sitting in front of the Wiscassett Mills Office, which indeed defined their lives for a millenium. I think all of them may have worked there, at some point. I know my Grandfather, Lewis Theodore Davis, did. I know my Mother did when she first came home from Pennsylvania, me in tow, while my father fought in foreign wars, while we lived with my grandparents. And I know Uncle Doug did, because I well remember him living along the road that curved around the creek, before he moved first to "New Town", a more recent section of Mill Village, built to accommodate workers at a new branch of the factory, before he moved his family off the Mill Hill and out to New London for a better life and future, working double-shifts to be able to afford what he wanted for his family, so they would not have to work as hard as he did. 

Uncle Doug married young and the first two of his children were the first of the ten grandchildren for Lewis and Maude Davis. His third, and last,came a year after me, and I was fourth- born. Some of my memories of Uncle Doug included the first time I watched "Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer" in front of their TV with my cousin, Barry, sitting on the floor in the house on the S-shaped street. Another was when a skunk had gotten itself trapped inside his garage after their move to the woodsy, New Town neighborhood, unbeknownst to my Uncle, who discovered it in the worst imaginable way. The smell, the tub of tomato juice, his not being allowed in the house,and the horrible sickness following the incident, can bring back chuckles now.



There was a quiet period in my memories of my Uncle, a time between childhood and older adulthood. It came after the above picture was made, at my Grandparents 50th wedding anniversary, their four children standing behind and around them. There was a family fracture, not a rare thing in any group of people. I was still a teenager, and not familiar with all the details, so have no room to speak, but it was a period of time that spanned decades, where my oldest Uncle did not participate in family events with the rest of his siblings.The rift, I believe, was more between spouses ,than siblings,as I would run into my Uncle, on occassion, it being a small town. There would be no acknowledgment, if he wasn't alone, but he would make it a point to dive momentarily behind an aisle in a store or other obstacle, like a vehicle, to dash a quick wave, to let me know he had seen me. If he was alone, there would be a quick and friendly, if albeit nervous, conversation. 

Later on, things seemed to ease up and bygones became bygones. More important things were coming to the forefront as my grandparents, and then the siblings, aged. Uncle Doug was the one member of the family who shared my love of family history. He loved talking Davis. I'm glad I was able to share with him our Davis connections to Jamestown. .

I recall the day he brought one of those Coat of Arms certificates that explain the origins of names that originated in the UK and shows the family Coat of Arms.




He exclaimed, "We're Jewish" and Welsh. I had seen this before. The Davis name originated in Wales and is Welsh for "Son of David", or in other words, Davidson. It came from a group of Sephardic Jews who had arrived there in the 1250's. Our DNA tells another story. There have been a sufficient number of Davis men who have Y-DNA tested from our line of Davis's to tell it. 

We have held the name Davis for a very long time, since before our lineages arrival in North America. But sometime upwards of 500 years ago, our ancestors were Turnbulls. We match a great number of Turnbulls and Trimbles, which is a name that branches off of Turnbull. It dates back to the Boenician people from the Scotts/English border region and began with a man named Rule or Ruel. Ruel saved the life of King Robert the Bruce at Stirling Park from a charging bull, by turning the bulls head. 

Ruel was rewarded with lands in Bedrule and given the name Turnbull. He served at the Battle of Halidon Hill against the English army in 1333. He had a big black dog by his side as he dashed ahead of the Scotts into battle, challenging any Englishman in his wake to fight. Sir Robert Venal of Norfolk accepted his challenge, ending the lives of Ruel Turnbull and his big black dog. Luckily, he left descendants, and here we are. Sometime after the demise of Ruel in 1333, and before the arrival of Captain James Davis to Jamestown in 1609, a little Turnbull boy was taken in by, or born into, a family of the Sephardic Jewish/Welsh Davis's from the Tribe of David. I believe we probably descend from both families.

Rest in Peace Lewis Douglas Davis. I hope you're having a wonderful reunion in heaven with Papaw, and Grandma, Uncle Kent, Aunt Sissy and Momma, and all the others who've gone before.




C
 

Monday, December 22, 2025

Her Mother's Savage Daughter





There's a lovely old song making its way through TikTok Videos and Instagram Influencers in a revival of historic traditional folk songs. By Wyndreth Berginsdottir, it's a rebirth from the Viking tradition and has become an anthem of empowered women. Above, I've posted a photo of my own Savage Daughter. I have two of them, both beautiful, creative, and forcefully strong women. My youngest is more of an Earth Mother, bound to nature, with flowers blooming at her feet. This, my oldest, is more the savage, making her own way in life, living by her own rules, caution to the wind, advancing, surviving, succeeding, and letting no one stand in her way. I refer to her as my chihuahua, small in size and big in personality.

While researching the family of Maniza Ann Honeycutt, which I feel a bit incomplete on, one of her children stood out to me as the feral child, Margaret Ella, one of her youngest. Born late in Maniza's string of children, Ella's path seemed irregular, her story incomplete, yet fascinating. What facts and events created Ella?

The words to the beautiful Viking ballad, written by Wyndreth Berginsdottir are:

"I am my mother's Savage daughter,
the one who runs barefoot cursing sharp stones.
I am my mother's savage daughter, 
I will not cut my hair; I will not lower my voice."

This is but the chorus. I will be repeating the remainder of the lyrics throughout this post. 

Maragaret Ella Honeycutt is shown with her mother Maniza, "Nizey", and her younger sister, Rebecca, in the 1880 census of Big Lick, Stanly County, NC, as an 8-year-old.







Her supposed father, George Cagle, to whom her mother was a long-time mistress and paramour, died in 1876, at the hands of a jealous and abusive husband, Daniel Crisco, who was also an employee of Cagle. Her mother was the daughter of George Washington Honeycutt and his wife, Tabitha Tomlinson Honeycutt, who had moved to Coddle Creek, in Iredell County by this year, leaving their wayward daughters in Stanly County.  Ella's date of birth is debatable and highly fluid. Upon her death, one of her sons informed the writer of her death certificate that she was 60 years old, which in 1935, would have given her a birth year of 1875. She was listed as 8 in 1880, but I feel she was much older than that at the time. She was young upon the date of her first marriage, I am sure, but not as young as her death certificate implies. 

It's unknown what life was like for Maniza and her younger children after the death of George Cagle. She obviously attempted to carry on, on her own, to be found still in Big Lick in 1880, four years after his murder. His legal widow, Nancy, moved to Iredell County, with others of his children, after his death. These included Maniza's own oldest son, Ellison "Eli" F. Cagle. He would later move to the Clear Creek Community in northern Mecklenburg County, which appears to be the area that the children of Maniza would congregate, and where Maniza would call home in her later decades, with the support of her children, in particular, her sons. 

Her second oldest son, James Alfred, seems to have been the official caretaker and 'rock' of the fatherless bunch, as his name ends up on records of siblings and aunts in various capacities. In 1880, he was a young 23, married to his first wife, Tisha Willliams, and living in Goose Creek, Union County. 

Oldest daughter, Eliza Jane, was only 17, a wife and mother to an infant son, Eli, and living in New Salem, Union County. 

The middle children, like William Daniel Hice, shown as 3-year-old William Honeycutt in 1870, and Mary Caroline, aka 'Lina', who was married in 1879 at 14-years-old, are not to be found in 1880.

Ella, it seems, was also forced into a very early marriage, perhaps one she was not happy about. 






On December 18, 1883, L. F. Yow, age 27, of Stanly County, son of Mary Yow and father unknown, married "Eller" Honeycutt, age 16, of Stanly County, daughter of 'Nisy' Honeycutt and father unknown. Nisy Honeycutt gave the permission for her underage daughter to marry. The marriage took place at the office of J. H. Honeycutt, Justice of the Peace, in Big Lick, Stanly County. Witnesses were C D Lowder, P F Huneycutt and Lina McIntyre, sister of the bride. 



This would have given Ella a birth year of 1867. If she and Eva, a newborn in the 1870 census, were one and the same, she would have been born in 1869, she could have, however, been missed. If she were indeed 8 years old in the 1880 census, as she was counted, she would have only been 11 years old at this marriage. Whichever scenario holds true, two facts withstand; her age was fluid, and she was a very young bride. 





 Lindsey Frank Yow had arrived in the world on July 25, 1856, in similar conditions as Ella Honeycutt. A Bastardy Bond would declare one Henry Atkins Easley as his father. Henry Easley had sprang from two of the wealthiest families along the Rocky River on the border of Stanly and Anson County, in the fertile Cottonville area just a few miles from its confluence with the Pee Dee River. He was the son of wealthy Miller Easley and his wife Francis Kendall. Miller would marry multiple times and lastly to a Great, Great, Great Aunt of mine. Henry was the grandson of John Kendall and Susanna Gaines, and Thornton Kendall and his wife, Mary. Stanly County was not a large slave-holding county full of wealthy planters during the Antebellum years, but there existed a small community of them, concentrated near the rivers, and clustered about the forks. The Kendall's and Easley's were two of them. 

Mary "Polly" Yow hailed from very different origins. 





Polly was the daughter of Dennis Yow and his wife, Mary Elizabeth Shoffner. She came from German roots, that had trickled into Stanly County from the Cabarrus and Rowan County borders from the north and west. They had settled in Tyson Township, not far from where the Easley's lived. Dennis Yow struggled with debt off and on. He was a Yeoman farmer. The above is a portion of the 1870 census of Tyson Township, showing the small Yow family, living among their Shoffner relatives. Dennis and wife are in their 70's. Their single daughter, Mary "Polly" Yow, at 30, is living with them. Her 14-year-old son, Lindsey is living with them, too.

Can you imagine how an innocent, 16 year old Lutheran girl would feel, if she encountered a charming and flirtatious young gentleman in his twenties, Methodist Episcopal, educated and a bit arrogant, while she might have been humble by nature, perhaps shy, and most definitely naive. 


How easily she may have fallen for his wiles, smitten and taken under his spells. There may have been promises of marriage, she may have been afraid of losing him. We can't know, but can imagine the scenario.

Lindsey was born in 1856. Henry Easley would marry four years later to Elizabeth Smith, daughter of Lewis and Dorcas Smith, respectable family. 

And there was the disgraced Polly Yow, in 1870, at 30, living with her parents, and her misbegotten son, 14 year old Lindsey. But she would find love. 


 Polly would marry a month later, on July 17, 1870, to John Carpenter, son of Thomas Carpenter and wife, Besty Broadaway Carpenter, ancestors of mine. Like many others I've feature in recent posts, they would move to Iredell County, North Carolina. John Carpenter and Polly Yow Carpenter would have one son, William J. Carpenter. 



In 1880, Lindsey is living with his widowed grandfather, Dennis, next door to his mother, stepfather and half-brother. At this juncture, they are still in Tyson Township, Stanly County. Three years later, he marries Ella Honeycutt. 

The marriage produces one child, a daughter Della. 




Twenty years later, young Della is living with her grandparents, the Carpenters, in Coddle Creek, Iredell County. Where are her parents?


NameFrank ?? Yow
Age43
Birth DateJul 1856
BirthplaceNorth Carolina, USA
Home in 1900China Grove, Rowan, North Carolina
House Number49
Sheet Number14
Number of Dwelling in Order of Visitation242
Family Number245
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusDivorced
Father's BirthplaceNorth Carolina, USA
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina, USA
OccupationDay Laborer
Months Not Employed0
Can ReadY
Can WriteY
Can Speak EnglishY
House Owned or RentedOwn
Farm or HouseH
NeighborsView others on page
Household members
NameAge
Frank ?? Yow43

Frank is living in China Grove, Rowan County, working as Laborer. His marital status is given as 'Divorced'. 

What had happened?
Fortunately, the divorce was preserved in Court records.




IN the Fall Term of 1890,  the case of  "L. F. Yow vs. Ella Yow" was brought before Judge Byrum. The judgement was rendered against the Plaintiff for failing to be present. The details of the case follows.




I     That on or about the 20th day of December, 1883, in Stanly County, he (the plaintiff, Lindsey F.Yow), was married to the defendant.

II    That the plaintiff was at the time of the several acts of adultery hereinafter mentioned and at the commencement of the actions and  inhabitant of the county and State.

III  That the defendant on or about the  ___ day of ____ 1885 committed adultery with one John Carter.

IV    That the defendant on or about the ____ day of ____ 1886 committed adultery with one Jackson Gurley.

V    That the defendant at diverse times and places has committed adultery with various other persons to the plaintiff unknown.

VI    That said adultery was committed without the consent, connivance or...      




procurement of the plaintiff and that the plaintiff has not cohabitated with the defendant since such adulterous intercourse was discovered by the plaintiff.

VII     That the issue of said marriage is one child, named Della J. Yow of the age of one and one half years. 
        Wherefore the plaintiff demands judgement.
1.     For a divorce from the bonds of matrimony. 
2.    That the custody of said child be awarded to him. 

    L. F. Yow being duly sworn says that the facts set forth in the foregoing complaint of his own knowledge are true except those matters therein stated on information and belief as to those matters he believe items to be true; that this complaint is not made out of levity or by collusion between him and the defendant, and not for the mere purpose of being freed and separated from each other, but in sincerity and in truth for the causes mentioned in the complaint that the facts set forth in the complaint are grounds for divorce have ajusted to his.



Knowledge for at least six months prior to the filing of this complaint + that the plaintiff has been a resident of the State of North Carolina for more than two years preceding the filing of this complaint. 

Signed in a lovely script, L. F. Yow.  On the 10th day of September 1887.


"My mother's child is a savage,
She looks for her omens in the colors of stones,
In the faces of cats, in the fall of feathers, 
In the dancing of fire and the curve of old bones."


In summary, Ella had married, as a very young teenager, to 27 year old Lindsey Yow, who was himself an illegitimate child, as was she. Her mother may have pressed it, to get her married off before Ella, herself, became an unwed mother. 

They married near Christmas in 1883, and their only child, Della J Yow, who Lindsey requested, and received, custody of, was born early in the winter of 1886, as she was a year and a half old in September of 1887. Lindsey had caught his wife with a man named John Carter in 1885, and a year later, caught her with Jackson Gurley in 1886. He filed for divorce in 1887, suspecting her of having slept with other men, but had no proof or names,  just suspicions. 

For some reason, he had not shown up in court when the judgement was supposed to have been made, however, it seems the divorce was granted at some point, that fact withstanding. Who were these men that Ella had dalliances with, and why?


NameJackson G Gurley
Age in 187010
Birth Dateabt 1860
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Dwelling Number113
Home in 1870Big Lick, Stanly, North Carolina
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Post OfficeAlbemarle
Cannot ReadYes
Cannot WriteYes
Inferred MotherMary Gurley
Household members
NameAge
Mary Gurley68
Lucy Gurley30
Harriet Gurley26
Celia J Gurley23
Jackson G Gurley10


There was a Jackson G Gurley living in Big Lick in 1870.  At 10 years old, he would have been about 26 in 1886, when he was accused of an illicit relationship with Ella Honeycutt Yow. He's living in home of a Mary Gurley, 68, who may have been his Grandmother. Jackson is a bit of a mystery, but he's in the right place and the right age, to have been the accused.


NameJohn M. Carter
Age33
Birth DateAbt 1847
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Home in 1880Big Lick, Stanly, North Carolina, USA
Dwelling Number41
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Relation to Head of HouseSelf (Head)
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameAdeline Carter
Father's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
OccupationFarmer
Neighbors
There were a number of John Carter's in Stanly County at this time. Some of them were just children, but of the two in the most feasible age range, only one lived in Big Lick. For a young woman in the time just before the railroads came through, location had a large part to play in availability and opportunity. This John Carter was a married man in his 30's, but I've come to discover that in post war Big Lick, that didn't mean a thing. In 1885, when he was accused, he would have been 38, based on his age in the 1880 census, pictures above.


When we last saw young Della J. Yow, the only child of Lindsey F. and Margaret Ella Honeycutt Yow's marriage, she was 14 years old, and living with her grandmother, Mary Polly Yow Carpenter and her step-grandfather, and uncle, in the Coddle Creek area of Iredell County. Ella's firstborn didn't live a long life. Her tombstone gives no dates, but she is not to be found in the 1910 census, or beyond. I believe she passed away, perhaps as a teenager, between 1900 and 1910, perhaps of Typhoid Fever or the Spanish Flu, which were rampant in the early years of the 20th century. 



NameDella Yow
CemeteryAmity Evangelical Lutheran Church Cemetery
Burial or Cremation PlaceIredell County, North Carolina, United States of America





Della J Yow was buried at the Amity Evangelical Lutheran Church in Iredell County, NC. 


Her father spent his last years as a single man


Lindsey Frank Yow spent his last years alone, mining in Rowan and Cabarrus Counties








He passed away on June 20, 1917, at the age of 60, in Cabarrus County. His death certificate declared him married, although I've not found trace of another wife. He suffered from endocarditis and nephritis, which was rampant in those days. 
 
After her divorce from Lindsey, who seemed a steadfast and moral fellow, if nothing else, whom I feel loved her dearly despite her flaws, she went on to have bad taste in men, at least temporarily. Her next conquest, or love interest was a man so notorious, so dangerous, he was referred to as a local  ersatz "Jesse James" and was a married man. He became the father of her second child, Bub Alec Hagler, who was born on August 10, 1891. This indicates she was living in the Clear Creek area of Mecklenburg County, where several of her siblings and most likely, her mother, had taken root. Although her son with the aberrant name of "Bub" Alex Haigler took his father's last name, there was no record of a marriage or his divorce from his wife, not at this point in time.



My mother's child dances in darknessShe sings heathen songsBy the light of the moonAnd watches the stars and renames the planetsAnd dreams she can reach themWith a song and a broom



James Alexander Haigler or Hagler, was born in Buford, Lancaster County, South Carolina around May in 1849. He was the son of  Charles George Hagler and Mary "Polly Ann" Althea Honeycutt. His mother was indeed a distant cousin of Ella's. I believe their grandfathers were first cousins. He was raised in Union County, North Carolina from an early age.  

On March 1st, 1872, he married Harriett Phillips, daughter of Henry F. Phillips, and wife, Mary Elizabeth Fincher Starnes Phillips, which places her squarely in my family tree, as I am borh a Fincher and a Starnes descendant.


NameJames Hagler
Age31
Birth DateAbt 1849
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Home in 1880Clear Creek, Mecklenburg, North Carolina, USA
Dwelling Number22
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Relation to Head of HouseSelf (Head)
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameHariet Hagler
Father's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
OccupationFarmer
Cannot ReadY
Cannot WriteY
NeighborsView others on page
Household members
NameAge
James Hagler31
Hariet Hagler26
William E. Hagler6
Henry Hagler3
Ider Hagler1


In 1880, James Alec Hagler were living in Clear Creek Township, Mecklenburg, NC. The first three of their five children would be born. After that, things would go awry.  There were multiple marriages between the Phillips daughters and the Hagler sons.

James Alex Hagler married Harriett Edith Phillips on March 21, 1872 in Mecklenburg County.
Isaac Wilson Hagler married Celia Ann Phillips on July 4, 1884 in Mecklenburg County.
Michael "Mike" Hokes Hagler married Ann Emilissa Phillips on August 1, 1886 in Mecklenburg County.
 There may have been more connections.










Alex had another brother, Thomas, who had married a Hayes, not a Phillips, and had settled across the Cabarrus County line, in Rocky River Township. In 1885, Alex seems to have left Harriett and the children, and possibly staying with his brother, Thomas. The article below sets the stage.






In the hot Carolina summer of 1885, Alex had been a participant in a big family spat, armed himself and took to the woods to hide. What had spurred this behavior? Was the fight among he and his wife and children, his siblings, or the Phillips family, his in-laws? They all lived within one little cluster of Clear Creek, with the exception of his brother, Thomas. Had Alex been betrayed? Something that drove him to fury? Or was he mentally ill and seeing, or believing things that did not happen or did not exist?





The Charlotte Democrat

Charlotte, North Carolina • Page 2


A month later, in August, Alex was found and jailed. He had stolen a bay horse from a Mrs. Russell who lived near Rocky River Church, where a second and third Great Grandmother of mine are buried, along with distant aunts and uncles of previous generations. On the horse, it appears, he made his ways across the South Carolina into Chesterfield, where he was caught after stealing a gun. 

Evidentially, Alex served some time for his misadventures, how much, I didn't dig into too deeply. He was a free man, obviously, by 1890, when he would have met Ella Honeycutt. Their son, to whom they gifted the odd moniker of 'Bub Alec', was born on August 1, 1891.


My mother's child curses too loud and too often,
My mother's child laughs too hard and too long,
And howls at the moon and sleeps in ditches,
And clumsily raises her voice in this song.




Enter the Sanders. In May of 1894, Alex Hagler got in a fight with Miller 'Sadders', who was actually Miller or Millard Sanders. Both men were up for affray in Court and fined $25. Just below the mention of their fracas, we see that Albert Sanders was also in court, brought up on charges of obtaining goods from a Mr. Berry Hill under false pretenses. 

These weren't unrelated incidents and the names weren't a coincidence and the men were not random ne're-do-wells. 



In the 1870 census, we find both Miller, 15 and Albert, 13, in the home of one Jesse Snaders, 37. There are also two girls in the group, Eliza 18, and Sarah, 11. Certainly appears to be a family, and it was, a father and children who had just lost their mother, living together in Crab Orchard Township of Mecklenburg County, but using the Harrisburg Post Office in Cabarrus, so straddling the county lines, so to speak.

So, Alex Hagler had gotten in a skirmish with a Miller Sanders whose brother is mentioned as a thief or fraudster in the next line. What has that got to do with Margaret Ella Honeycutt Yow, the object of his affections, at least for a time in the early Gay Nineties? Quite a bit it seems.

Ella gave birth to her third child, a son, Wylie D. G. Sanders, on January 24, 1895, which would place the most probably date of his conception as between May 1st and May 5th, 1894. The fray between Alex Hagler and Miller Sanders was reported on May 6th , 1894. Which leads me to believe that Ella was at the center of the friction and confrontation between Alex Hagler and Miller Sanders. Do not let this lead you to believe that Miller Sanders, or even his shifty little brother, Albert, were the father of said Wylie D. G. Sanders. They were not, or, rather, reportedly not. The father was, on record at any rate, Miller and Albert's own father, Jesse Sanders. Now, is the year 1895, Jesse Sanders, the purported father of Wylie, was 64, Ella, his mother was 23, and Wylie's mischievous older brothers, Miller and Albert were a mere 40 and 38. It would seem that one or them would have been the more likely wooer of young Ella. Even at the brothers ages is gives a little repugnant feeling, or like my kids would say, "cringe". The thought of a 64 year old man with a 23 year old woman, even worse, and would lead one to think he must have had money. But it was the gilded age and the mores were very different. Ella was a divorced woman with an additional illegitimate child by a mad man and social derelict. That made every bit of difference in the world. It became a matter of whomever would give her shelter. It was quite the imbroglio and a tensile situation in any course.



Now we all are brought forth out of darkness and water,
Brought into this world through blood and through pain,
And deep in our bones, the old songs are wakening,
So sing them with voices of thunder and rain.



As far as Alex Hagler's wife, Harriett Phillips Hagler, he had long given up on her, it appears. She too, had another child about this time, and not with James Alexander Hagler. In fact she had two. Her son Edward L., aka Edd, was born on June 1, 1895 and her son Brice R. (Beverly) was born on October 14, 1896. The two brothers were listed as Taylors in 1910, and Edd's records names a 'D. C. Taylor' as his father. However, as adults, they both assumed the surname of Hagler and that is the name they passed down to their children.
 
The Hagglers, Phillips, Sanders and a few other intertwined families from this particular section along the Cabarrus/Mecklenburg border had several interactions with Taylors, too, so D. C. might have been a member of this clan. 



Harriett would remarry, becoming the third wife of  an old Confederate Vet from Tennessee named Henry Barlow, or Barley as the Carolina country folk had renamed him. He had previously been married to two Helms ladies, who were not sisters, and had a number of children. Harriett had only been married to him a few years, when she was widowed. She spent her last years with her younger two sons, passing away at 74 on June 5, 1929. She is buried at Arlington Baptist Church, near Mint Hill, which had been mentioned several times in this post and my last, as it also bears the remains of several of the family members of Maniza Honeycutt.



As for James A. Hagler, in March of 1897, his ongoing exploits had rendered him committed, and declared insane. It was reported that he was delivered to the asylum in Morganton, Burke County, NC. He didn't stay there.





The 1900 census, taken on June 25, 1900, in Clear Creek Township by William F. Houston,  shows him living in the home of his only daughter, Ida Jane, who had married a William Helms. Also in the home was his son, John Hooks Hagler, and 19, and William and Ida's two young children. He declares himself 51 years of age, and married for 25 years. Although Harriett's where-abouts are unknown, her future husband, Harvey Barley, is listed just a page over, with his second wife, Sarah, and their children. 



Less than a month later, Alex has been at it again, and Squire Maxwell was on his trail, again. Alex was terrorizing the neighborhood of Clear Creek armed to the teeth with guns and brass knuckles and three dogs in accompaniment. The newspapers declared him 'insane beyond any shadow of a doubt.'


The Charlotte News

Charlotte, North Carolina • Page 5


For at least a second time, Alex had been released to the peril of Clear Creek. He was taken to jail again in May of 1904. He was now 73 years old. 




Alex was kept in jail in 1904 for a span of nearly 5 months. On October 3, it was reported that he was taken to the asylum in Raleigh, which would have been Dorothea Dix Hospital for the Insane. Within the next four years, he was returned home for the third, and perhaps last, time.


The Charlotte News

Charlotte, North Carolina • Page 5


James Alex Hagler was again in custody in July of 1908. He had been confined in the penitentiary, for some unknown offense, and was being transported back to Raleigh, probably to Dorothea Dix Hospital, by Sheriff Wallace. Now 78, the inestimable Alex escaped, by some means. Perhaps his age had given him abeyance. 

I don't know the date of decease or final resting place of the Mad Alex Hagler. I believe it most likely to have been between this last date of July 2, 1908, and 1909, which allowed his wife Harriett the release and freedom to marry Mr. Barley. 

Back to Ella

But what about Ella, the heroine of this story?  'E. Yould' in the 1900 census below is Ella Yow, now 34. 


NameE Yould
Age34
Birth DateJun 1865
BirthplaceNorth Carolina, USA
Home in 1900Crab Orchard, Mecklenburg, North Carolina
Sheet Number7
Number of Dwelling in Order of Visitation124
Family Number135
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseBoarder
Marital StatusSingle
Father's BirthplaceNorth Carolina, USA
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina, USA
OccupationHousekeeper
Months Not Employed0
Can ReadY
Can WriteN
Can Speak EnglishY
NeighborsView others on page
Household members
NameAge
J Sanders61
Willard Sanders45
Alic Sanders9
Wylie Sanders5
G?Y Sanders3
E Yould34



Ella is living in Crab Orchard Township, Mecklenburg County, working as a housekeeper for Mr. Jesse  Sanders. The "E Yould" is very vague, however, we can rest assured this is Ella, because she ends up marrying Mr. Sanders, and should, because the three children listed, Alic, Wylie and Guy, are her own children, but it is a little more complicated than that. Jesse is listed as 61. The 45 year old man living with him is his son, and Miller has been misrepresented as "Willard". Three little boys, ages 9, 5 and 3 are also listed as the sons of Jesse Sanders. They turn out to be Bub Alec Hagler, son of Ella and James Alex Hagler, and not a Sanders at all; Wylie D. G. Sanders, Ella's son with Jesse, mentioned before; and Davidson Guy Sanders, also a son of Jesse and Ella, supposedly. Not listed is the third child of Jesse and Ella, and Ella's fifth child, a daughter, Mary Annie Sanders, born December 5, 1899. 




Just three days after the census was taken, Jesse Sanders must have came to his senses and decided to make an honest woman of the mother of his youngest children, and give them a legal name. On June 28, 1900, Jesse Sanders, aged 69, son of Josh Sanders and Sallie Sanders, married Ella Yow daughter of "Iza" Honeycutt, living and father unknown. Both of Jesse's parents were deceased. The wedding took place at the Temple of Justice in Charlotte by Justice of the Peace Maxwell and witnessed by J W. Cobb, John B Spence and J. F. Adams. Adams was of some relation to the Sanders family. I believe the husband of his niece.




The marriage lasted six years. Jesse was noted to have been in declining health in two newspaper articles, weeks before his demise. He died on September 30, 1906, and was buried in the Hickory Grove Church Cemetery. The article was wrong on several accounts. Jesse wasn't over 90. He was about 75 years old, in all honesty. He was survived by his widow, three young children and a step son and four, not three, adult children. Those named were his children, but they neglected to mention Miller, or Millard or Willard, whichever incantation is correct. He was living. 


After Jesse's death, Ella moved her family into the bustling City of Charlotte. The 1908 City Directory has her living at 403 East 14th Street. Of course, the place, or residence, is no longer there. Instead, a treatment center belonging to Atrium Health occupies the space. The 1910 census gives us a snapshot of how she was surviving. 


Now, in Charlotte Township, Ella is a 38 year old widow. She's living with her three youngest children, and claims to be the mother of six children with four living. We know that Dora Yow has passed, but the sixth child remains a mystery. She also has two boarders, Elbert and Johnny "Euton", father and son. Elbert was also a widower, and the name was actually spelled 'Wooten'.


A glimpse at the other side of the census shows how they were living. Ella did not have an occupation. Her 15 year old son, Wylie and 13 year old son, Guy, were both working in Cotton Mills. I've seen this painfully many times in records of this age, where children, even very young children, would be working while the mother stayed home, and the father, if living, farming. Nine year old Mary was not employed, thankfully. Her boarder was a Carpenter and his 14 year old son was not employed.

Ella's oldest son, Bub Alec Hagler, was 19 and on his own by 1910. Above is shown his military registration card, which gives a snapshot of what Bub was up to. He was a Mill operator, single, and working at Appleton Mills, while living on North Davidson Street.

Ella was always one to take advantage of an opportunity. As it would turn out, her boarder, the carpenter, was more than just a boarder. He was her lover. 


Her seventh child, counting the unknown one, was born on October 10th, 1910. Ella would have been well along in the pregnancy when the census taker made his rounds. She named the child, a daughter, Margaret Agnes Wooten. A second daughter, named Myrtle, would follow on February 18, 1914. Elbert and Ella married just after Agnes was born and Ella was in her early 40's by the time she had Myrtle, her last child. 

The Wootens

Elbert Alvin Wooten was born in October 5, 1848 in Eagle Mills, Iredell County, son of Alvin Wooten and Jennie Stillman of Yadkin County. He was a widower, having previously been married to a Cynthia, by whom he had two children, William and Viola, both born in the 1870's. His youngest son, Johnny, or John Lewis Wooten, was born of a Sarah Gordon in 1895. Ella was his third wife. 


In 1920, the family had established sort of a family grouping of residences on North Davidson Street. Elbert, 67, was still a Carpenter, and Ella, now 48, was a housekeeper, raising their two daughters, Agnes, 9 and Myrtle, 5. Right next door, can be found Ella's son, Guy A Sanders, with his wife, Mary and next to Guy, was John Wooten, with his wife also named Mary.  All four of the last four, the sons and their wives, were listed as Weavers and occupied "cutting wire".


This one seemed to stick. No longer wonton youth, seeking excitement in life, Ella and Elbert settled in and grew old together, with the City of Charlotte growing larger and busier around them. The 1930 census had them living on East 20th Street, near North Davidson Street. They were in the Belmont neighborhood, where most surviving homes were built in the 1920's, so it was a new, growing neighborhood in their day. Elbert, now 76 years old, had retired. Ella was 54, both had misunderstood the question, "How old were you at your first marriage?", and answered with the age they were when they married each other, or one misunderstood and answered for both. Their daughter, Margaret Agnes, now married to a Bass, lived with them, but her husband did not live with them. She was an inspector at a Cotton Mill. A City Directory close to this time revealed she was an Inspector at the Calvine Mill. Near the Belmont neighborhood, the Mill sat in the vicinity of the 1100 Block of Hawthorne Lane and had a considerable mill village surrounding it. A small street called Calvine Mill Way is left to honor it.



Margaret Ella Honeycutt Yow Sanders Wooten died on March 23, 1935, of cervix cancer and influenza. The informant on her death certificate was her son, Wylie Sanders. He couldn't recall the names of her parents, as he had never met them. He gave her place of birth as Montgomery County, which I don't believe was correct. Ella was buried at Arlington Cemetery in Clear Creek, where many of her family rests. Wylie's address was 1020 Pegram St. in Charlotte, which was the address the paper reported as her own in her obituary, indicating Wylie may have been caring for her in her illness. She was not a widow, as Elbert outlived her, despite a 20-year age difference. 




The Charlotte Observer

Charlotte, North Carolina  Sunday, March 24, 1935




Margaret Ella was the mother of eight children, and only five survived her, Bub Alec Hagler, Wylie and Guy Sanders and Agnes and Myrtle Wooten. She was also survived by her oldest brother Eli Cagle, and her brother Daniel Hice. Two older sisters survived her, Eliza Cagle Philemon, and Lina Honeycutt Simpson. Not mentioned in her obituary was her husband, Elbert, although he survived her. There may have been a family rift, or he may have abandoned her to the care of her son, Wylie, during her illness, causing them to omit him. 

Elbert is found in 1940, at 92 years, living with the two children born of his middle marriage to Sarah Gordon, John Lewis Wooten, with his wife and son Lewis. His sister, Bertha and her husband, William Burris, were also in the home. The old Carpenter would pass on November 25, 1944, at the age of 96, of a cerebral hemorrhage due to hypertension. His children buried him at Oaklawn Cemetery in Charlotte.


Ella Honeycutt married three times, was divorced once, and took into her heart many lovers along the way. She was one of those who seemed to thrive on excitement, chaos and daring in her youth. A fatherless child, she did things her own way. She was the daughter of a postwar mistress, Maniza Honeycutt, and probably the lascivious miller, businessman and farmer, George Washington Cagle. Ella met life on her own terms.


We are our mother's savage daughters,
The ones who run barefoot cursing sharp stones.
We are our mother's savage daughters,
We will not cut our hair, We will not lower our voice


Savage Daughter Karaoke Graphic



The descendants of Margaret Ella Honeycutt were: 

1) Della Yow born in Stanly County in 1886. Died as a teenager in Iredell County. Father Lindsey Frank Yow.

2) Bub Alec Hagler (1891-1960) Born in Clear Creek Township, Mecklenburg County. Had a military career and later spent decades as a Beamer in a Cotton Mill. Married Bertie Darnell at age 32. No children. Settled in Charlotte. Son of James Alexander Hagler.

3) Wylie D. G. Sanders (1895-1979) Born in Crab Orchard Township, Mecklenburg County. Veteran of WWI. Married Mary Leila Jones and worked in Textiles in Mecklenburg County remainder of life. Six children: Lee, Jesse, Oten, Essie, Betty, Clarence. Son of Jesse Sanders.

4) Davidson Guy Sanders (1897-1973) Born in Mecklenburg County. Veteran of WWI. Lied about age to get in. Married at 20 to Mary E. Pendleton. Worked as a Carpenter and in the Cotton Mills. Lived on Pegram Street near his brother Wylie. Father of five children: Edna, Elizabeth, Wilson Lewis,  Pauline,and Barbara Jean.  Son of Jesse Saunders. 


5) Mary Annie Sanders (1900-1927) Born in Charlotte, NC. Lived with Aunt Mary Caroline Honeycutt Simpson for awhile in a Cotton Mill Village. Married at 17 to Andrew Carl Stuttz. Moved to Chester, South Carolina. Died young, at age 28, of peritonitis. Three children, but only two lived until adulthood, Wanda Juanita and Paul Amburst Stuttz. Daughter of Jesse Saunders. 

6) Unknown child born between 1900 & 1910. Ella had reported being the mother of six children with 4 living in 1910. 

7) Margaret Agnes Wooten (1910-1990) Born and raised in Charlotte NC, worked as an Inspector and Seamstress. Married Benjamin Burwell Bass in the late 1920's. One son, Monte Lee Bass, was born early and died at one day old. She divorced Burwell Bass, a character in the frame her mother would have sought after, and was living with her parents by the summer of 1930, in the census. She claimed her husband's infidelity had given her a disease that killed their son and would render her infertile. She had married Isaac Sherrill Greene ,(before 1940), by the time her father passed away in 1944 and was living in Norfolk, Virginia at the time. She was living in Mecklenburg County, when she passed a widow with no children at 83. Her obituary named her as Martha Agnes. Other records have her as Margaret Agnes. 


8 Myrtle Aileen Wooten (1914-2002) Born and raised in Charlotte, Mecklenburg County. At the much too tender age of 13, Myrtle married William Samuel Wilson, 14 years her senior, much like her mothers preference for much older men. Five children were born to this union, between 1930, when she was 16, and 1938, when she was 24, namely Lila Aileen, W. S. II,  Joyce Louise, Ella Josephine, Annie Victoria. She would later marry a second time to Thomas Smith. She was the daughter of Elbert Wooten.

The Charlotte Observer

Charlotte, North Carolina  Thursday, June 21, 1928




Myrtle's story is too fresh and recent to tell in any depths, but she was her mothers savage daughter. When she passed away at 89, she was survived by two of her five children, 23 grandchildren, 48 great grandchildren, and 50 great great grandchildren.


The Saga Continues