Tuesday, August 26, 2025

The Secrets of Adeline

 





When reading the records of people long removed into the diaspora of the afterlife, some seem immutable, cold, 'facts and figures'. With others, you can hear the attitude of a swish of their crinolines, the gruff clearing of a throat, the lingering silage of pipe smoke. Adaline Hartsell was one of those people.

While reading the Will of Holden "Golden" Hartsell, a Civil War Veteran, his new wife, Adeline, burst through the pages like an 18 wheeler through a blockade of protesters, nose pert and upwards, her shoes rapidly tapping, a gust of wind from her passing skirts in a flurry, and a "harumph" of ill intent and attitude soaked in by the pages of the probate papers like sponge. It is my belief that Adeline was a bit of an opportunist.

Holden Hartsell was a widower, about 48 years old, when he married Menece Adaline Cagle Coley, a 33-year-old widow, on October 15, 1865. 



Then in the November session of court, 1865, Adeline Hartsell petitions the court for her allowed year's provisions as a widow.



We don't know what Holden Hartsell died of. He had served in the Civil War as a Private in the Senior Reserves. 



He had enlisted at age 47, in Albemarle, Stanly County, North Carolina, by a Leut. Little. He had returned home, possibly sick or injured, but alive, alive enough to marry and alive enough to father an eleventh child, hmm, well maybe, a child he was accepted as the father of, at any rate. 
Holden Hartsell had been married many years to Mary Nancy Huneycutt and had 10 known children with her, the first in 1836 and the last in 1856. He lost his wife in 1862.  He had remarried to Adeline Cagle Coley, who would, within the next year, bear a son she named Aaron. In her years petition, Adeline claimed that Holden had a considerable property to which she, his new bride, was entitled. 



The above page from Holden's probate papers showed he owned 150 acres bordering Solomon Pless and Levi Furr. Adeline requested a third of the estate and her case was vs. the heirs of Holden Hartsell, his living children. 



In April of 1866, Sheriff of Stanly County, Jonathan Mann, who hailed more from the center of the county, put together a jury of "good and lawful men", which consisted of Michael Dry, King D. Brooks, Charles Dry, John Brooks and W. F. Moss, to allot and layoff to Adeline Hartsell, her dower and third of the property of Holden Hartsell. It began at a white oak at the corner of B.L. Green, deceased. It met Nelson Smith's corner, then commenced to a stake in the corner of the 'old Polk Road.' That bit of information intrigued me. Could this be the same road as what we now call Polk Ford Road, that runs south of Stanfield down towards the Rocky River and ends before it?

This document is over 150 years old, and refers to the road as "old". How old is this road, really? I'm sure it's turns, twists and trail has changed tremendously over that period of time, and it's probably just a small piece, now, of a once longer route, but Polk Ford is in the right location, between Stanfield and Oakboro, South, near the river and the Union County line. I often peruse old maps, wondering where the old roads were, or were called. I'd like to know more about this one.

The document continued that the allotment was 50 acres, except one acre cut off for the schoolhouse. Another hint! A school was located on the property. Which school? Could this be found?





In February 1866, in the Stanly County Court of Pleas and Quarters, is found the above document, in which the heirs are named. It states, "The Petition of Adaline Hartsell Widow of Holden Hartsell (inserted), shows unto you Worship that her said Husband died Intestate in the year leaving him surviving the following children to wit; W R Hartsell, John Bird and wife, Elizabeth, Eli Hartsell Julia Hartsell, John A Hartsell, Eva M Hartsell, Joseph M. Hartsell Malinda Hartsell Monroe Hartsell Bitha Hartsell Aaron Hartsell who are his only heirs at law. " Aaron, being the infant of Adaline Hartsell, born about 1865. 




A few years after this, in the 1870 census, Adeline is seen as the head of household number 216, at age 38, her six-year-old son, Aaron, living with her. Also living in her home is her younger sister, Ithama, seen here as Luthina, which may have been a middle name. Her name has many variations. Near Adeline is the John and Elizabeth Hartsell Bird family, a daughter of Holden and living with them was 14-year-old Tabitha Liberty Hartsell, his youngest daughter. On this same page, with a few nonrelated families in between, can also be found Joseph Hartsell, another sibling and son of Holden Hartsell



With Adeline in Household 216, going in the other direction, preceding her, we find Jacob Crisco, in Household 216, whose wife, Malinda, was a sister of Adeline, with single Cagle sister, Martha, in their home. It's obvious that the Hartsells and Cagles were neighbors. 

The fact that piqued my curiosity and disturbed my senses in the case of Adeline and her marriage to Holden was in its brevity. Had Adeline taken advantage of an ailing man to advance her situation? Did she aid to his quick demise following the wedding herself? Was she expecting her son Aaron before the wedding? Did Holden know? Or was he conceived during an extended honeymoon? Why would I think the worst of Adeline, or, of her motives? Maybe it was because of her father, George Cagle, who was one of the characters that flavored the foul reputation of the town of Big Lick. George was the Lemon Pepper of Lemon Pepper Chicken.  

Who was Adeline Cagle Coley Hartsell to begin with? 

Menece Adaline Cagle was born around 1832 in the Big Lick area of what would become Stanly County. She was the oldest child of George Washington Cagle (1813-1876) and wife, Elizabeth Rosa Whitley, (1812-1860). 






She does not appear in the 1850 or 1860 census with her family.  In 1850, she would have been around 18 or 19, and it is assumed, married by then.  She is mentioned in the Will of her father, dated November 30, 1868, and is referred to as "Menece A. Hartsell", and also in the estate files, probated February 27, 1888, as Adeline Hartsell. 


"...... unto my daughter Menece A. Hartsell, fifty acres of land off the Western end if my three-hundred-acre tract commencing on Dunns line.... unto Ely Huneycutt my illegitimate son, one hundred and fifty acres of land the wheron I now live, by his maintaining my daughter Beedy M. Cagle during her natural life, in case she does not marry, and if she marries he be released from the obligation by his paying her one hundred dollars.... and unto my grandson William Huneycutt , seventy-five acres of land adjoining the fifty-acre tract given to Menece A. so as to include the long house place. now in case the above-named Rly Huneycutt and William Huneycutt should be disobedient to me and not serve as dutiful children till attain the age of twenty-one. in that case they shall have nothing of my property and in that case I direct that my daughter Beedy M. have one hundred acres of the land designated for Ely Huneycutt including the dwelling house and outbuildings....... that the remainder of the land designated for Ely and also the land designated for William, and also all the balance of my land not herein disposed of after running off my son David S. Cagle, fifty acres to be divided equally , between my daughters, Sarah Jones, Mary Smith, Martha Cagle, Ann Jane and Fany L Cagle and Malinda Criscoe, also , I direct that my personal estate goods and chattels in every respect be sold and equally divided between my daughters, Sarah Jones, Mary Smith, Martha Cagle, Ann J. Cagle and Fany L. Cagle, Malinda Criscoe, Menece A. Hartsell and Beedy M. Cagle, and my son David S. Cagle. and my son Ely Huneycutt and my grandson William Huneycutt. And also my sawmill with ten acres of land for the cite and privilege of the same, adjoining J.A. Criscoe line be sold and equally divided between my daughters named above.

George had a large collection of daughters, some with inventive names, and a spattering of children born outside the bonds of legal matrimony. He had one legitimate son, David S. Cagle. 

The question remains, who was Adeline married to? Her marriage to Holden Hartsell has her as a Coley, and there were lots of Coley's in the area. The timing suggests she could have possibly been a Civil War widow, before her marriage to Holden. This gives rise to my search for which Coley she may have married that died in the Civil War. What I discovered that Adaline had married a young man even more mysterious than she, who died prior to the advent of the war. 




Tillman Coley died around 1856, in Stanly County, NC, leaving a small estate. 




As she did with her second husband, Adaline petitioned for her widow's dower and year's provisions, with the aid of J. M. McCorkle. She stated in the February 1856, Term of Court that she was the 'relict' of Tilman Coley and that he had died since the last term of court, which would have been in November, placing his death in late 1855, or very early 1856. She claimed he died possessed of 'some' personal property, leaving Adaline, the petitioner, 'wholly unprovided for'. She stated that she was entitled to a year's provisions out of the estate, for the support of herself and her family, meaning she may have had a child, or two, though none is known. 





Four men were appointed as a committee to look into Adaline's petition, Henry Carver, Esq., Jesse Morton, Wright Dunn and Tilman Smith. When the four Freeholders returned to Court in May of 1856, to give their report, they were listed as W. H. Carver, Justice of the Peace, Jesse Morton, Tillman Little, instead of Smith, and G. W. Dunn. 





When looked into the meager estate left behind by Tillman Coley, they found it lacking. 

"the provisions on hand, being found insufficient, we have laid off and allotted to the widow Sundry Articles of the Household furniture, to the amount of $53.05 and font her in possession of the same."

So, Tillman had not much, and Adeline already had in her possession what little he left behind. I believe Tillman was a young man, probably around the same age as Adeline. As I find neither of them in the 1850 census, I believe they were married by then and had been missed by the census taker. Adeline is also missing in 1860, the one after Tillmans death. This doesn't mean there were no traces of him. As did most young men of the era, he was drafted into the building of the roads throughout the county. 




When McCamey Willis was appointed overseer of the Fayetteville Road from Big Bear Creek to the big pond. The men and boys chosen to aid in this clearing and building were chosen from the nearby area. They were named as Allen Burris, George Cagle, Lewis Tucker, David Burris, Gideon Burris, Jesse Whitley, W. R. Huneycutt, Columbus Whitley, Tillman Coley, J. C. Burris, John W. Burris, Solomon Burris, and Loyd Hathcock. Heavy on the Burris's and others suggest an Almond Township crowd, as McCamey Willis married Obedience Burris, sister and aunt to several of these, and he lived in what we now call Red Cross. George Cagle was the father of Adaline Cagle Coley. 



In another Overseer record, Needham Whitley was appointed overseer of the Charlotte Road from the crossroad near Henry Manuels to Big Bear Creek and Temple Whitley, Tillman Coley, William Burris, and George Whitley were appointed hands.  Temple Whitley is important in this document, because he may have purchased property that was taken from Tillman Coley, or sold to Temple by him at some point, although a deed is unavailable. 




In a Temple Whitley deed, he mentioned owning 8 acres known as the "Tillman Coley tract". 


In 1853 and 1854, Tillman Coley is listed as an Insolvent in the Stanly County court records. 




Perhaps one of the most important small mentions of Tillman Coley is his name listed in the 1854 list of taxables for District 7. Although he is only taxed $1.20 for one taxable, himself, and no property, it's who those listed near him were. Isaiah Coley, who would pass away in the Civil War, is listed with 325 acres, right next to Tillman, and below him is George Cagle, and next is Jacob Crisco, one of George's sons-in-laws. There is also Charles Dry and Green W. Dunn, who were two of the freeholders chosen to lay off Adeline's future dower after Tillman's decease. There is also a Green D. Coley, nearby and up the page, above Charles Cagle is Thomas A. Coley, who also passes away in the Civil War. 



The last mention of Tillman Coley is in 1857, when we know he has passed away already. This was probably tax owed by Adeline from his small estate, of .32 cents. Listed above is Henry Carver, Esquire, one of the freeholders of Adaline's dower committee, so although the couple were not listed in 1850 or 1860, it can be assumed the general area of their residence at this time. 

Family trees of Coley descendants who appear to have done accurate and intense research on the Coley family of Stanly and Union Counties have Tillman as a son of Nathan and Nancy Vickers Coley; Nathan having passed away in 1881. He was a younger brother of Thomas A. Coley, their oldest son, who died in the Civil War. His children are mentioned in Nathan's Will and are found in Nathan's home after the War. One of the sons was named Tillman, born about the time the older Tillman Cagle died. The information has Tillman as being born in 1827 and came from a Family Bible. If Adeline had children with Tillman, they passed away before their grandfather. 





The last time we saw Adeline was in 1870, when she was head of a household that included her young son, Aaron Hartsell, and her younger sister, Ithama Luthenia Cagle. Around this time, Adeline would become involved in another relationship of some kind, with whom, I don't know. Probably some rascal around the Big Lick area in which she lived at this time. In 1872, she would give birth to a daughter she would name Cornelia A. "Neelie" Hartsell, and we know she wasn't Holden's child, as he had been deceased some seven years or so. 





The next item of consequence was the death of Adelines roguish father, old Geore Cagle, himself. This event occurred on February 27, 1876, and despite George being 63 at the time, considered an elderly man at the time, his death wasn't natural. He was killed by a jealous man. George must have had some foresight into his own demise, as he had written a will in 1868, eight years prior, as seen above, he named his eldest daughter as Menece A. Hartsell, and when his estate was probated in the spring of 1876, she was referred to simply as Adeline Hartsell. 


Adeline now had a solid inheritance from her last husband, Holden, and now from her father, George. Despite still being a relatively young woman, it doesn't appear that Adeline remarried a second time, not in the records of Stanly County, at least.






In 1880, Adaline is now 48 years old, and living on what can be guessed, part of George Cagle's old place, next to her brother, David S. Cagle. Living with her is her 8-year-old daughter, Neelie. Listed above her is her father's mistress, Mariah Meggs, with her daughter, Melissa. David S. Cagle has adopted William Springer, 12, and near them is Dovey Springer. The Springers are their own story. 




Adeline's son, Aaron Hartsell, is now 18, and has set out on his own, working as a farm laborer for John O. Tucker. 




On February 28, 1893, it is revealed that Adaline Cagle Coley Hartsell has moved to Mecklenburg County, and has sold her 12 1/2 acres of property to her nephew, Alexander Cagle, son of David S. Cagle. While this deed, found in Book 29 Page 26, of the Stanly County deeds, in Book 29, Page 24, just before it, Alexander Cagle has purchased a border property to this one, which bordered his father, D. S. Cagle, as well, from B. F. and Elizabeth Simpson. The small tract was on Stillwater Creek, a common thread in several of my previous posts. 




On the second page of the deed, it is seen that Adeline Hartsell appeared before William D. Alexander , JP, of Mecklenburg County on March 16, 1903. This is the last thing I've found on Adeline. As she did in 1850 and 1860, Adeline defied being counted by the census taker, but from the above document, we know she was alive and well in Mecklenburg County at the age of 71. It is unknown exactly when Adeline died, or where she was buried, whether in Mecklenburg, or returned to home to Stanly County. 

I also have no more information on Aaron Hartsell, that I can be certain is the right Aaron. 

The one survivor of the small family was Neelie Hartsell. 






On October 3, 1892, at Asbury Chapel in Mecklenburg County, North Carolina, Neelie Hartsell, 19, daughter of unknown father and Adeline Hartsell, the father dead and the mother living, married E. M. Ferrell, 24, son of W. G. and Lodeski Farrell, father living and mother dead, all of Mecklenburg County. E. M. stood for Elhannon Mack Ferrell, and he was Mecklenburg born, son of William Gamewell Ferrell and wife, Margaret Lodeska Steele. I love these old unique names, better than John and Mary. 

The young family is found in Huntersville, Mecklenburg County in 1900, where E. M. is farming on rented property. They have three small children, and two teenaged boys helping out as farmhands, Will Billing 18, and a relative, Francis Ferrell, 15.

1910 - They've now moved to Coddle Creek in Iredell County and Mack is operating a Grocery Store. They live in the Dixie Cotton Mill Village on Dixie Cotton Mill Road. While Mack is a merchant, the oldest of their now six children all work in the Cotton Mill while Neelie stays home with the younger three, one a yet unnamed infant. 

1920- The Ferrells have moved to Cleveland, North Carolina and Mack is now a Minister. They only have their youngest two daughters, Inez, 12 and Delola, 10, at home by this time. 

1930- Mack is still a Methodist Episcopal Minister, and the family has moved to the community of North Brook in Lincoln County, North Carolina. Inez and Delola are still at home and a 12-year-old grandson, Billy Ferrell, is living with them. All three of the younger Ferrells are operating a small farm. 

1935 - Still in Lincoln County. 

1940- Mack has decided to give up the Ministry and return to being a Grocery Store Merchant. He and Neelie have moved to Hickory, in Catawba County, and have an empty nest. Mack is 70 and Neelie is 68 by now. 



1950- By 1950, the elderly couple, 80 and 78, have determined that they should not be on their own and have moved in with their daughter, Iva Ferrell Brown and are living in Kannapolis, Cabarrus County, NC. 





Mack passes away first, at the State Hospital in Morganton, on July 3, 1852. He is 81, and his profession is given as a Methodist Minister. His residence is given as Kannapolis, and he is married, his parents given as Game Farrell and Martha Steele. 





Neelie doesn't last long after losing her husband. She passes away in Kannapolis, where she lives, on October 19, 1952, at the age of 79. Her birthplace is incorrectly given as Iredell County. Her mother is correctly given as Adeline Cagle Hartsell. Her father is named as A. L. Hartsell. I believe this is just a fabrication and may have been referring to Holden in some offhand way. There was an A L Hartsell in Union County, born 30 years after Adeline, and I doubt he was Neelie's father. 

Mack and Neelie had the following children:

1894-1962 Alberta Lee Ferrell Beam

1897-1971 Addie L. Ferrell Baxter

1898-1961 Tillman Allen Ferrell

1902-1930 Lura M. Farrell

1908-1969 Inez Iva Farrell Brown

1910-1967 Delola Neelie Farrell Holshouser

Both parents were buried at Willow Valley Cemetery in Iredell County, NC

NameNeely Ferrell
Maiden NameHartsell
GenderFemale
Birth Date27 Mar 1870
Birth PlaceIredell County, North Carolina, United States of America
Death Date19 Oct 1952
Death PlaceNorth Kannapolis, Rowan County, North Carolina, United States of America
CemeteryWillow Valley Cemetery
Burial or Cremation PlaceMooresville, Iredell County, North Carolina, United States of America
Has Bio?Y
SpouseElhannen Mack Ferrell
ChildrenTillman Allen Ferrell; Iva Brown; Delola Holshouser; Addie Baxter; Lee Alberta Beam


Menece Adeline Cagle Coley Hartsell had many secrets and liked to hide from the census taker, and she may have learned a trick or two from her nefarious father, George, but in the end, she did leave descendants, with whom we may never know. 





Wednesday, August 6, 2025

Looking for Liberty Hartsell

 

Tabitha Liberty Hartsell Barbee


When my oldest daughter was expecting her only child, she was considering the name "Liberty" if the baby was a daughter. He was not, and was instead, named after my Great Grandfather on my Paternal side, Elias. I've alway liked the name, however, for its attributes of implications and uniqueness. We never welcomed a Liberty. 


Recently, I've been researching a certain obscure Whitley family. While looking at the small family of Hardin "Hardy" Whitley (1835-1864) and his wife, Basheba "Bashie" Hatley, (1832-1873), that her brother, Hardin "Hardy" Hatley (1834-1918) , had custody of their children for at least a period of time after the deaths of both Whitley's. Yes, that's a lot of Hardys and I believe the mother of Hardy Whitley could have been a Hatley. The Whitleys had left two children, a son and a daughter, and only the daughter survived long enough to marry. I examined this family in my post, The Curse of Bitter Rain.

While examing Hardy Hatley's family, I saw that in 1880, there was a young woman named Liberty Hartsell in his home. The name intrigued me, and I wondered who exactly Liberty Hartsell was, this young woman with the interesting name.


NameHardy Hatly
Age45
Birth DateAbt 1835
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Home in 1880Big Lick, Stanly, North Carolina, USA
Dwelling Number71
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Relation to Head of HouseSelf (Head)
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameMalinda Hatly
Father's NameWily Hatly
Father's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
OccupationFarmer
NeighborsView others on page
Household members
NameAge
Hardy Hatly45
Malinda Hatly28
Jonah Hatly16
Ephram Hatly14
Minnie Hatly1
Wily Hatly87
Liberty Hartsell23


Luckily for me, 1880 was the first year that the relationships of the people in a household to the head of the household were given. Hardy Hatley was one of those older men that had married a much younger woman as his second wife. At 45, 28 year old Malinda was not his daughter, but his wife. Jonah and Ephraim were his sons, and one year old Minnie was his daughter. It's easy to understand that the sons were by his first wife, and he probably hadn't been married to Malinda for long. Wiley Hatley, 87, was Hardy's aged father, and Liberty Hartsell was his sister-in-law. 

A little further research revealed that Hardy had married, as his second wife, Mary Melinda Hartsell, daughter of Holden Hartell and his wife, Mary Honeycutt. The couple had a family of 10 children and Mary passed away in 1862, before they were all grown up. Holden had remarried and had one more before passing away in 1865. 





Mary Malinda Hartsell Hatley was one of the younger children of Holden and Mary. Above, in the 1860 census, Mary Malinda was 9, her younger brother, Holden Monroe, aged 6, was scratched out and added again at the bottom of the page, I'm not sure why, and the youngest child was Bitha L. Hartsell. It looks like Bettie, and was transcribed as such, but there was an older sister named Bettie and with a little more research, it was clear that the child's name was "Bitha L.", and she was only four years old. 

This was a good list as it included the entire family which was :

Holden Hartsell  45 and wife, Mary 46 then: William Riley (1838-1899), Elizabeth P "Bettie" Byrd (1839- 1917), Emaline M Hartsell Smith ( 1841-1909), Julia Ann Hartsell Howell (1842-1879), John Adam Hartsell (1844 -1910), Joseph Monroe Hartsell (1846-1923), Eva Mahaley Hartsell Smith (1847-1928), Mary Malinda Hartsell Hatley (1851-1926), Holden Monroe Hartsell (1854-1910) and Tabitha Liberty Hartsell (1851 -1910).

After the death of their parents, the children seemed to scatter to the wind. Most of the older ones married as soon as they could, especially the daughters.



NameTobitha Hartsell
Age in 187014
Birth Dateabt 1856
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Dwelling Number217
Home in 1870Big Lick, Stanly, North Carolina
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Post OfficeAlbemarle
OccupationDomestic Servt
Cannot ReadYes
Cannot WriteYes
Household members
NameAge
John Byrd30
Elizabeth Byrd28
Mary Byrd6
Sarah Byrd4
Sophonia Byrd
Tobitha Hartsell14


Tabitha Liberty Hartsell, being the youngest of the children of both parents, ended up as the Domestic Servant, Elizabeth "Bettie" Hartsell, who had married John Byrd. She was living in Big Lick at 14, in 1870, the wild west of Stanly County.  And then, of course, in 1880, we find her living with another sibling, Mary Malinda Hartsell Hatley, in 1880. It seems Tabitha, as she was normally seen, earned her keep as Housekeeper and Nanny for her married siblings after she was evicted by her wicked stepmother, Adaline, after the death of her father, and that is a story of its own.




Just when it seemed as if Tabitha Liberty Hartsell was destined to be an old maid, she found herself a husband, and a younger one at that! She had not settled herself as the young bride of an old man for stability, like many of her time, when there were Civil War widows and orphans aplenty, although that was not what she was. No, Tabitha had been just an ordinary orphan with a young stepmother who married an old man with one foot in the grave so she could take over his estate from his older children. 

Tabitha married on April 10, 1887, to 21 year old William Barbee, son of  Jacob and Sarah Barbee. Her age was given as 26, when she was actually 31. Perhaps she felt like five years was all she could believably shave off. The marriage was performed at the office of John A.Furr, Justice of the Peace, in Furr Township. Witnessess were A.J. Huneyctt, E. D. Smith, which may have been her sister, Emaline, and A. J. Barbee, perhaps a relative of the groom.


William Martin Barbee

William Martin Barbee was the son of Josiah and Sarah Smith Barbee. At the time of the marriage, his father was deceased, but his mother was living, as both of the brides were deceased. While Tabitha had grown up in Big Lick, William had grown up in Furr Township. He was the oldest son and second child in the family. He was preceeded by Susan Catherine and followed by Cenia Marie, Nelson, James Hiram, Sarah Elizabeth, Lina and Lundy.

During the next thirteen years, the couple had settled among the rest of the Barbee Family in Furr Township, in the general area of Stanfield. Around 1900, give or take, the Barbee's had their photos made. William appears to have dressed in his best suit, and a colorized version of the photo paints his hundred yard stare with bright blue eyes. He appears nervous, like he could jump and run in an instant. He has a brunette combover and an unruly mustache that looks like a scrub brush resting under his nose. Tabitha Liberty Hartsell's photo is the lead in, off center and severe, she has an almost manly bearing. Her brunette hair pulled tightly back, Tabitha shows none of her husbands nervousness. Her eyes akilter, they also appear light, either blue or green. Broad-shouldered and square, she looks like a strong woman, but not a pretty one. Hers was a body built for work, and her large, oval face with a short, wide chin was directly opposite of William's oblong face with a recessive chin.

They would have five children, beginning immediatley and in rapid succession.

1888  Beechus S. Barbee

1890 William Harley Barbee

1891 Lou Etta Barbee

1896 Twin girls Bertie and Gertie Barbee


The 1900 census shows them surrounded by family names closely involved in their lives, lots of Barbees, with a few Hathcocks, a Stogner and an Eudy. The Barbees appeared to be very tribal, they stuck together, which is a strength. Sadly, the 1900 census revealed that Tabitha had actually give birth to seven children, only five survived. All of these five grew up.




1910 looks a little odd, but it appears the whole family pitched in together, still. They are no longer living in the grove of Barbee's, but still in Furr Township. William and Tabitha, now 44 and 50, respectively, are farmers, and thier oldest son, Beechum, is the only one living in their home. Second son, Harley, has married to Gatha Barbee, a distant cousin, and had two sons of his own, Melvin and Hubert, the era of those steampunk names. The three Barbee sisters, Etta, Bertie and Gertie, are now in their teens, and living with their brother, instead of their parents. The two households must have been close together.




Tabitha didn't live a very long life, but for her time, she was considered an old woman, when she was overcome with uterine cancer at 61, which led to her demise. An A.A.Hartsell was the informant, probably a relative, but not a sibling, who correctly gave her parents as Holden Hartsell and Mary Huneycutt. He knew she had been born in Big Lick. Her attending doctor had been Ira Yow, of Georgeville, in Cabarrus County and her death certificate was filed by Dock Love in Stanfield. She was buried in the Meadow Creek Cemetery in Locust and the undertaker was P.L.Hartsell of Oakboro. Her age gap had caught up with her. It was now known that she was ten years older than her husband, not five.

Widower, William Martin Barbee, would go on with his life for another twenty-three years. He remarried, to Martha Lou Hinson, who was also middle-aged, at 48, on July 27, 1919. She was the daughter of  John Washington Hinson and Sarah Jane Rummage, and the widow of a Tarlton.

They shared over a decade together in the 'Village of Stanfield', as the 1920 census put it, before William passed away at 63. His children buried him next to their mother. His own widow, Martha, is shown living with her son and still with the name, Barbee, in 1930, the year that he died. She would return to her former name of Tarleton, to match her own children, by 1940, and would pass away 18 years after William in 1948. Martha was buried at Love's Grove.






Tabitha (or Tibitha) Liberty Hartsell lived the typical life of a Victorian era farmwife in rural North Carolina. There was nothing outrageous or extraordinarty about her, and therein lies her beauty, the girl with the beautiful name. 

Saturday, August 2, 2025

The Curse of Bitter Rain






Bashie Whitley, grandchildren of Nancy Hatley Whitley

When Hardy Whitley lost his life on April 25th, 1864, during the Civil War, he left behind a widow and two children. These were the grandchildren of Nancy Whitley whom I have yet to cover.  I have recently posted on Nancy in my post, Nancy of Stillwater Creek. Hardin, or Hardy for short, had enlisted in Company H 42nd Infantry of the Confederate Army, on May 10, 1862, where he obtained the rank of Seargeant. He fought valiantly until he entered sick at the hospital in Wilmington, NC and did not make it out, passing away at 28 years of age. This is the story of who he left behind.






Above is shown the first record that I have found of Hardy Whitley. His mother, Nancy, is a 60 year old widow, sister Mary is 21, Hardy is 15, William Pinkney is 13 and Zachary Taylor is 12. All three of the boysin this household will fight in the Civil War. Only William Pinkney will survive, and move to Iredell County with his sister, Mary. Even Taylor will enlist during the last fleeting days of it, only to lose his life at 16. 

Yes, it says "Hatley", but they were Whitleys. It was not a transcription error. It actually says "Hatley". My theory is that Nancy gave her maiden name, misunderstanding the census takers question, and he ran with it, naming the whole family as Hatley's. I also believe Nancy was the widow of Isham Whitley. It only makes sense. They lived next to Alfred and Tempy Ledbetter. Their property also connected to Hezekiah Whitley, the brother of Isham Whitley.




One person who actually was a Hatley was Hardy Whitley's future wife, Basheba "Bashie" Hatley. Above, she was in the home of her father, Wyley or Wiley Hatley. Her mother, Martha "Maza" Harwood Hatley, had already passed away. With Bashie, here at 18, was older sister Telitha Tildy Hatley and younger brother, Hardy. Her grandfather was a Hardy, her brother was a Hardy and her husband was a Hardy. Lots of Hardys, and believe it or not, lots of Basheba's. The name Bathsheba, Basheba, or Barsheba, biblical, but rare, is also found several times in this family. Her uncle, Hasten Hatley Sr. married a Basheba Harwood and even Hezekiah Whitley would name a daughter Basheba. Hezekiah also named a son Hardy. There were lots of connections between these families not uncovered yet.





By 1860 Hardy and Basheba were married and listed under the correct name. They have a three year old son named James. The next year they will have a daughter named Eva. Below them are listed Hardy's mother, Nancy and his siblings in the next household. The war would change anything. 


Basheba Hatley Whitley does not appear in the 1870 census, that I can find. They missed a great number of people that year, from what I've seen. This is not the only family from the Big Lick area that I've not been able to locate in 1870. What I did find of her existence in that decade is her name in a taxable list of the Whitley's in her District, Number 8, for 1967. Also listed was Allison Whitley and his son, Noah, or N. A. Whitley, Green Deberry, or G. D., Columbus Whitley, M. E. Whitley, Elizabeth and Bathsheba. 



What we do know is that Bathsheba was deceased by February 3, 1873.  John Brooks appeared before Judge of Probate, J. M. Redwine and swore that Bashie had died intestate and that he was the proper person to receive the letters of Administration for her estate of about $150 and that she had left two heirs, James Whitley and Evy Ann Whitley. At this time, James would have been about 15 and Evy Ann, 12.



In the 1880 census, Evie Ann Whitley is found in Big Lick Township, at 18, in the home of John Brooks. For relationship, it says Orphan and for occupation, house keeper. Where was her brother? He would be an adult by then.

On the 10th of February, 1877, John Brooks paid $1.00 for letters as the guardian of James and Evy Ann Whitley, minors, so they both lived there at the time.


On January 3, 1878, Dr. R. A. Anderson billed the James Whitley estate for $9.75 for medical assistance during James's sickness. So sometime, probably in late 1877. young James Whitley died of an unknown illness, not long after his mother. He would have been about 20 years old. It is unknown where James and Basheba Whitley are buried. As Bashie was a Hatley, the  Hatley Grove Primitive Baptist Church Cemetery would make sense, or even perhaps the Riley Austin Cemetery. Both have graves either unmarked or with disentegrated, illegible stones.




On February 28, 1878, Hardy Hatley made a claim on the estate of James Whitley for $30.00 keeping him and $8.00 for clothing purchased for him. This would have been Hardy, the brother of Basheba, two years younger than she. It appears Hardy had custody of James at some point.



On April 8, 1898, twenty years later, Evey Austin received from John W. Austin $130.00, 'payment due me by him as my Guardian from the estate of Hardy Whitley or Basha Whitley" She released him as her guardian and Riley H. Austin as surety on the guardian bond. Eva Ann was 37. Why did she need a guardian at this point? As one may have guessed, Evey had married JohnW. Austin.



John Brooks served as the executor for both Basheba and her son, James Whitley The reciepts shown above.





I've mentioned the Riley H. Austin family in a few of my last posts. His was also an associated family and neighbor to the Whitley family I have been researching. His son, John, shown as 14 above, would marry the one surving Whitley in the Hardy Whitley family, Eva Ann.







J. T. Turner applied for the license for the marriage of J. W. Austin, 21, son of R. H. and Elizabeth Austin, both living, and Evey Ann Whitley, 19, daughter of Hardy and Basheby Whitley, both deceased, on December 20th, 1880, just months after she is shown as living with the John Brooks family. The wedding took place in Tyson at the Turner residence. Minty Turner was one of the witnesses.


John Wesley Austin



Over the course of the next twenty years, John W. Austin and Eva Ann Whitley Austin would bring nine children into the world. They lost a son, James Benton Austin, at  the age of one year, 4 months and 9 days old in 1896. He was buried in the Riley H. Austin cemetery, his grandfather's property.






NameEvie Austin
Age41
Birth DateMar 1859
BirthplaceNorth Carolina, USA
Home in 1900Big Lick, Stanly, North Carolina
House Number8
Sheet Number14
Number of Dwelling in Order of Visitation261
Family Number263
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseWife
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameJno Austin
Marriage Year1882
Years Married18
Father's BirthplaceNorth Carolina, USA
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina, USA
Mother: number of living children8
Mother: How many children9
Can ReadN
Can WriteN
Can Speak EnglishY
NeighborsView others on page
Household members
NameAge
Jno Austin40
Evie Austin41
Lula Austin17
Rufus Austin16
Thomas Austin14
Mollie Austin12
Henry Austin10
Jonah Austin4
Mary Austin2/12
Lucy Austin2/12




John and Evie appeared in the 1900 census, in Big Lick Township, with their eight remaining children. Evie, at 38, had just given birth to twin girls, Mary and Lucy, two months prior. This is the second census she appeared in, and her last. The age of 41 here was incorrect. A few of her mother's brothers lived nearby.





Eva Ann Whitley Austin passed away on May 25, 1900 just after the census was taken. Her twins passed away near the same time, probably for lack of the mother, or either of the same illness. She was 38 years old.


The next decade after Evey's death, John W. Austin carried on in Big Lick.  A few of his children married. He had a 7-year-old granddaughter in the home named Hattie. This was the child of oldest daughter Lula. Lula would marry a Honeycutt and her daughter would go by Hattie Mae Huneycutt the rest of her life. But children grow and dipserse.


A peak at the surviving children in 1920, twenty years past their mothers death revealed that:

- Lula had married Thomas Huneycutt and was living on McSwain Mill Road in New Salem, Union County, and now had five children.
- Thomas C. Austin married Ella Sloop and moved to Concord, Cabarrus County, living on Allsion Street and working in a Cotton Mill.
- Rufus Austin has married Arianna Isabella Hatley and was living on the Oakboro & Rocky River Road in Big Lick and farming.
- Mollie Jane Austin had married Jonah S. Green and was living on the Coble Brothers Mill Road in Big Lick and farming. 
- William Henry Austin was living with his brother Rufus in Big Lick. He would die unmarried at a young 39. He had been in WWI and WWII.
- Jonah Columbus Austin was living in Charlotte working as a musician. He would marry twice, to Clementine Jowers and then to Katie Lee Goodwin. He spent his whole life as a musician, dying in 1969 in Columbia, South Carolina. 


J.W. Austin is found living in Concord,  Cabarrus County North Carolina in 1930, living with his oldest daughter, Lula. All but the three youngest children and himself, were all working in the Cotton Mills up there. This was his last census.



The Charlotte Observer

Charlotte, North Carolina  Friday, February 06, 1931

John Wesley Austin was returned to Big Lick and buried with his wife in the Riley Austin family cemetery.

A bitter rain will kill a forest tree by tree. The Whitley family had suffered many early deaths, but one last hearty root, Eva Ann, had taken root long enough to be fruitful and have a large family of 9 children. Six of the nine would see adulthood. Four of the Nine would have large families of their own. The genes of Hardy Whitley and Basheba Hatley have survived.