Showing posts with label Big Lick Stanly County. Show all posts
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Sunday, November 9, 2025

The Damning of Mariah Meggs



"It's a Man's World" sang the legendary James Brown, and at no time was this statement more true than in the mid-nineteenth century. Men would do what they did, and women suffered the consequences of those actions, then struggled to survive the after-effects as best they could.

After George Cagle passed away, I wondered what happened to Mariah Meggs, a woman who had lived with him, and with his second wife, Nancy and all of their children, known in the community of Big Lick, Stanly County, North Carolina, as a paramour of old George Cagle. George, a fairly well off businessman and farmer for the time and place, had an eye for pretty girls, and he also had a knack for making mistakes. But one of the worst mistakes he ever made was hiring this misbegotten teen-age boy name Daniel Alexander Crisco , to tend his stock. Daniel Crisco was the result of an illicit relationship between Blacksmith and Carriagemaker William G. Crisco and an unmarried woman named Rebecca Elizabeth Crisco. George may have felt sorry for the boy, as George had his own illegitimate children, which he embraced to some degree. I've came across several young men in my research of old Stanly County, and the surrounding counties, who were born into similar circumstances and several of the seemed to have carried this seething anger within them, repressed by an inadequate seal. The malice seemed to be caused by a bitterness towards the community for its ostracization of them and the assault to their characters, by simply virtue of the unfortunate circumstance of their birth. 

The last half dozen posts of mine have been about George Crisco, or members of his family and stages of his life. This one will be about his mistress, Mariah. The more I found out about her, the more pity and empathy I had towards her. She had gotten a raw deal in life. 

Mariah had been born to a woman named Elizabeth, around 1844, probably in Union County, North Carolina, near the Rocky River. Elizabeth's maiden name is unknown. Some have her as a Thomas, others as a Meggs, however, I've found proof of neither. She is always called "Meggs" in the documents of her children, and that was her married name. Her husband would later marry a Thomas, after her death, and that may be where the confusion came in. I believe that Meggs may have been a likely maiden name for Elizabeth, and perhaps she was joined into a cousin marriage, than Thomas, simply because Mariah Keziah Meggs, her firstborn child, went by Meggs. In those days, it was much more likely for a child born out-of-wedlock, to go by their mother's maiden name, than the name of any future husband the mother may marry. In this text, we will refer to her as Elizabeth Meggs. Several refer to her as Sarah Elizabeth, as well as her widower's future wife. That is also misleading and I believe, a case of two people being merged into one. Elizabeth was older, and I only see her in records as Elizabeth. Sarah Thomas was younger, and I've not seen her as Elizabeth. 

Elizabeth Meggs, whether the surname was her current or future acquirement, gave birth to Mariah Keziah Meggs, out of wedlock, and as the mistress, or at the hands of, a married man. That man, as is named on Mariah's documents, was Shepherd Myers.

Shepherd Myers was fully named, Wilson Shepherd Myers, was born on March 5, 1811, in Anson County, NC to Marmaduke Ransom Myers (1772-1831) and wife, Rebecca Brewer (1789-1830). He was married twice, first to Clarissa Jane Teal and second to Catherine McDearmind. Isn't it great that we can know so much about Shepherd, and almost nothing about Elizabeth, not even her maiden name?




Shepherd Myers first appears in the 1840 census of Anson County as a young man counted in his 30's, with a young woman in her 20's, and two small children, a boy and a girl under 5, in the home. This looks like a young married family. His neighbors indicate that he is near what will become the Union-Anson County border. Preceding his name is Holden Lisenby, Henry Deberry and William Horn, Deberry being a name usually associated more with eastern Montgomery County, in this year. Following his listing is Margaret Jones, James Dumas, Moses Sanders and James Tice. Not far down the list I see my ancestor, William Hill, son of Julius Hill; which gives me some perspective of where this census taker was riding his mule. Other familiar names on this page are Wyatt Nance, Hosey (Hosea) Tomberlin, Berry and Coleman Austin, Thomas Polk and a few Mullises. No Meggs nearby.



NameShepherd Myers
GenderMale
RaceWhite
Residence Age39
Birth Dateabt 1811
BirthplaceSouth Carolina
Residence Date1850
Home in 1850Meltonsville, Anson, North Carolina, USA
OccupationFarmer
IndustryAgriculture
Real Estate500
Line Number23
Dwelling Number894
Family Number894
Inferred SpouseClarissa Myers
Inferred ChildJames Wilson Myers; Margaret A Myers; Eliza Myers; Alexander Myers; Hampton Myers; John Myers; Harrison Myers
Household members
NameAge
Shepherd Myers39
Clarissa Myers35
James Wilson Myers12
Margaret A Myers11
Eliza Myers9
Alexander Myers7
Hampton Myers5
John Myers1
Harrison Myers0


By 1850, Shepherd and his wife, Clarrissa Teal Myers have added five more children in the course of ten years, to the first boy and girl from 1840, which would have been James Wilson and Margaret. Mariah Keziah Meggs was born to Shepherd and Elizabeth in 1844, which would have been the year between the births of his sons, Alexander and Hampton, to Clarissa. They are located in the Meltonsville area, and one would think Elizabeth may have been close by but cannot be found. This census reveals that Shepherd was born in South Carolina, while his wife was born in North Carolina.

Clarrissa is found with Shepherd in the 1850 and 1860 census records, and according to her tombstone, she died on September 20, 1865, at the age of 49, having been born October 15, 1815. She and Shepherd had 11 children together, Mariah Meggs' half siblings. They were:

James Wilson Myers (1837-1963). He had married Rebecca Ann Rivers , and had one son, Charlie Shepherd Myers, before James died on September 5, 1863 at Pennsville, Salem, New Jersey, where he died of disease as a POW in the Civil War.

Margaret Ann Myers (1838-1908) Became the second wife of James Ratliff Gulledge. No children.

Eliza Jane Myers (1840-1892) Married James Green Jones, 5 children.

William Alexander Myers (1842-1935) Moved to Madison County, Tennessee, becoming a Grocery Merchant and living to age 92. Married twice, first to Josephine Price, by whom he had one daughter and second to Victoria Mathis, with who he had three sons.

Hampton Myers (1844-1871) Survived the Civil War, and afterwards, joined his brother in Madison County, Tennessee, where he died at age 26.

John Shepherd Myers (1848-1932) Married Sarah Ellen Jarman or Garman, 7 children. Farmed in Gulledge Township, Anson County, where he was born until moving to Rocky Springs in Montgomery County later in life. Lived to 83.

Benjamin Harrison Myers (1850-1936) Moved to Fannin County, Texas, as a young man, where he worked as a Carpenter. Married Bernice Brigance there, three children. Lived to see 86.

Thomas Albert Myers (1853-1924) Moved to Grayson County, Texas, where he worked as a Carpenter. Married Elizabeth Ellen Sharpe, three sons. Made it to 72.

George Franklin Myers (1855-1924) Married twice, 1st to Nora Francis Braswell, no children. Second to Emma A. Tarlton, ten children. Worked as a farmer in Anson, Lee and finally, Richmond Counties, NC. Died at 68 years old. 

Elijah Dorsey Myers ( 1858-1919) Married twice, 1st to Sarah Francis Ratliff, 4 children. Second to Elizabeth Ann Gaddy, 5 children. Remained and farmed in Gulledge, Anson County.

Sarah Teal Myers (1863-between 1900 and 1910) Married John Davis Rushing, 6 daughters. Lived in Gulledge until she died at age 48.


After Clarissa died, Shepherd still had young children, so he married an "old maid", Scottish lady, Catherine McDermaid, who had just inherited property after the death of her mother, Mary.



Above, is the family in 1870, with Catherine and two older ladies boarding, Ann McLaurin, who never married and Kizzie (Kessiah) Meaders Hubbard, recently widowed. 

Shepherd Myers died on Christmas Eve, 1884 and is buried at Bethel United Methodist Church Cemetery in Wadesboro, NC. 


His widow, Catherine McDermaid Myers, became insane and died four years later at the Asylum in Morganton.


Elijah Dorsey Myers and wife Fannie Ratliff Myers.

Elizabeth, the mother of Mariah Meggs, is not to be found in the 1850 census. It can be estimated that she married James Meggs by about that time, as their first child together, Jane, was born in 1852. 




In 1860, the family is found living in the Beaver Dam Community of Union County. James Meggs is a Miller, and Elizabeth is listed as a Spinster, a one who runs a spinning wheel. They have three young children together, Jane, Ellen and James.
Mariah is shown by her middle name, Kizzy, short for Keziah. She's incorrectly given the age of 22, when she was actually about 16. 

In 1866, Mariah Keziah Meggs is brought to court. Following in her mother's footsteps, Mariah has become pregnant outside of wedlock. Ordered to court on a Bastardy bond, and is compelled to name the father of her child, who she names as Levi Parker, a member of the Parker family that George Cagle was in a business partnership with. 






A portion of this document, shown above, shows that on May 24, 1866, that Mariah Meggs had been delivered of a child, and that child had been born a 'bastard', or outside the legal binds of marriage. Mariah, of Stanly County, confessed that Levi Parker, of Union County, was the father of the child, a girl she named Melissa Ann Meggs.

Levi Guilford Parker

Levi Guilford Parker, born April 26, 1843, was from Union County, and just a year older than Mariah. It can be assumed that by 1866, she may have already taken up residence in the Cagle home, as a boarder, bounded, or laborer, as he was in association with the Parkers.  She would have been about 21 or 22 and Levi 22 or 23.

He was a son of Elijah Parker Jr. and wife, Nancy Laney Rogers, and one of a very large clutch of children.


NameLevy G Parker
Age16
Birth Yearabt 1844
GenderMale
RaceWhite
Birth PlaceNorth Carolina
Home in 1860Union, North Carolina
Post OfficeLanes Creek
Dwelling Number57
Family Number57
Attended SchoolY
Household members
NameAge
Elijah Parker40
Nancy Parker
Jerusha Parker20
Georg N Parker18
Levy G Parker16
James E Parker14
Young R Parker12
Cullin Parker11
Thomas Parker9
William Parker7
Adolphus L Parker5
Emoly R Parker2
Samuel M Parker1
Manizer A Parker6

In 1860, the family was living in Lane's Creek Township, and there were already 11 children, and more would follow. Maniza Ann Parker was a niece, daughter of Levi's oldest daughter, Jerusha. Like many young men his age, Levi would serve in the Civil War a few short years after this. He lost a few brothers, but Levi survived.




NameLevi G Parker
Enlistment Age18
Birth Dateabt 1843
Birth PlaceUnion County, North Carolina, USA
Enlistment Date16 Sep 1861
Enlistment PlaceUnion County, North Carolina
Enlistment RankPrivate
Muster Date20 Nov 1861
Muster PlaceNorth Carolina
Muster CompanyD
Muster Regiment37th Infantry
Muster Regiment TypeInfantry
Muster InformationEnlisted
Imprisonment Date2 Apr 1865
Imprisonment PlaceNear Petersburg, Virginia
Casualty Date30 Jun 1862
Casualty PlaceFrazier's Farm, Virginia
Type of CasualtyWounded
Side of WarConfederacy
Survived War?Yes
Residence PlaceUnion County, North Carolina
OccupationFarmer
Notes1862-11-15 Returned, Estimated day; 1863-09-15 Returned, Estimated day; 1865-04-03 Confined, (Point Lookout, MD), Estimated day; 1865-06-16 Oath of Allegiance, (Point Lookout, MD)
Additional Notes 2Casualty 2 Date: 03 Jul 1863; Casualty 2 Place: Gettysburg, Pennsylvania; Casualty 2 Type of Casualty: Wounded
TitleNorth Carolina Troops 1861-65, A Roster

Enlisting in September of 1861, Levi's military career was one of hardship and endurance. He was first wounded at Frazier's farm, Virginia, near Richmond on June 30, 1862 and the next year, wounded again at Gettysburg on June 3, 1863. Levi was imprisoned at Point Lookout, Maryland and released on June 16, 1865 under an Oath of Allegiance. He was described as being 5 foot 9 3/4 inches tall with a florid complexion, dark hair and gray eyes. He was literate and returned home an injured, but determined man. Shortly  after he must have met, or reconnected with, Mariah Meggs, the bastard stepdaughter of James Ransom Meggs.

After his day in court, Levi Guilford Parker did what most young men in his position died, find a "good girl" and marry her, a respectable one, deserving of wifeing. On April 13, 1867, the spring after the birth of his daughter, Melissa, Levi married Lavina Elliot, 28, of Union County. Lavina ,or "Viney", was the daughter of William and Sarah Elliott, her mother a widow.  She and Levi would raise a family of five; Dora, Ellison, John S., Lewis and Isaac M. Parker, remaining in Lanes Creek, Union County, NC, while the children were small, and then moving to the town of Academy in Lamar, Texas by 1900.


Academy was short-lived, but Lamar sits to the east of Fannin, Texas, where a couple of Levi's siblings relocated. Red River County borders it on the east and it's northern border is the Oklahoma state line. The County seat is Paris, which was made famous by the 1984 movie of the same name, "Paris, Texas'.

Lavina died in 1904, in Texas, and by 1910, Levi is shown living in Muddy Fork, Arkansas, with his son, Ellison. They had returned to Texas by the 1920 census, Levi was alone in his own household, but living near his sons, Ellison and Isaac. They must have had a sense of humor. In the census, these North Carolina born fellows fibbed a bit, obviously. While Levi gave his 'Native Tongue' as Dutch, he stated his mother's native tongue was Irish. Ellison gave his father's Native Tongue as French, which would have been Levi?~!

 When Levi applied for his military pension, he was 78 and living in Windom, Fannin Couty, Texas. The year was 1921 and he stated that he had lived in Texas for 27 years. Levi Guilford Parker would pass away on June 20, 1924, in Windom, Fannin County, Texas.

1870 Mariah Keziah Meggs is living in the home of George Cagle with her daughter, Melissa "Lisy Ann' Meggs.








Her family had left her behind. She is shown as 26, and by her father's surname of Myers. With her is her 6/7-year-old daughter, Melissa, or "Lisy". Because of the way their names are written in this document, some folks have her as Marion, instead of Mariah, and her daughter as Lucy instead of Lisy. They are living with George Cagle, age 58, his wife Nancy, 52, and their youngest daughter Fannie. Eleven-year-old Eli is George's son by Maniza Honeycutt, and the William Huneycutt, also eleven, is George's grandson William, son of his deceased daughter, Elizabeth. While Melissa's father, Levi Parker, is living in Union County, the mother and daughter duo are living across the river to the north in Big Lick, Stanly County. 

The Meggs 



In 1870, while Mariah and her child are living in the Cagle household, her mother, Elizabeth, and stepfather, Ransom Meggs, are still living in the Union County Community of New Salem, and Mr. Meggs is still operating his gristmill. Their three children together, Jane, Eliza and James W. Meggs, are now in their teens. Living with them is William Wesley Meggs, 21 and his wife, Nancy Coley Meggs, a nephew of James Ransom Meggs. Within a few years, Ransom will sell his Grist Mill and his Olive Branch and New Salem properties and remove, like many in the Big Lick area, to Iredell County, North Carolina.





Elizabeth Meggs, Mariah's mother, contracts some ailment after moving to Iredell County, and passes away in September 1879, at the age of 54, of dysentery.  It is unknown where she is buried. 




James Ransom Meggs wasted no time after the death of his wife, Elizabeth, and remarried on December 9, 1879, about two months later. He married Sarah Elizabeth Thomas, who I believe he knew previously, the daughter of Jacob Thomas and Hester Jane Holley Thomas, who grew up in the New Salem/Olive Branch area of Union County, NC. 






The 1880 census revealed that James R. and Sarah T. Meggs were living in Davidson, Iredell County, and Ransom was still a Miller. 

Ransom and Sarah had one child together, a son, the named William James Meggs, who was born November 20, 1880.

After another few years, the Meggs family would move again, this time a little further, to Faulkner County, Arkansas. 




NameJames Ransom Meggs
GenderMale
Birth Date1822
Birth PlaceAnson County, North Carolina, United States of America
Death PlaceFaulkner County, Arkansas, United States of America
CemeteryCopperas Springs Cemetery
Burial or Cremation PlaceGuy, Faulkner County, Arkansas, United States of America


James Ransom Meggs died on January 7, 1904, in Guy, Faulkner County, Arkansas, at the age of 84, and is buried at the Copperas Springs Cemetery. 



Faulkner County sits in the middle of Arkanasas, where the Ozarks give way to the Arkansas River Valley and where a Miller could find a bounty of creeks to operate hisMill.


After the death of Ransom Meggs, his widow, Sarah, married a Mr. Wilson and divorced him, all before 1910. But she didn't rest on her Laurels, oh no.





1910 finds Sarah living with her only son, William J. Meggs, who has started his own family with a wife and two little children.








In 1919, Sarah Thomas Meggs Wilson, at age 64, married an old Civil War Veteran named Jacob J. Hill, 78. That one didn't work out , either, as in the 1920 census, poor old Jacob is listed as married, but living alone.







Jacob J. Hill died on March 31, 1828, and Sarah followed soon after on August 31, 1929, passing away from Bright's Disease at the age of 65, in Clifton, Faulkner County, Arkansas.

Mariah also had half-siblings through her mother. They're listed below.

Jane Ransom Meggs

Jane Meggs was the first child of Elizabeth and her husband, James Ransom Meggs. Elizabeth is thought to have possibly been a double-Meggs. Jane was born November 23, 1852, in the Olive Branch Community of Union County, NC. 





She married at the age of 19 to George Lafayette Hinson, in Stanly County on January 26, 1872.
After starting their family in Stanly County, they first moved to the Leaksville Community in Richmond County, where George died in 1897.  George and Jane were the parents of 10 children, with 8 living until adulthood. These eight were Ida Elizabeth Hinson Miller (1872-1957), Ella Hinson Jarrett (1877-1904), Julia Emma Hinson McCall (1879-1963), Gilena Hinson Brown (1882-1972), Rose Hinson Goldston (1884-1972), Docia Belle Hinson (1886-1965), only son, Lonnie Yeates Hinson, (1888-1945) and Nellie B. Hinson Puckett (1896-1972). 

Jane was left in a mess when George died, her youngest still an infant, but with the help of her older children, they thrived. They moved to Charlotte, in Mecklenburg County, a growing city, with more opportunities for working women and teenagers, and there they remained. At first, she took in boarders and worked as a stenographer. She then moved in with her married daughter, Nellie Hinson Puckett, whose husband was an architect for the Railroad. Her unmarried daughter, Belle, followed. They would remain with the Pucketts until she passed away.


NameJane Ransome Hinson
Maiden NameMeigs
GenderFemale
Birth Date23 Nov 1852
Birth PlaceOlive Branch, Union County, North Carolina, United States of America
Death Date23 Apr 1931
Death PlaceCharlotte, Mecklenburg County, North Carolina, United States of America
CemeteryElmwood Cemetery
Burial or Cremation PlaceCharlotte, Mecklenburg County, North Carolina, United States of America
Has Bio?Y
ChildrenGilena BrownIda Elizabeth MillerDorcia Belle HinsonElla JarrettRose A. GoldstonJulia Emma McCallLonnie Yates HinsonNell B. Puckett





Jane Meggs Hinson passed away in 1931, at the age of 78, in Charlotte, NC. She was buried in Elmwood Cemetery.


Eliza Ellen Louisa Meggs Speights

Ellen Meggs was born on June 2, 1856, in New Salem, Union County, NC






She married November 24, 1872, just several months after her older sister, at the age of 16. Her husband was William Paul Speights of Stanly County, and the marriage took place in Stanly County.  The Speights first moved to Davidson, Iredell County, NC, where Ellen's parents had relocated and where her mother died in 1879.

Their next stop with their growing brood was to Saline County, Arkansas, where they settled in a community called Marble by 1898. The family remained in Arkansas for two decades, after which, they relocated once again to the town of Fairley in Hunt County, Texas.





This would be their last stop. William Paul Speights died on January 2, 1922 and Ellen followed 7 years later and joined him on August 15, 1929, at the age of 73.



NameEliza Ellen Speight
Maiden NameMeigs
GenderFemale
Birth Date2 Jun 1856
Birth PlaceUnion County, North Carolina, United States of America
Death Date15 Aug 1929
Death PlaceFairlie, Hunt County, Texas, United States of America
CemeteryHope-Sweatbox Cemetery
Burial or Cremation PlaceJardin, Hunt County, Texas, United States of America
Has Bio?Y
FatherJames Ransom Meggs
SpouseWilliam Paul Speight
ChildrenMartha Jane Quinn; Lillie Mae Pingleton; Charles Green Speight; Rufus Alexander Speight; Mary Magdalene Lovelace; James Preston Speight; John Wesley Ransom Speight; Millard Fillmore Speight




William and Eliza Meggs Speight also had 10 children, with 7 living until adulthood. All of these were recorded. Their first, 'Leuter', was born September 22, 1873, in Stanly County, and died a few weeks later on October 14. She was followed by John Wesley Ransom Speight (1875-1937), Mary Magdalene Speight (1877-1914), James Preston Speight (1879-1964), little Willie Speight was born in Davidson, Iredell County, and lived two years (1882-1884) and is buried there. He was followed by Martha Jane Speight, who was born in Arkansas City, Arkansas (1885-1964), Charlie Green Speight (1888-1964), Rufus A. Speight (1891-1959), Lillie Mae Speight (1894-1900) and Millard Fillmore Speight (1898-1981).


James William Speight

James was born on November 14, 1857, in the Olive Branch Community of Union County. He worked as a farm laborer while a teenager, and died on February 22, 1876, and was buried in New Salem, Union County, NC. He was only 18 years old.  His parents moved to Iredell County after his death. 

William James Speight

William James Speight was not a biological sibling of Mariah Meggs, as they did not share either parent, but he was a half-sibling of her mother's other children. He was born by James Ramson Meggs' second wife, Sarah Thomas Meggs, on November 20, 1880, in Iredell County, NC, and named for his older half-brother who had died just four years prior, by flipping his two given names from James William to William James. His sisters were adults and married before he was born, so he grew up in an entirely different world to an aging father and a mother late in her child-bearing years. 




William James Speight






William married in Faulkner County, Arkansas on February 15, 1899, to Mary Etta Glover, at the ag of 18. His wife was only 15, and had been born in the little town of Guy.

After his father died in 1904, William, now about 24, took care of his widowed mother, even though she married twice more. 



On his draft card for World War I, it was declared that he was a farmer, and a citizen of Guy, of medim height and weight, and a blue-eyed blonde. He would remain in Faulkner County, Arkansas for the remainder of his life, passing away in 1938 at the age of 58. He and Mary Etta had 7 children together; Henry, Velma, Bertha, Beverly Wayland, Oscar Marion, Opie Hester, and Autie Mae. 

Mariah Keziah Myers-Meggs

When we last saw Mariah, she and her young daughter were boarding with the Cagle family.  Within a few years, George Cagle would hire a young man of the neighborhood to help work his farm. His name was Daniel Alexander Crisco, which decision would become an act of attrition for George Crisco. 

Daniel Alexander Crisco had a background analogous with that of Mariah's. He was son of Rebecca Elizabeth Crisco, a single woman, and William G. Kennedy, a man who would marry, but not to Rebecca. He grew up in the shadow of shame, in a reprehensible status eschewing condemnation. The embullient George Cagle, full of spit,vinegar and impudence, yet gifted with empathy and a big heart, hired the young man, gave him honest work, casting aside the wagging tongues of neighbos.

One can not say what the exact circumstances were of the marriage of Dan Crisco and Mariah Myers Meggs, only that we can view it with a little askance. Yes, they were both 'bastards', the term of the day, now hurled only in insults and vagarity. Otherwise, the circumstances were suspect.



The facts are that on August 25, 1872,  Daniel A. Crisco, son of William 'Kennada' and Elizabeth Crisco, applied for the marriage license with 'Marisa K Meggs' ,( or Marian or Mariah, the spelling nearly illegible), daughter of Shepherd 'Mires' and Elizabeth Meggs. Six months later, on November 24th of the same year, the wedding was performed by John Burris, Justice of the Peace.

Dan Crisco was a boy of 17. Mariah Meggs was a woman of 28 with a young daughter. Had they fallen in love over shared space and shared circumstances? Had George Cagle a hand in it, encouraging it, or had it been stronger than encouragment, some kind of deal? Was it an interdiction to keep himself from being blamed for any additional children that might be born of his former mistress, or was it somehow to appease his wife, Nancy, and get Mariah out of his house?  We can't know, but we do know the marriage lasted for about 4 years, without the birth of any known children, before tragedy struck.


The in-depth story can be read at this link: A Woman Was In It:The Cagle-Crisco Murder.


Breifly, I will rehash Mariah's part in it. Mariah was an abused spouse under the hands of the angry Dan Crisco. The couple worked and lived on George Cagle's farm. One night, Daniel had a particularly violent fight with Mariah and 'ran her off', or made her vacate the house. The next day, with seemingly little concern for his wife's whereabouts, Dan Crisco went to work, as usual, and at some point when George and Daniel were working close to each other, the beaten wife reappears, out of habitude or hunger, reason unknown.



Like a beaten dog, wagging its tail, crawling up to its angry master with it's head down, Mariah made her way towards the two men. Crisco addressed his wife profanely and gesticulated for her to go back to the cabin he had evicted her from the night before. The aging George Crisco, who obviously still had benevolent and empathetic feelings toward the young woman, admonished Dan Crisco for berating his wife and the evident violence. George's protective stance angered Dan and he invited George to an altercation. This threat may have caused the older man to back off, as it seems they continued their work until the end of the day.






The Concord Register
(Concord, North Carolina)
4 Apr 1876, Tue • Page 4

Daniel Crisco went home and not finding his wife, instinctively knew where he would find her. He returned to the Cagle home, armed with a knife and found his beaten wife seeking safety there. She may have had her child with her, but that is not addressed. The papers reported that he again became abusive towards Moriah, hitting her, kicking her and ordering her home. She refused and at some point, George Cagle stepped in to defend her, and demanded Crisco leave his home. Dan pulled the knife on George, prompting George to pick up a chair in self-defense. Using the chair, the old man pushed Dan out of his house and attempted to force him from the property. Coming upon the hooped frame of a Conestoga Wagon cover, and using that as a weapon, he kept advancing on Daniel to chase him away. Daniel threw a rock at the old man, causing George to dash at him with the wooden object and struck Daniel, after which Daniel stabbed George with the knife, killing him.

Daniel ran, but was later arrested. In jail, only Daniel Crisco was alive to talk. He had hours to sit and think of ways to prune and embellish his side of the story, to spin it in a way to ingratiate himself to whomever would listen. Reporters would come, seeking details of the scandalous tragedy. Daniel Crisco took full advantage of their thirst for drama and dirt, to prevaricate the tale in his favor. 

There were other factors in play, Dan's youth and good looks. He was apparently handsome, boyish and charming, blonde, blue-eyed, affable and loquacious. And Dan Crisco was fully cognizant of his attributes on the inquistive and curious, taking full advantage of it. By the time court came around, public sentiment was changing. 

The community reputation of George Cagle was a factor in the end. George, wealthy for the times in his community, and a shrewd, although fair, businessman, was known for drunken and depraved behavior. Dan Crisco used this fact to full effect. He was convicted of the murder of George Cagle but later after petitions from the community citizenry, after talk and the pitious portrayals from news reporters, convinced by Dan's whitewashed image of himself as a wronged husband, defending himself against the adulterous lover of his unfaithful wife, true or not, Dan was pardoned and released. He went on with life, first divorcing Mariah on grounds of adultery, which I am sure was a relief for her as well, to release her from his abuse. 

Daniel Crisco would soon remarry and have several children with a woman of his own age, and seem to live a fairly normal, georgian existence, until an act of kismet, where he died at the hands of an angry drunk man, himself a murder victim, at the age of 58 in 1914.


NameMariah Meggs
Age33
Birth DateAbt 1847
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Home in 1880Big Lick, Stanly, North Carolina, USA
Dwelling Number284
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseSelf (Head)
Marital StatusDivorced
Father's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
OccupationHousekeeper
NeighborsView others on page
Household members
NameAge
Mariah Meggs33
Melisah Meggs16



1880 finds Mariah, now 33, living quietly, and obviously, on the former lands of George Cagle. She may have even been in the house she had shared with Daniel Crisco. She is in Big Lick, living next to George's widowed daughter, Adeline Crisco Hartsell, and her young daughter, Nellie, and George's only legitmate son and main heir, David S. Crisco. George's widow, Nancy, had moved to Iredell County, with her two daughters with him,  a few of his  daughters by his first wife, and his son Eli Huneycutt Cagle, who was by another of his mistressess, Maniza Huneyuctt. David S. Crisco lived a quieter life than his father, and seems to have taken care of, not only his own large family, but his sister and Mariah, by allowing her to remain on the property.

Mariah has returned to the surname Meggs, her marital status given as 'divorced', and her daughter, Melissa, now 16.

The next recorded event in the life of Mariah Meggs was the marriage of her daughter, Melissa Ann.




On July, 2, 1886, Levi McIntyre, 21, of Stanly County,  the son of Stokes McIntyre, deceased and Margaret Huneycutt, deceased, applied for a marriage license for the marriage of himself and 'Lis Ann Meggs' of Stanly County, aged 20, father unknown and mother, Mariah Meggs, living. The wedding took place at the office of J. W. Huneycutt, Justice of the Peace, in Big Lick, Stanly County, North Carolina. Witnesses were Leander Austin, Lafayette Walters and 'Boss' Hinson. 

Levi Huneycutt McIntyre, was again, a child born in similar, and shamed, circumstances as Melissa Meggs. 

His father, Malachi Stokes McIntyre, born in 1804, was a married man, in fact, married to the sister of my second Great Grandmother. His wife, Elizabeth Murray McIntyre, outlived him. He served in the Civil War, despite being a middle aged man, and after his return, despite still having a wife and 10 children, took Margaret Huneycutt as a mistress. 

Levi Huneycutt McIntyre 

Levi Huneycutt/ McIntyre was born around 1858. In 1870, shown above, he is living in Burnsville Township, Anson County, in the home of his father, Stokes McIntrye, helping on the farm. Also in the home of Stokes McIntyre is his younger sister, Elizabeth, aged 8.They lived near the Stanly/Anson County border and Stokes often vascillated between counties. His records are found in both counties, Stanly/Montgomery more than Anson, actually. What boggles the mind by todays standards, are that Stokes was not a single man. His wife, Great Great Great  Aunt Elizabeth, is still living with him, as is three of their single daughters together, along with two of his children by his mistress, Margaret Huneycutt. Margaret was 37 years his junior and was 17 years old when Levi was born. Living right next door at this time, perhaps even on land owned by Stokes McIntrye, was the home of Marion Blackmon.

Marion Blackmon or Blackman shows up nowhere else in Anson, or any bordering county. He's 38 years old and his wife, Mary, is listed as 40. Also in his home is Nancy Huneycutt, 68, the widow of Samuel Huneycutt, Margaret, 31, her daughter and mistress of Stokes McIntyre, and mother of Levi, and presumably, Elizabeth, the 8 year old. Also in the Blackmon home are two little girls, Clementine, 6 and Melinda 2, whom also appear to be children of Margaret, corroborated by the next census. I believe due to the dependants, that Mary Blackman was probably also Mary Huneycutt, a sister of Margaret, and daughter of Nancy, as Mr. Blackman soon removes himself to South Carolina, and on later to Georgia, without her, if he be the same, and she returns to Honeycutt, without being found elsewhere in 1870.

Margaret Huneycutt was the daughter of Samuel Honeycutt, who was not a wealthy or well-documented man. Honeycutt was not a common Anson County name, they tended to constellate more in Stanly and Cabarrus Counties. I believe Samuel was part of the Stanly County Honeycutt family, but where he fits in is obscure.

He shows up first in the Muster Roll of Montgomery County, NC, during the War of 1812.

In the 1830 census, he is counted in Montgomery County, on the West Side of the PeeDee (now Stanly), near some Furrs, Daniel Reap, Lewis Springer, William Wall. His household is presented as a male in his 40's and a female in her 20's, with five young children; three boys and two girls, all under 9.

In  1840, he is in Cabarrus County, next to Oliver McLure and near an Elizabeth McIntyre. I'm not entirely sure this is the same Samuel. In Anson in 1840, there is a 'Bry't' Honeycutt living next to Milton and John Winfield, sons of Edward Winfield and cousins of mine, and also near my ancestor Stark Ramsey.

In 1850, Samuel, now 70, with wife Nancy 60, are living in Burnsville Township, next to Stark Ramsey's son, James, Robin McIntyre and another ancestor, Thomas Carpenter. I wonder if 'Bryt' was Samuel, or a son of his? There are three children of his in the home, and not Margaret, Mary 25, Betsy, 16 and Andrew, 13, who will die in the Civil War. There's also an 8 year old named Lucy, who could be a grandchild.

In 1860, Samuel has gotten younger, now counted as 68 and Nancy 60. Ages were fluid. The only child listed is Margaret, at 19, which leads me to believe she may have been the 8 year old Lucy.



In 1880, Margeret is now 29, and Mary Honeycutt is 60. The ages do not line up with the previous census. Mary should have been 50 and Margaret 39. Mary is the head of household, and Margaret is listed as her sister. Neither woman has a listed occupation and Mary is noted as having heart disease. There are now three children in the home. Clementine is now listed by a nickname, Tiny, and shown as 15, was 6 in the previous census. Melinda L. is shown as 11 and was 2 in the previous census. There was another child born in the interim, John William Honeycutt/ McIntyre, age 7, who marries in 1901, naming his father as Stokes McIntrye and his mother as Margaret McIntyre, father deceased and mother living, a resident of Anson County. 

So, Stokes McIntyre was the father of Margarets oldest child, Levi and youngest child, John W., so the odds were that he was probably the father of the sisters in the middle, and probably provided for them as long as he was alive.






On November 30, 1889, Levy McIntyre, 28, of Stanly County, son of Stokes McIntyre and Margaret Honeycutt, marries Jane Spears, 28, of Union County, daughter of Margaret Spears, living, and an unknown father. This was only three years after his marriage to Melissa Meggs. As Melissa is not to be found again, it can safely be assumed she passes away before November of 1889, possibly in childbirth.

This was the last record I find for Levi Honeycutt McIntyre, too and the terminus of my journey. His second wife, Martha Jane Spears, is not found in the 1900 census, but reappears in 1910, living on Marshville Road in New Salem, as a widow, living with her sister and niece. She has returned to her maiden name of Spears, which leads me to believe her marriage was brief. Jane is found again in 1920, still in New Salem, but living with her brother, then again in 1930, living with the niece who was living with her in 1910. This time, she has returned to the surname, McIntyre.








Martha Jane Spears McIntyre died on January 6, 1934 of  myocarditis and hypertension. She lived long enough to recieve a death certificate and her tombstone still stands. She was 83 years old and her niece, Dora Honeycutt was the informant, naming her parents as Allen Spears and Margaret Nance. Jane was a half-orphan, but not a 'child of the wind'. She was buried at Pleasant Hill Cemetery near Marshville.



Mariah Keziah Meggs was alive when her only daughter, Melissa, was married in 1886. I can't find a trace of either of them afterwards. It appears that Melissa Meggs McIntyre died prior to November of 1889, and that Mariah Meggs Crisco died prior to the 1900 census. There was not a generation afterwards, as Levi McIntyre had no children by either wife, that survived to be recorded, at any rate. These children of the wind left little trace, and were not notable enough, prominent enough, or troublesome enough, to have made the papers, yet they deserve to be remembered.

Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Nancy of Stillwater Creek


Nancy Whitley did not appear in the 1850 census of Stanly County, but we can rest assured that she was there. Above is just one of a number of documents that name her as living along Stillwater Creek in the western part of Stanly County, in the 1850's.
My quest is to figure out who Nancy Whitley was, aside from the mother of the four children we know she was the mother of Hardin, Mary, William Pinkney and Taylor Whitley. Two of her sons died in the Civil War. Only one of them left children, and her daughter is a complete mystery, as there were so many Mary Whitelys. 





The location of Stillwater Creek does me no favors in the search to discover who she may have been the widow of among the Stanly County area Whitleys. It runs from east of Locust, south to the Rocky River,  between Stanfield and Oakboro. Shown above, it's the blue line between the two red ones. Covering a great deal of territory and territory common to the Whitley family. 




Nancy appears to have been on her own, and a landowner, soon after the inception of the county of Stanly. I found her in a tax list, with her son, Hardy, also seen as Hardin, listed above her, in 1863. They owned 50 acres each. They were next to Hezekiah Whitley. Make a note of that.



May Session of Court, 1855
"Ordered by the Court that Hardy Whitley be appointed overseer of the road from Hezekiah Whitley's to Charles Dry's Ford and that John T Griffin, John Yow, JH Griffin, Calvin J Austin, David M Harkey, Ezekiel M Brooks, Hezekiah Whitley, Temperance Austin's hands, Ezekiel Brooks hands, William Hinson and Charles Cagle work as hands and that the overseer Mile Mark the road from the County line to Albemarle.
Again, we see the names of Nancy or her family in conjunction with Hezekiah.

On September 26, 1851, Nancy Whitley bought a tract of land for $50 from Daniel Freeman, merchant and businessman. It was located on Austin Road and met Hezekiah Whitley's corner, Henry Baker's line, back to Baker's corner, Caswell Smith's line and back to the Austin Road. 
Jess Morton was a witness, and it was processed on March 26th, 1852.


The above deed 169 is from Nancy Whitley to Hardy Whitley, both of Stanly County, dated the 28th day of November 1857. For $150 in hand, Nancy sold to Hardy beginning at a stake in the Austin Road containing 52 acres, ' more or less ', "both of love and equity of the said Nancy Whitley to be the said Hardy Whitley's at the death of his mother the said lands and tenements Hardy Whitley his heirs and assigns against the said Nancy Whitley and his (sic) heirs and assigns. Signed by Nancy Whitley. Witnessed by S.S. Crisco and Executed on September 3, 1863.

Hardy Whitley had fought in the Civil War and died on April 25, 1864, in Wilmington. So, this deed was proven after his death. It may have been his widow, Bathsheba, or an unknown administrator, who submitted the deed.

The above is the Grant of A. H. Nance for 100 acres in Stanly County North Carolina dated May 21st, 1856.  "Pursuant to a warrant No 728 Surveyor for Alfred H Nance one hundred acres of land on the waters of Rocky River adjoining the lands of Joseph Hatley and others Bounded as follows. Beginning at a stake by a white oak and? oak at Jesse P Nance's corner and runs with his line to Nancy Whitley's corner...stake in the Austin Road... Hezekiah Whitley's line.... George H. Huneycutt's ...Hatley's corner.
Chain carriers were Jesse P Nance and James L Russell.

We're seeing a pattern. Nancy Whitley lived a long the Austin Road, as it existed in that era, on property adjoining that of Hezekiah Whitley.

There was one more. 

John Hinson Sr.  April 24, 1854.
"Take notice that I have this day levied sundry executions at the instance of A C Freeman's and others on one hundred acres of land, on the waters of Stillwater Creek adjoining the lands of Nancy Whitley and others as your property and shall return thereof to the next Court of pleas and quarters sessions to be held for the County of Stanly at the courthouse in Albemarle and applied to sell same, subject to a deed of trust made to Lee Lowder for the benefit of JP Nantz.
J Marshall, sheff.
by J F Stowe DG" 

And these are all the mentions I can find of Nancy Whitley, the mother of Hardy, William Pinkney, Mary and Taylor.

The family, as a lot, appears in but one census, 1860. Hardy, with his wife, Bathsheba, and infant son, James, live next door to Nancy, born in 1798, and her younger children, Mary, Pinkney and Taylor. Both Hardy and Taylor were Civil War casualties. William Pinkney Whitley survived the War, married Civil War widow, Margaret Melinda Springer, maiden name unknown. 
The small grouping had an obvious connection to Hezekiah Whitley, if only as neighbors. Perhaps a look at him will offer up some clues.
Hezekiah Whitley, also seen as Hezekiah Isaac Whitley, was born about 1813, and lived in the Big Lick area. He married, Elizabeth ,supposedly a Cagle.



In these early land entries in Stanly County from 1844, we see that Isham Whitley enter 100 acres on the Austin Road that included his own improvements. Hezekiah Whitley entered 100 acres adjoining Isham Whitleys 100 acres. And then, Alfred Ledbetter enters 100 acres on the new road leading to Charles Dry's Ford, also adjoining Isham Whitley's 100 acres.

This is pretty significant. Keep those names and locations in mind.



The above document shows that Hezikiah was also in debt in 1852, to Daniel Freeman, like Nancy was at that time.




This one shows a lawsuit wherein Andrew Huneycutt, who was one of the largest land owners around Big Lick at that time, sues Daniel Freeman, who in turn supoenas Levi Eudy, Hezekiah Whitley, Jesse Morton, Alfred Ledbetter, and James M McCorkle. Most of them being neighbors in that particular area.


1847 Tax List 


The 1847 Taxlist shows the taxable Whitleys in Stanly County. On Stillwater Creek, we have Nancy Whitley with 100 acres and Hezekiah Whitley with 149 acres.  The other Whitleys were: Green Deberry Whitley with 470 acres on Little Running Creek, Benjamin Lindsey Whitley with 538 acres on Stony Run Creek, Temple Whitley with 250 acres on Bear Creek, William Whitley with 291 acres on Bear Creek and on Rocky River, his son Edmund with 70 acres on Bear Creek, and Adam Whitley, no land, but himself as a Poll.

No mention of Isham, who was there in 1844, but Nancy pops up.








On January 4,1850, there was an Indenture between Alfred Ledbetter, ( 'Member him?), and Daniel Freeman. The land Alfred Ledbetter was using as collateral met a corner post oak in Hezekiah Whitley's line. Then after meeting a blackjack in Hezekiah's line, it ran with Nancy Whitley's line, showing that their property all met. 



Back in the November 1843 session of court, it was ordered that George Cagle appointed overseer to clear out the new road leading from Charles Dry's Ford on Rocky River, to the signboard opposite George Whitley's. Remember the mention of Charles Dry's Ford in the land entries?

He was to work from the river to the Austin Road and summon the following: George W. Chrisco, John W. Austin, Michael Cagle, Ishmael Eudy, John Hinson, Lindsey Cagle, Hezekiah Whitley, Axiom Whitley, Hampton White, Harrel Hinson, Andrew Huneycutt's hands, Archibald Stancil, John Stancil, Henry Brooks, A. Ledbetter, Tempy Austin's hands, Charles Cagle, and Bryant Griffin. These were for the most part, young men. They were by no means old men. The term "hands" meant empolyee's of, as Tempy Austin was a woman, and not a young one, but her employees were required, as she probably lived on or near Austin Road.

A few names listed were not familar, possible sons of men who planted here, that would ride the wind west like dandelion froth. Axiom, or Axom Whitley was one of those. There are a few mentions of him in the 1840's Stanly County records. In the 1842 November Sessions of the P's and Q's Court, 'Axim" Whitey is mentioned as having 100 acres on Haw Branch, that was to be sold for back taxes of $1.39. Can you imagine? Haw Branch is in the vicinity of Aquadale, not particularly close to Stlilwater Creek.. I'm getting a little ahead of myself here, but the other Whitley who lived on Haw Branch was Lewis, another Whitley most people have never heard of, not in that time frame, at least. After Lewis, who passed away around 1838, came Mary, much in the same way that after Isham, came Nancy. See where I am going? Anyway, Axom Whitley was probably a young man, and maybe even moved in with Hezekiah for a brief while. He could have died, because he not to be found in the county by 1850, bur more likely he became one of those who went west or south or find their greener pasture.  If I had to guess at a relationship, my bet would be that he was a nephew to Hezekiah, because I believe he was most likely a son of Lewis, but of course, we really can't know. Much of genealogy is a hypothesis based on gut feelings, that one cannot prove, but may believe there is a possible relationship. It's just as possible that Axom was a Whitley from an entirely different place that stopped in for a minute, of no relation at all, but I doubt it.


In 1848, the taxable Whitley's were spread across two pages. They really hadn't changed much since 1847. Green had 470 acres on Running Creek; Ben, 538 acres on Stony Run. Temple Whitley was on Bear Creek, still with 250 acres. Hezekiah still showed 149 acres in Stillwater Creek, and William's lot has decreased to163 aces on Bear Creek alone.






On the next page, Edmund Whitley, Williams's son, is still showing 70 acres on Bear Creek. After him, Nancy Whitley again makes the list, but her former 100 acres do not. Instead, B. L. Lindsey is showing 19 acres on Stillwater. Jesse Whitley, another son of William's, has now become taxable, but without land. It makes me wonder if Ben Whitley bought Nancy's small allotment, so that she and her children could live there. Green D. Whitley also adds on to his quantity, now with 300 acres on Bear Creek. I don't know what the '/re' means.



When Daniel Freeman and son, A.C. Freeman, placed a levy on the property of George H. Huneycutt and George W. Russell, it is noted as being on Fox Branch, one I am not familiar with, and adjoining the property of Hastings (Hastin) Hatley and Hezekiah Whitley. Dated March 11th, 1848, Alfred Ledbetter was the constable. Knowing the general location of both Hezekiah and Hastings, it was probably in the Oakboro area.


And now we come to the very first tax list of Stanly County, February 1841.

George Whitley was the premier Whitley at this time. He had nearly 2000 acres of property, spread out from Bear Creek to Lick Branch to Cabin Branch. Needham Whitley the elder, claimed 100 acres on Bear Creek. Under Cami (McCamey) Willis, Benjamin Lindsey Whitley had become taxable, but had no property to declare yet. That would soon change. There were several of the Whitleys coming of age at this time.



On page two, Isham Whitley is taxable, but like Ben, with no property yet. He would make the claim on Stillwater Creek soon. There's Green on Stony Run, another Needham, just taxable, no land.

There's Axiom Whitley again, with his 100 acres on Haw Branch and Needham Whitley Jr, listed as just a taxable. There appears to have been three Needhams. Hezekiah Whitley does not show up yet. 

Hezekiah's first census was the 1850. In 1840, the list in West Pee Dee, Montgomery County, the year before Stanly County was created, included only Green D. Whitley, George, Needham, Isham, Allison, Edmund, William and Mary. 


He is shown as Isaac, his middle name, and 25 years old, with wife, Elizabeth, of the same age. Three small children have arrived quickly, Mary, 2, Caroline, one year old, and an 11 month old 'Linda', who very well may be Lindsey, as he was born about the same time. They live near George L Huneycutt, mentioned above, a Hinson, and a large group of Hatleys, including Hastings. 


In 1860, Hezekiah's family had increased exponentially. 


Living next to one of the younger Hardy Hatleys, Hezekiah and Elizabeth now have nine children. Portrayed as 47 and 40, having skipped their thirties altogether, they have Mary 12, Caroline 11, and Lindsey, 10, which corresponds perfectly with two year old Mary, one year old Caroline and the infant Linda, ten years earlier. I don't believe there was a Linda. The census taker may have misunderstood what was told to him about the baby. They dressed them all the same in those days. The first child born in the 1850's has been transcribed as "Ursra". I don't believe there was an Ursra, however, at the time this child was born, there was a Bathsheba, who most definitely was a child of this couple. I believe 'Ursra' was Bathsheba. She was followed by second son, Hardy, 8, then Martha, 6, Adaline, 4, Elizabeth, 3, and Sarah, the youngest, at one. There would be no more, that I know of.

Several of Hezekiah's daughters are unaccounted for.

In the 1870 census, Hezekiah is a widower. The only children remaining in the home were twenty-year-old Lindsey, and the two younger girls, Elizabeth and Sarah. It seems the others were bound out. Mary was in her early twenties and could have married. 

 Bathsheba didn't marry until 1880, but is nowhere to be found. The same with Hardy. Martha is seen no more, only in the 1860 census. Adaline, 14, is found across the river in New Salem, working as a domestic servant for the Henry Morgan family. 

Caroline was the oddity. She was 21 and on her own, and seemed to be living in a house between the notorious J C (Jordan) Kennedy and Sarah Kennedy and her family. Sarah was a freed slave, even though she is shown as white here. She was probably of mixed race. Her children most definitely were, their father was Jordan Kennedy. They would have more after this census. 

Sarah had been in the home of Jordan's sister, also named Sarah, who owned the Kennedy Mill. A road is still named for it. The enslaved Sarah had been sold to Edward Winfield Davis prior to emmancipation. Afterwards, she continued as the mistress of Jordan Kennedy. Her son Robert would marry my second Great Aunt, Matilda Aldridge, who was of Indigenous heritage. Was Caroline also a 'kept' woman of JC Kennedy?


1880

By 1880, Hezekiah was 59, and had three adult daughters living with him, Caroline, 27, Adaline, 23 and Sarah, 18. 


Where Martha and Elizabeth were, I haven't a clue. 

While we don't know the exact year of death of Hezekiah Whitley, a court case could narrow the time frame down a bit. 

In the Fall 1885 term of Court for Stanly County, a case came up of State vs Hezekiah Whitley and Ellen Safely. They were charged with F C & A, or Fornication, Cohabitation and Adultery. Now, Hezekiah was a widower of about 64 years old. His wife Elizabeth died before 1870. Ellen Safely is shown in the 1880 as a widow.
Ellen, 23, and her mother, Frances Safely, 39, are boarding with a Hatley family.


The only other early record I find for her is her 1877 marriage certificate to a John Hinson.


Her husband, John Hinson, a Civil War Veteran, must have died before 1880. Multiple people have him hooked up to other Hinsons that were not him, curious about where her children came from. 

Later, in the court records, Hezekiah and Ellen were called and failed. The next session of court, they were called again. Hezekiah was there, Ellen was not. Hezekiah and Caroline, his daughter were recognized in the amount of $200 for his appearance at the next session of court. Caroline owned her own property.

The final call of the court was a year later, in the fall of 1886. This time the case had changed to State vs Ellen Safely and Caroline Whitley. Hezekiah was no more.
I tried and failed to find a deed for Caroline Whitley. But one existed. So many records were just lost to time.




What I did find was the above document. This was from the case of J. C. Gilbert vs Hezekiah Whitley. It was an affidavit from Caroline. She stated that she was not ready "for a trial of this case at this time." 
The reason given was that a material witness, Jordan C. Kennedy, was not present and that she had heard and believed it true, that he was out of the county, at that time. It continued, "That she claims that the lands where she now lives as her own property under a deed from Conrad Crisco."

It was dated December 16, 1882, and signed with a mark as Conrad Crisco.

I looked for a deed from Conrad Crisco to Caroline, while I found one between Conrad Crisco and Ephraim Irenus Whitley, there was not one for Caroline. Conrad Crisco lived in Big Lick in 1880 and later on in New Salem,  Union County NC.

Caroline Whitley died in 1913 at the age of 64. She was buried at Hatleys Grove Primitive Baptist Church in Oakboro. The ties to the Hatleys were pretty strong. 


Caroline left a small estate and in her probate file, her heirs were named. They included her siblings, brothers Lindsey and Hardy Whitley, and sister, Bashy (Bathsheba) Whitley Hathcock. The fourth heir had me baffled at first,  Rebecca Thomas. 

As Caroline was unmarried and childless, her living siblings were her heirs. Her other sisters must have died before 1913. I thought maybe Rebecca was one of the five missing sisters, having married a Thomas and going by a middle name. Try as I could, I couldn't find a Rebecca Whitley who married a Thomas in this area, in that year of birth range. Then I dug a little deeper into Ellen Safely, curious about a few things in the court records. Ellen Safely was the mother of four children two, daughters and two sons. One daughter, Sarah, was born before she was a 23 year old widow, living with her mother. The second daughter, Rebecca 'Hinson', married a Jacob Thomas. She was born during the time Hezekiah and the young Ellen Safely Hinson were cohabitating. Rebecca was also Caroline's sister. 

Ellen's children all went by Hinson, claiming a man dead before they were born as their father. That's why descendants are giving him a middle name he didn't have, trying to find a man living at the time their ancestor was born that had to be him. What lengths these old-time folks went to trying to cover up the truth of their parents' indiscretions!

The family of Hezekiah Whitley and his wife Elizabeth were: 
1848 - Mary - shows up in the 1850 & 1860 census. Fate unknown.

1849- Caroline. Unmarried, died in 1913. Buried at Hatleys Grove Primitive Baptist Church in Oakboro NC.

1850- Lindsey - married twice. First, in 1871 to Sarah Morgan, daughter of Goin and Nancy Morgan. Second, in 1898 to Mary Francis Page, daughter of Simon Sion and Nancy Dove Page. No children. Lindsey outlived both wives, passing on January 31, 1917 at the age of 67. He had moved to Cabarrus County, but came back to Stanly during illness, and having no children, ended up in the County Home in Albemarle, where he is buried.

1851- June 8th - Bathsheba- married James Hathcock on September 5, 1880. Six children. Lived in Big Lick until 1900, Moved to Salisbury, Rowan County by 1910. Settled finally in Jerusalem, Davie County, NC where she passed away on June 13, 1928. Buried at Chestnut Hill Cemetery in Salisbury.
- William Fairly Hathcock (1882-1918)
- Adam Mel Hathcock (1890-1946)
- Eva Belle Hathcock (1890-1901)
-Green A. Hathcock (1891-1918)
- Maggie Hathcock Hinkle (1893-1956)
-Ritty Roseanne Hathcock Marlow (1896-1960).

1852- December 29- Hardy Married November 14, 1880 to Nancy Isabella Arey, daughter of Daniel Wilson and Delilah Hodge Arey.  Seven children. He started home making in Big Lick, then moved to Morgan Township in Rowan County, where he passed away on June 29, 1935. Buried at Corinth Cemetery in Rowan County. 

- Alice Martha Jane Whitley Stokes Garner (1881-1965)
-James William Whitley (1884-1972)
-Joyce Avaline Whitley (1886-1965)
-Chalmers Levi Whitley (1888-1952)
- Polly Lillianna Whitley (1890-1968)
- Hardy Eugene Whitley (1893-1933)
-John Oscar Whitley (1899-1968)

1844 Martha Whitley. Only appears in the 1860 census. Probably died as a child.

1857 Adaline Whitley. Appears in the 1860, 1870 and 1880 census records. Possibly married, deceased before 1913.

1858 Elizabeth Whitley. Appears in the 1860 and 1870 census records. Possibly married, deceased before 1913.

1859 - Sarah Whitley. Appears in the 1860, 1870 and 1880 census. Possibly married, deceased before 1913. 

With Ellen Safely Hinson-
- Rebecca 'Becky' Hinson born November 28, 1880. Married Jacob C. Thomas, 5 children:
-William Wesley Thomas (1901-1969)
-Anna Myrtle Thomas (1906-1978)
-Claude Houston Thomas (1910-1994)
-Benjamin Harvey Thomas (1916-1996)
-Alfred Thomas (1918-2007)






Before I completed this post, I decided to take a closer view at the neighbors of Nancy Whitley of Stillwater Creek. Recalling that Isham Whitley, and Nancy, lived on land that bordered that of Alfred Ledbetter, I decided to give his family a closer look. 
Taking advantage of my collection of Stanly County census books for the 19th century, I went on a successful hunt.  The books provide a more thorough search and for me, it's easier to compare one thing in relation to another, especially neighbors and distances. Seeing things from a different view. 
AND THERE SHE WAS!


Nancy, followed by her daughter, Mary her son Hardy and William Pinkney as William P., as I had first met him, and little Taylor, I now discovered was fully named Zachary Taylor, for the President who had been elected the year he was born: 1849. They were right beside Allen Ledbetter this whole time.

There was one difference, however, this was a family of Hatleys, not Whitleys. It was them alright, the place and parallels were too keen. Whitley was the correct surname, the one the children went forth with, and it wasn't a transcription error. It was clearly written as 'Hatley'. Something had happened, when asked her name, Nancy must have been mistaken and gave the man her maiden name and the children all fell under that roof. It made perfect sense.

Hardy Hatley is an ancestor of mine. There were more than one of them, the name ran like a mountain brook through the generations. Nancy named her oldest son Hardy. They lived near a grove of Hatleys it seems, Hezekiahs daughter was buried with Hatleys. 

And what about Hezekiah? He also had a son named Hardy. What was his wife's maiden name? In every tree, her name is given as Millie Elizabeth Cagle, daughter of Charles. But that can't be right. His daughter Millie Elizabeth married Lewis Brown over in Tyson Township. She had a child with my relative, James Pinkney Aldridge. She couldn't have been two places at once. She also lived well into the 20th century. Elizabeth Whitley appears to have passed before 1870. 

What if Hezekiah's wife was also a Hatley? Two brothers marrying two sisters was not uncommon. It's a theory. It will take a swim into the Hatley ocean to discover its possibilities. 

But back to the beginning, Nancy.

Isham Whitley entered 100 acres of land on Stillwater Creek in 1845 next to Alfred Ledbetter and Hezekiah Whitley. A few years later, in 1847, it was Nancy Whitley in this spot, on Stillwater Creek adjoining Alfred Ledbetter and Hezekiah Whitley. 

Could we go a decade back and look at the family dynamics? 

"Joam" is the transcription error for Isham.

NameJoam Whitley
Residence Date1840
Home in 1840 (City, County, State)West Pee Dee River, Montgomery, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - Under 52 Hardy and William
Free White Persons - Males - 15 thru 191
Free White Persons - Males - 40 thru 491 Isham 
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 141 Mary
Free White Persons - Females - 40 thru 491 Nancy 
Persons Employed in Agriculture2
No. White Persons over 20 Who Cannot Read and Write2
Free White Persons - Under 204
Free White Persons - 20 thru 492
Total Free White Persons6
Total All Persons - Free White, Free Colored, Slaves6

The dynamics fit perfectly, with the exception of an older teenage boy in the home. I thought it may have been Hezekiah, as he doesn't appear in the 1840 census, but he was a decade too old. Perhaps it was Axiom. There's no way to know. There were mysterious Whitleys in the early records. In the early court records of Stanly County, there is a Zeb, short for Zebulon. Every one is a piece of the puzzle.

To sum things up, it's my belief that Nancy Whitley was the widow of Isham Whitley, and could have been a Hatley before marriage, likewise with Hezekiah's with, Elizabeth. 

It also appears to me that Zachary Taylor Whitley was more likely to have been the son of Mary, than Nancy, due to their ages. This fact was cogent and amplified when I went one decade further. 

I knew Taylor and Hardy died in the Civil War, but I haven't found William P in 1870 yet, or Mary and Nancy. So another look at the Allen Ledbetter family.



The only Whitley next to them, well actually living with them was Telitha Whitley, born in 1856, who I was fairly certain was the Telitha Jane Whitley who had married John Alexander Springer in 1882 in Iredell County, the son of Israel Springer and Margaret Malinda who married Nancy's son, William Pinkney Whitley. That is when 2 plus 2 equaled 4.

Talitha Jane Whitley was living in Iredell County in 1880 with her mother, Mary and little brother, William Alexander Whitley, who was born in Stanly County in 1868. 
All this time, I had been trying to find out who Mary was the widow of, looking at every Whitley who had been in the War!

Mary wasn't a widow, but she was a mother. Talitha Jane Whitley was living with who had been her next door neighbor. Perhaps as a fatherless child, she had been bound to the family. Mary had followed her brother to Iredell County and her daughter had married her brothers stepson. Her son had married two sisters from Union County, and perhaps Zachary Taylor Whitley was also her son. 

I still have two mysteries to solve.

A) Where were Mary, her little son, William A Whitley and her brother William P. and Margaret Malinda Whitley in 1870?

B) What was Margaret Malinda's maiden name? Was she in Stanly County as a child, or just across the river? 

I'm not so curious as to who were the fathers or father of Mary's children. Perhaps a court record or a bastardy bond exists, or perhaps not. The only one of her children to have children was Alexander, and that would be a DNA challenge for them.

'People didn't do that back then '. Please! They did it quite often, in fact. The base of a number of brick walls was a fatherless child. 

Alfred Ledbetter and his family lived along what is now called Ledbetter Ford Road, just above the Rocky River. Remnants exist. A cemetery is there.



The family of Nancy Whitley lived nearby. Nancy is not found in 1870, but neither are those we know were living, Mary and William Pinkney Whitley. She may have made it to 1870, but I don't believe she made it to Iredell. Perhaps she rests near the Ledbetters. 

The descendants of Nancy (perhaps Hatley) Whitley and Isham (probably) Whitley were:

A) Mary Whitley born about 1824. Unmarried. Two children.

1) Talitha Jane Whitley, born about 1856. Married John Alexander Springer, son of Israel Springer and Margaret Malinda Springer Whitley on December 121882, in Iredell County. Died February 28, 1920 in Mount Ulla, Rowan County. 

2) William Alexander Whitley, born April 8, 1868 in Stanly County. Married 1st Rebecca Louisa Helms, on April 6, 1887, in Iredell County, daughter of Austin H. Helms and wife, Melinda Williams Helms of New Salem, Union County NC. Nine children.

A)  Mary Melinda Whitley, born June 26, 1888. Unmarried. Lived for a few decades with her Aunt Telitha Jane Whitley Springer and her husband, John Alexander Springer, until their deaths. Died on May 28th, 1965 in Concord.

B) Delitha Jane Whitley born March 14, 1890. Married Walter Sanford Avery Livengood. Five children. Died August 29, 1969 in Kannapolis.

C) Carl Quitt Whitley born July 19, 1892. Married Alma McDaniel. Died June 10, 1972. 

D) John Adam Whitley born January 27, 1894. Died November 25, 1967  Unmarried.

E) Julia Estelle Whitley born March 9, 1986. Married Otho Stanhope Westmoreland. Died January 20, 1981.

F) Maggie Ann Whitley born on December 11, 1896. Died on June 19, 1961.

G) Arie Whitley born August 31, 1897. Married Dewey Hobson Meadows. Three children. Died December 9, 1961, in Morganton.

H) Lee Roy Whitley born October 11, 1900. Married Lottie Mae McDaniel. Two children.

I) Bertha Estelle Whitley born November 14, 1902. Married Ralph E. Rogers. Five children. Died May 4, 1896 Mooresville.

J) Louise Rebecca Whitley born February 19, 1905. Her mother died February 22, 1905, three days after her birth. Louise was given to John Alexander Springer and Talitha Jane Whitley Springer, her Aunt and Uncle, to raise. They were still her guardians upon her marriage. She married Clarence Thomas Wensil. Fifteen children. She died April 19, 1976.

Married second Caroline Helms Smith, the sister of his first wife. Two children.

K) James William Whitley born December 8, 1908. Married Viola May Walker. One son. He died on April 27, 1966.

L) Victor Mott Whitley born April 27, 1966. Married Evelyn Marshall. One daughter. Was raised by his brother Carl. Died on July 19, 2002.

B) Hardin W. 'Hardy' Whitley. Born about 1835. Married Bathsheba Whitley, daughter of Wylie Hatley and wife, Maza Billie Harwood. Two children: 

1) James Whitley, born about 1857. Died young, sometime after his mother in 1877.
2) Eva Ann Whitley, born September 17, 1861. Married John Wesley Austin. Eight children: Lula, Rufus, Thomas, Mollie, Henry, Jonah, Lucy, Mary.
Hardy died April 25, 1864, in Wilmington,NC, a Civil War Casualty.


C) William Pinkney Whitley was born about 1836. He married Margaret Malinda Springer, widow of Civil War Casualty, Israel Springer. No children for the couple, but he helped raise her son, John Alexander Springer. William P Whitley died on January 8, 1923, in Iredell County, NC. He is buried at the old Iredell County Home for the Sick and Aged. 

D) Zachary Taylor Whitley was born about 1849. He may have been the son of Mary, who was 21 when he was born, instead of Nancy, who was 52 when he was born, especially since Isham Whitley, whom I believe was his grandfather, died before 1847. Taylor died on April 12, 1865, in New Bern, NC at the Cedar Grove Cemetery, a Civil War Casualty. 

Every life has a story and every piece of the puzzle is important. Nancy Whitley was one piece. 



Addendum: I've discovered another piece of the puzzle. I now know the father of Telitha Jane Whitley. But that's another story for another day.