Wednesday, February 11, 2026

The Dominant Dog Doesn't Know It's A Pig


An unusual name for a brief post, but sometimes you just have to be led. 

 

Furr Majesty - Tyla








The odd name of this post arose from a smattering of small, trivial events this morning by Tyla, my five-year-old, long-haired, Belgium line German Shepherd. See, Tyla isn't my only German Shepherd. For over thirty years, we've had multiple German Shepherds of various lines, origins and from numerous circumstances.


 We've kept a continuous pack. Some were born here. Others were fosters. Some fit in our Pack and spent their lives with us. Others were just long enough to find a permanent home. Some of the homes were with friends or relatives, so they were still able to be in our lives for all of theirs. So between Maxi, our first German Shepherd, to the five we have now, dozens of these intelligent, loyal, and hairy beasts have been in our lives, and most of the time we've had a minimum of three and a maximum of eleven. Six seems to have been a comfortable number, as we'd buy a 6 pack of Trifexis every month. When one left, by death or rehoming if they were a foster, we'd make room in our lives and our hearts for one more. 


The beautiful Tyla was not a foster. She was a Christmas present. After the loss of our Tyler, one of the Rock and Roll litter who was born here, there was a hole in our hearts. A Big One. Tyler was fully named "Rabon's Steven Tyler at the Roxie", being the son of our Roxie aka "Rabon's Metallica at the Roxy", the pet of our youngest son. All of Tylers littermates had the name of a Rock Star, with Tyler being named for the lead singer of Arrowsmith. Tylers father was a big, brusque boy we call Taz, because of his personality akin to a Tasmanian Devil. His registered name was Octavian Wolfbane. Tyler inherited his father's size and he and his brother Jaggar were the two largest pups of a litter of eight, Jagger being a blanket-back and Tyler being a sable. He was accidentally ours. One of the first pups to be chosen, a buyer placed a $600 deposit down on Tyler, and never came back to get him. We tried to contact him and all of a  sudden his phone stopped working. We kept the pup for months, not wanting to sell him illegally, as he had a deposit on him, and then we just ended up keeping him. 

Tyler as a Puppy strolling Savannah

Tyler was unique. They were all unique, but Tyler had this unique canter. A confident, amiable trot that I've not seen in any other. He was immediately recognizable from a distance, and that came in handy one day. He disappeared from the yard, something that never happened. The yard is fenced in and was typically locked, but one day Tyler and a lab we were fostering disappeared together. At that time, we didn't have cameras and couldn't go back and look. Now the property has turned into Fort Knox, highly protected, secured and with a camera on every piece of grass and half the neighborhood. Tyler had been missing for a total of two and half months. We'd looked and looked and did all the usual things in an attempt to find him, posters, notices in the paper, calling Animal Control on a regular basis. Then one day...



I passed my daughter one morning on my way to work, while she was on her way to work and she called me. We were chatting and I looked over to at the parking lot to my left, as I was stopped at light, and there was Tyler, clear as day, trotting along like he hadn't a care in the world. I got off the phone and was bursting at the seams to get through traffic, to get over to where I had just saw him. By the time I made it, he was gone. I looked all over, in the direction he went, in the direction he had came from, and was about to give up, wondering if he had been a fig newton of my homogenation, when I saw him again! This time I was sure he couldn't escape me. Then he just disappeared into thin air, like a mist on the mountain. I pinched myself to make certain I was awake. I was. 

Tyla and Shady

My next idea was to talk to people at the businesses near where I had seen him, give them my number and ask them to call if they saw him. One restaurant told me he came by there every morning begging his breakfast. One store owner revealed that not only had he seen him just a few hours before, but that he had been seeing him every day for about two weeks at the same times of day. Tyler had developed a routine and a schedule. I went behind the store and David, the gentleman who knew his routine, showed me the little path through a small wood where Tyler would travel from one parking lot to another, always early in the morning and just before dusk. Following his path, I discovered exactly how he had disappeared. There was a big pipe under the road, almost large enough to stand up in and certainly large enough for a four-legged traveler. That was how he had disappeared when he dove around the corner and vanished the second time, I had seen him. 

Tyla and Kira

Work beckoned. I was late, more than a little late, and as late as I dared to be. Good thing I was the boss. I called my husband and told him what had transpired and passed the search on to him. Following what I had told him, he continued the search in earnest, recommencing where I had left off. The search took hours, but like I did, he spoke to people who worked at businesses in the area and was encouraged by the report of several that they had definitely seen Tyler, and his distinctive, lordy gait, almost like walking on air. 

An Alpine Dog checking out the snow

He had asked several folks to give him a call if they caught sight of Ty, one of them being a storage building salesman, a few guys at an auto parts, and another at the John Deere place. Later in the afternoon, the phone began to ring. He was seen coming out of the pipe again by one. He had crossed the lot of another. Others saw him head toward a small wood down the path of a transmission tower row. Upon his motorcycle, in case he had to go backwoods, my husband rode up an down in the area, and eventually spotted Tyler cantering behind a hotel. The closer he got, the further away the dog trotted. He then stopped, took off his helmet and started calling his name. "Ty! Ty boy! Come!"  Tyler looked. He paused. At first, he was uncertain what was going on. Then it hit him.




Whether it had taken a familiar scent on the breeze, or the sound of my husbands voice that jogged his memory, but suddenly the enormous, boisterous dog realized who was calling him. He galloped to my husband at full speed, wiggling and bouncing and twisting like a worm in hot ashes, the sheer joy of reunion overtaking them both. My husband later confessed that he had prayed, diligently, that if the Good Lord would help him find Ty, he would make a few promises and uphold them. And he has, ever since that day. 


There was one more problem to solve with finding Ty, and that was how to get a 110 lb. oaf of a dog home. It was not going to happen on a motorcycle. He called my son, who was getting out of school, and had him come by with his jeep, to help get him home. When I finally got off work, there he was and we had another joyous reunion. He never left home again. But a question remained, how he had gotten out of the gate in the first place. 


Constantine Conan aka Coco, a favorite

Tyler had been missing for about 10 or 11 weeks. He didn't look like he'd been gone a day. Most stray dogs are very thin and show wear and stress from being on the run. Not Tyler. He hadn't lost a pound. He wasn't even dirty, in fact, he could have just came from a groomer. Ty was in wonderful shape, which led us to believe he hadn't gotten out on his own accord. He had been stolen, and probably had been taken to the other side of town, near where we found him. He had been well fed and well taken care of for two months. At some point, he escaped, as he had been seen making his rounds for two weeks or more. 


The Pack

What floored us was how brilliantly he had survived. He must have found a place to relax in the woods, or behind one of the businesses in the boscage, out-of-sight, and safe. He made his rounds to eat and forage for food, early in the morning and later in the evening, avoiding the busiest traffic. He used his undeniable charm to beg handouts at the fast-food joints.  He didn't try to risk his life by crossing a busy highway, he wisely went under the road instead, using the large tunnels to take him from one side to another, learning the back paths from one parking lot to another, staying behind the chaos and danger, moving between and behind, where the dumpsters live, and staying away from moving vehicles. He had survived this way unscathed for over two weeks. Now he was home again. We never found the Lab, they had either parted ways, or the Lab stayed with whomever had stolen them. Perhaps the Lab was not as clever as Tyler and had been hit by a car. We'll never know. He wasn't our dog and the bond wasn't there, so our happiness at finding Ty wasn't overshadowed by not finding Colby. We enjoyed life with Tyler for about another five years. He was ten years old by then, and tragedy would strike. The evil would come in the form of another dog. 



Tyla, Shady the mix, Kira and Bella the white

While most of our fosters and dogs have been German Shepherds, we have hosted and adopted other breeds. One of my favorites is Australian Shepherds. I favor working breeds, intelligent, trainable dogs. Our guys are not just pets, they serve as a security system, and not just as alarms. Other breeds have been Labs, of course. We've had several; Raven, Jetta, Colby and his siblings and a little yellow one we fostered that  I so wanted to keep. 


Didi a foster I wanted to keep


We've had Huskies, a husky mix, a Shiloh Shepherd and a Newfoundland. I've always wanted a Golden, too, or a Flat-coated retriever. Maybe one day. We do not take in small dogs, only medium to large, as that is how we started when the local Humane Society began and I learned they only took in dogs under 50 lbs. I asked why and was informed that it was because they had no foster homes for large breeds.  As we had stopped breeding and already set up to handle large breeds and prepared to keep dogs separated that did not get along, we started fostering. We also put the brakes on bully breeds.

 Some swear by them, good for those folks, they are not our cup of tea. To each their own. Then came the time we made an exception, to our own detriment.


Tyler and Yoda

A friend of my husband had a breakup and was forced to move out-of-state to a relatives home. Two dogs also became homeless in the imbroglio. One was a female pit-bull, sweet as they come, and the other, one of her puppies, her son, about four months old. His father had been a German Shepherd in one of those accidents people get when they don't spay or neuter. He was a cutie, and half-shepherd, so for this friend, we agreed to keep this pup until the owner returned from Illinois to pick him up, as they were only able to accommodate the mother at this point. Weeks turned into months and the puppy grew up. He was a cutie, with a slick, tawny coat, a squarish pitt-shaped head with an extended German Shepherd muzzle and black mask.


Yoda

 He grew to be larger and more long-legged than his mother, with a stout, muscular body, but smaller than a purebred Shepherd. The one trait that distracted from his spring-made build and powerful jaws hinged onto the extended muzzle, was his enormous, erratically spaced ears. They were huge. He looked like a donkey, or more precisely, like Yoda from Star Wars, so hence his name, Yoda. 

Tyla and Candy

Yoda was fine for a while. Ty loved him. They were best buds and loved to play. All was well until something happened up the road. An elderly neighbor had passed away, and the home was sold to people from another country and another culture. The house became a hub, like a temporary station for travelers, as you never see the same vehicles. A certain group will be there for a few weeks or so, until they get in their own place, and then a new batch arrives. Take that however you may, it's the only way to describe the revolving door of people in that house. One van full arrived with a couple of dogs, and of course, they were unaware of laws, traditions and customs here.



Yoda and Willow

 The two dogs roamed the neighborhood a will for a few weeks. Everyone saw them. One was a larger-sized chihuahua type dog, and by that, I don't mean she was large. She was not a teacup. The other, we would discover, was her son. He was over twice her size with a long yellow coat. He looked as if his father had been a Golden Retriever. Not sure how that could have happened, but he had the head and coat of one, with his mother's short legs. A peculiar-looking sort. 

Willow, Candy, Scout and Tyla

During the time this pair was allowed to roam freely, negating all local pet-owning regulations, the little mother dog went into heat. A neighbor down the way commented on social media that her two hounds, bonded brothers, had gotten in a fight because the pair had wandered into their yard and the female had flirted through the fence with her boys. Up and down the mountain, or hill, this little dog with her incestuous child was causing mayhem among the households of responsible dog owners. This kind of makes me sound like a bit of a Karen, but when someone's irresponsible behavior causes chaos and harm amongst the rest of the neighborhood, it's more than an unsightly ornament that grates at your HOA. We don't have an HOA out in the boondocks, but we do have folks who love and take care of their animals. During this time, I was at work, and my spouse was at home at work in his shop, unaware of the troublesome pair making their rounds. Then the little floozy decides to come up and tease our Tyler, who was neutered, but not immune to the hormonal pull of her musky spore.


Tyler and Yoda

 By this time, Yoda had matured to a lusty young adolescent and was deeply affected by the chihuahuas amorous ardor. Of course, he was on the other side of the fence. Someone else was on his side of the fence as well, his best bud, Tyler. By this stage of Tylers life, he had slowed a bit and gained some weight. He was a healthy, vigorous ten-year old, but still at 125 lbs., large, but a bit slower than he was in his youth. Yoda was smaller by about 40lbs, but quick and wiry as adolescents are, and fast. The pitt instinct overruled the Shepherd wisdom and Yoda attacked Tyler, going for his legs and avoiding his head and the powerful jaws.

By the time my husband heard the fracas, there was blood everywhere, on both dogs, but most noticeable was Tyler's limp, and a river of blood pouring from his armpit. My husband quickly fashioned a tourniquet and was carrying him up the hill, when some kindly farmers across the road, who were also foreign, awesome neighbors, not of the same ilk as the transient waystation, heard the fray and came rushing to help. They draped Tyler in towels and placed him in the back of the truck and rushed him to an Emergency Animal Hospital over an hour away. In all this, Yoda was standing there looking guileless and innocent, covered in blood.

Kira

Tyler went into emergency surgery, and we knew it was going to be a long arduous procedure, so my husband returned home, knowing if Tyler made it, he would have to at least stay overnight. About 1 am the phone call came. The leg with the tourniquet had to be removed, they were not able to save it. His cephalic vein had been severed. Then the worst news. The other leg had been mauled just as bad and they were going to have to take it, also. Before they proceeded, they wanted to make sure we agreed to the charges and were ready to care for a 125lb dog with no front legs. We were not, I would not have been able to lift him. His life expectancy would have been about 3 more years. How would we have been able to accommodate him? We could not quit our jobs to do that. So, sadly, we had to say goodbye to Tyler. 


Yoda was another issue. He had only superficial injuries, but we were extremely angry with him. The first response was to contact the person who had left him with us and never returned. They were not able to accommodate him and instructed us to take him to the dog pound. Long story short, he suckered his way back into my husband's heart, but something had changed. The dog had tasted blood, and apparently that is a factory installed fault in Pitts. It wasn't long before he attacked our nonaggressive, laid-back Australian Shepherd, who was also an elderly dog, but also the only other male. The attack was unprovoked. Thank God, my husband was close enough to get them separated, with tools. Again, he had to run another dog to the vet. This attack was to the neck, and thankfully, due to the Aussies thick cushion of fur around his neck, the damage wasn't irreparable. 

Scout

Scout recovered, but the vet had reservations. The second time, just weeks later, that it happened again, and yet again Scouts fluff and ruff saved his life, the vet had more than reservations. Yoda's violent behavior was escalating, and she felt that his attacks would only spread. We could lose another dog, or he could attack a person next, and we could possibly be injured ourselves or end up in a lawsuit if he jumped the fence and attacked someone walking down the road, or a visitor, or delivery person. In the end, we had to put down a healthy, young dog because of his increasingly aggressive and dangerous behavior. 

Our Regal Boy

The combination of the loss of both was a deeply unsettling event for my husband, just having reached retirement age, who was with them all day. The only solution I could think of was puppy breathe.

Tyla as a Fuzzball Pup

We believe in rescuing over buying a dog, but in this case, I wanted a purebred German Shepherd. Each Shepherd has its own personality, but still, you know what you are getting. I chose the breeder, but wanted him to chose the pup. He wanted a female, tired of fights between males, not saying females don't fight, they will, but a careful balance of personalities can usually keep the peace. "Puppying in", is also a more successful introduction. Adult dogs will normally accept a puppy, and it just grows up into the pack. 


A game of Ring around the Cedars

The litter ended up containing three girls and after watching them tumble and play, my husband picked the bully. She was the cutest ball of fluff ever, but she terrorized her siblings. She still does, just a different pack of siblings. Weeks later, when she arrived at her forever home, it was easy to see why he had chosen her. He wanted a guard dog. He got a guard dog. She follows commands, reluctantly. She likes to play, as long as she wins. She lets everyone know, there is one Boss Dog, and she is it.


Baby Face

We named her Tyla in honor of Tyler. Today she is five years old, thick as a brick, with enough hair for an army of army blankets. She was born with baby-making hips, although that will never happen. Tyla has an oral fixation that would make one think she was taken away from her mother too soon, however, she was with her for a full 12 weeks. She has to have something in her mouth at all times and will hold a toy or pillow in her mouth and whimper like a pup. When she sleeps, she dreams of nursing.


Miss Oral Fixation


Tyla is the complete embodiment of the definition of the word denoted to describe her exact gender and species. She is ball-crazy, and fortunately for her, so is Kira. Kira was found as a half-starved stray, but aside from a scar on her ear, is now an absolutely beautiful girl, a sable, of West German Working lines. They would play all day if they could. The other girls know Tyla is Boss Dog, and don't challenge her, but they also avoid her if at possible. She likes to go out a door first, then turn around a ambush anyone who follows, with a loud, quick reminder, therefore, she often goes out alone and everyone else is on the other side of the fence. 

Ballmouth


Tyla is a Miley Cyrus, she comes in like a wrecking ball. Rattle the gate, and you can see her from a distance, flying up the hill at full speed. She's fast, but not the fastest, those wide hips slow her down. Leave the gate just cracked and BAM!!! She will burst through it like a mad bull, then stand there at ready the head turning quickly side to side, rapidly assessing the situation and reading the room. Guard Dog.

Every move you make, I'll be watching you...

She herds me every morning. I don't go to breakfast; I am led to breakfast. That's what Shepherds do.They also guard. I watch television with a guard at my feet. It's fascinating how they will place themselves at just the right vantage points to see the most. It's built in programming. 


Kira, Bella, Tyla, Zelda

Tyla is an Alpha with a capital A. Whenever this fact becomes an issue, I remind my husband he picked the aggressive one. The one who has to be fed first in a room by herself and the last one to be let out after. Routines can't be broken or it causes calamity. Tyla would eat everyone elses food, and they would allow her, if no one was watching and giving commands. She's a Pig. She doesn't know she's a Pig, but she would eat herself sick if allowed to. This whole story was originally intended to lead into the story of an individual, a human being, who was also a Dominant dog and also a Pig. Instead, it just became the Story of  a Dog, a dominant dog, who doesn't know she is a pig. 






Friday, February 6, 2026

Pearl's Sorrow




While researching the Faggart family of Faggart's Crossing in Cabarrus County, North Carolina, I developed a strong distaste for the individual, Albert Alexander Faggart, and too, his father, Daniel Miller Faggart. They were men of, and indeed products of, their time. They orchestrated a strategy to conceal the odious crimes that Albert had committed with conscious, and in the end, they won. Albert went on with his life, free and without consequence, while the family that suffered the consequences and ramifications of his actions were pushed to the side, and perhaps in some cases, out of the way completely, without even a thing to mark the fact that they had ever walked the earth. 

This tragic story was covered in my previous post, The Ruin of Mary Lilly

Despite the disdain I felt for the guilty family, one member of the Faggart family drew my sympathy, and that was the person of Albert's closest sister, Pearl. 

Pearl was a beautiful and tragic character. Born January 28, 1886, Pearl Maribell Faggart was the third of the six children of Daniel Miller and Mary Rebecca Cress Faggart. She was born in Faggart's Crossing, Cabarrus County, NC, just south of the City of Concord, a rural community hugged between Irish Buffalo Creek and Cold Water Creek, where the Miami Church Road met Flowe's Store Road and crosses Hwy 601, once known better as the Georgeville Road. Her brother, Albert Alexander Faggart was born in February of 1888, just 25 months younger than she. There were also the older siblings, Virgie Missouri Faggart, (1879-1972), Berry Barrier Faggart, (1882-1973) and the younger siblings, Hedrick Miller Faggart, (1890-1952) and Jenny Lee Faggart, (1892-1923). 




Being born in 1886, and the 1890 census missing, the only census record Pearl would appear in was the first of the new century, the 1900. In this, we see Pearl at 14, listed with her parents, Daniel and Mary. Her older brother, Berry was 17, her younger brothers Albert, was 12 and Hedrick was 10, while baby sister, Jennie was 7. Also in the home was her mother's unmarried sister, Eva, 37. Oldest sister, Virgie, was married by this time, and is listed right above the Faggart household, having recently married John A. Carter, 24, Virgie is 20 years old. 

Pearl grew up surrounded by family as at least half of the Faggart's Crossing citizenry were either Faggarts or Cresses or married into the Cress or Faggart family. The Mitchell family listed below them plays an important part in my former post on Mary Lilly, as they were part of her family. I first came across Pearl's name in the court testimony of Shelby Pless Lilly, the mother of Mary Lilly and the sister of Mozelle Pless Mitchell, seen in the above census record. Shelby, an angry mother, had gone to the Faggart home in search of Pearl's brother, Albert, and had found no one home except "Miss Pearlie". This was in December of 1908. Pearl seems to have been relegated to the house, while everyone else was free to roam out and about. Pearlie would only live a few more months, passing away the day before Valentines Day in 1909. She was only 23 years old. 



Concord, North Carolina  Monday, February 15, 1909

The Concord Times

Various newspapers reported on the shocking demise of young Pearl Faggart. Each report added a slight bit of context to the tragic story. The Concord Times reported that she had taken the drug, Laudanum, an addictive agent that predated modern additives, and cut her own throat. "The young woman had been brooding for some time, we learn, over her unhappy life, and it is supposed that her troubles were greater than she could bear." Pearl had gone to her room and did not come down for supper. Two bottles of the toxic medicine were found in her room and a razor. Blood covered the bed and flooring. The article stated that she had been found barely alive but died shortly afterwards. After that revelation, we are given another surprise, "The two-and-a-half-year-old child of the dead woman was the first to find her body." Pearl was a mother! 

The article concluded by reporting that Pearl was 23 and considered one of the most beautiful women in the entire county. She was buried in Rimer at a well-attended funeral. 

Pearl was young, beautiful and widely beloved. What had brought her to such melancholy? 

The years between 1908 and 1909 had seen much activity and change within the family of D. M. and Mary Faggart as their children were growing up, some much too soon.



On February 25, 1909, The Concord Times reported in their Community Notes that Albert Faggart had a position with Carter Brothers, at Polkton in Anson County, when he was called home because of his sisters catastrophic demise. Did he lose his job because of having to return home, as the article states "until", as if the postition had ended with the event. Abore that paragraph was another report that Mrs. A. A. Faggart had spent time in No. 5 with her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Nathaniel Blackwelder. 

Albert had married Margaret Blackwelder on January 3, 1909, just a month before Pearls death. He was also involved in the court case at this time. 

Jenny Lee, the youngest Faggart daughter also married this year, on March 7th, 1909, just a month after her sister's death, to Ervin R. Moss. She was only 16 years old. I don't think the timing of these events were coincidental. 

Other versions of Pearls demise were published in other papers. 


The Evening Chronicle

Charlotte, North Carolina • Page 4


It was copied to The Evening Chronicle in Charlotte, NC. 


The Courier

Asheboro, North Carolina • Page 1


The Asheboro Courier reported that Pearl had been "held under serious suspicion" some years back. Suspicion of what? What did the trials and tribulations of this young woman, that were too heavy to bear, consist of? What was she held in suspicion of? It also described her family as one of the counties best. That's debatable. 


Statesville Record and Landmark

Statesville, North Carolina • Page 6

The Statesville Record and Landmark made a clarification on what she had been "brooding" about. It was "over her ruin". Her two-and-a-half-year-old child had been the first to discover her body, evidentially, the cause of her "ruin". 

At this point, we can only speculate. Pearl had obviously had a child out of wedlock. At this antiquated and obtuse stage in history, this fact caused her 'ruin' and she was obviously not a virgin. My hypothesis is that her brother had married and her 16-year-old baby sister was at this time betrothed. Perhaps Ervin had originally been interested in the beautiful Pearl, but upon discovery of her 'ruin', he defected instead to her innocent young sister, Jenny Lee, who may have been just as pretty, but maybe not quite. 

At 23, in 2026, Pearl would have been at the pinnacle of her game. Fresh out of college, perhaps, or off to start a new career. She was not likely to have been married, and if not, she wouldn't have felt any pressure or desire to be so soon. If she had fallen in love, all options would have been on the table. But in 1909, we'd find a much different scenario. At a few years past twenty, she would have been considered an old maid, or dangerously close to it. Having a child would not have negated her chances of ever marrying, because I've seen it happen in the records of others in her position, but it may have precluded her from finding a good match, or a respectable one, as she was no longer a respectable girl. 

I can't help but think that her siblings' weddings and engagements are what pushed her melancholy into despair and pushed a fragile Pearl over the edge.


The Child.

We learned from the newspapers that Pearl was a mother, to a two and a half year old child. Who was this child? Did it survive the loss of its mother? Did it grow up and live a normal life after it's pitious beginnings? 

Following the moves forward of Pearls family, I discovered her child did survive, and grow up, with the aid and care of her parents. The baby was a boy and she named him Harold. 

Harold, or Hal for short, didn't show up in the census soon after his mother's death, the 1910. He was not listed in with her parents, or siblings, anywhere in Cabarrus County or any known orphanages of the day. I believe he most likely lived with her parents and they just hid him from detection.


In 1920, however, he does show up. D. M. and Mary Faggarts, Pearls parents, are still living on their farm in Faggarts, both now 60 years young. There with them, at age 13, helping out on the farm, is Hal, listed as their grandson. 

Scrutinizing the person of Hal, I discovered his full name was Harold Lee Faggart and he had been born on May 23, 1906. We know that Pearl was his mother, was is known who his father was? The answer to that question was "Yes". Not only was it a surprising discovery, it was a rather shocking one. On one of his later records, his father was listed as "John Carter". 

Now, have a gander back at the clip above from the 1920 census. Whose name appears just below Hal's in the document, in the very next household? Well, none other than John Carter!

John Carter is not only their next door neighbor, take a gander who he is married to, 40-year-old Virgie, or in other words, Virgie Missouri Faggart Carter, D. M. and Mary's firstborn child and Pearl's older sister. John Carter was her brother-in-law! John had married Virgie on October 3, 1895. They had eight children between 1900 and 1920. In 1906, when Hal was born, John and Virgie were the parents of three already, Missouri, Jesse and Marva. Pearl would have been 19 years old when she became pregnant with her son. All I can say is at least she was an adult. 

So this was the great sin, the act that had placed Pearl under "serious suspicion", the root cause of her depression and source of her ruin. She had gotten pregnant by her married brother-in-law.

But that's not all, John Carter was a player mentioned in one of my recent, earlier posts. I had come full circle. John is mentioned in my post, found at the post below:

Her Mother's Savage Daughter

In my story on Ella Honeycutt, a daughter of Maniza Honeycutt, in the Fall of 1890, the divorce of Ella and her first husband, Lindsey F. Yow, revealed that Ella had dalliances with multiple men during her marriage, one of them being, John Carter, this John Carter. This affair had taken place five years before John married Virgie. I was a bit startled to find out this fella was already in my research tree. 

John Adam Carter had been born July 21, 1875, in Cabarrus County. He was the son of Jacob Alexander Cater and Mary Deal. He seems to have been a bit of a womanizer, but as was more custom, or common, than not, his wife, Virgie put up with it. They had four more children after the birth of Hal. Living next door, Virgie was probably reminded of her husband's infidelity every time she saw him. 

Not only that, she may have been haunted by her sisters death, to whom all the blame seems to have been placed. In those days, it was a "boys will be boys" world. Men were seldom held responsible for their own libido and indiscretions. It was the females fault for tempting him, for just being there, for just being female, for being in the position that this could happen. Pearl was just too beautiful. Mary Lilly had just been too young and naive when she had been assaulted by Pearls brother. 

Harold Faggart did live a normal early 20th century, North Carolina life. He grew up in his grandparents home, being found again there in 1930. 


NameHarold L Faggert
Birth Yearabt 1907
GenderMale
RaceWhite
Age in 193023
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Marital StatusSingle
Relation to Head of HouseGrandson
Home in 1930Township 6, Cabarrus, North Carolina, USA
Map of HomeTownship 6,Cabarrus,North Carolina
Street AddressConcord and Salisbury Road
Dwelling Number57
Family Number57
Attended SchoolNo
Able to Read and WriteYes
Father's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Able to Speak EnglishYes
OccupationStretcher
IndustryBleachery
Class of WorkerWage or salary worker
EmploymentYes
NeighborsView others on page
Household members
NameAge
Daniel M Faggert72
Mary R Faggert72
Harold L Faggert23
J Leroy Faggert17

Harold, like many in his time and place, made a lifelong career of working in the textile mills. Here, at 23, he's working as a Streacher at a Bleachery, a place where the cotton was bleached. His 72-year-old grandparents are still running a General farm and the road is now called the Concord-Salisbury Road. Harold's cousin, Leroy, is also working at the Bleachery, as a Wetter. He's 17, and not actually a Faggert, they just neglected to include his real surname, so he was transcribed as Faggart. 

The Faggarts had lost another daughter. Jennie Lee, their youngest child, who had married Ervin R. Moss at 16, in 1909, the year of Pearl's disturbing death, died herself at the age of 30, on April 17, 1923. Leroy was her oldest son, his full name James Leroy Moss. Jennie had died in childbirth after having twins. She left behind not only James Leroy, (1912-1990), but Raymond Geneta (1914-2001), Carl Herman, (1917-2005) and Mary Elizabeth, (1921-2019). Then on April 3, 1923, Jennie gave birth to her fourth and fifth children, twins sons, Hoy Lee, (1923-1988), and Coy Ervin (1923-1978). Fifteen days later, being in bad health, malnurished and suffering from chronic nephritis, Jenny passed away from complications after the birth. Her husband, Erivin Moss, would quickly marry again, to another Faggart, Lona Roseazealea Faggart, (1894-1962), in November of the same year. While having the same surname in the same small community, that bore that same surname, the chances that Jennie and Lona were related somewhere along the way was pretty good, they were not close cousins. Lona would help Ervin raise his six children, the youngest of whom would have little to no memory of their biological mother, and she would quickly add five more children to the brood, bringing the total to eleven, namely Ruth Madeline (1924-2005, Willie Bunn (1926-2014), John Ray (1928-1969), Ruby Nadine (1931-2006) and Bobby Eugene (1936-2007). Ervin, who died in  1969, was buried with both of his wives, one on each side, at that little church in Rimer, Cross of Christ Lutheran Church, were Pearl, herself, was laid to rest, as well as quite a number of the surrounding community. 



Returning to the 1930 census, still next door lived their oldest daughter, Virgie, with her husband John Carter, who was working as a Woodworkman at a Repair Shop, while at the same time farming at a General Farm, with the help of he and Virgies now teenaged children, Reece 19, Daniel 16, Catherine, 14 and Johnnie 11, with eight-year-old Vonnie, a girl, bringing up the rear. While Hal grew up with his grandparents, he had also grown up with his father living right next door. I wonder what the dynamics of that relationship was? Did John acknowledge the relationship or ignore the boy as best as he could? Did John and Virgies children view Hal as a cousin, or were they also aware of the half-sibling relationhip? The answer to that question can be partially answered in the obituaries of the Carter children, and of Hal, himself.


There were eight Carter children altogether. One died as a toddler, three others died before Hal, and the youngest four died after. Not one mentioned Hal as a sibling. The same with Hal, when he passed away, only his wife and sons were named as survivors.



John Carter died in 1932. His own obituary was brief, and to the point. 

This was just the way the ball bounced in those days. Anything unfavorable was swept under the carpet. Truths were whispered in the dark of night and secret corners of the honky-tonk but never mentioned in the light. People existed without explanation and no one dared ask for one. Whether the Carter children knew Harold as a three-quarter sibling, or just a cousin is unknown, but Hal knew his relationship to them. He lived more as an uncle to them, however, taking care of the Grandparents until the end of their lives. 



Hal would marry on December 26, 1932, the day after Christmas, to Helen Cress, the daughter of Ross and Ora Bostian Cress. As Hal's grandmother was a Cress, and the two most populous names in the community were Faggart and Cress, Hal was marrying back into the family, which was not uncommon in those times. The couple would have three sons in a fairly close continuance, Donald in 1934, Frank in 1935 and Harold Eugene. in 1937.  Harold was 26 and a citizen of Concord. He gave his parents as D M. Faggart, living and Pearl Faggart, deceased. Nothing to freak out about. I've seen this repeatedly. It was too embarrassing to not have a father, so the mother is listed correctly. For his father, he named instead the man who raised him, his grandfather. It was not an uncommon practice for illegitimate children. Another ruse they used was listing the mother and just naming their father by his first name and letting the clerk assume that the child's name was, of course, the same as the fathers. For instance, if Sam Smith knew his father was Tom Jones, and his mother's name was Mary Smith, he would give his mother's name correctly, but just name his father as Tom, and the name would be written Tom Smith. Or, in other instances, an anonymous, overly used name like John was given, just pulled out of a hat and in generations to come, descendants of Sam Smith would be banging their heads on the door trying to find this nonexistant John Smith. Until DNA came along, and started opening doors and solving mysteries. 



1940 comes along and Harold is still working at the same job in the same Mill, except this time, he has a wife, three little boys and his 81-year-old grandparents to take care of. Virgie Faggart Carter, his aunt, was still living next door with three of her children, and some of theirs. 


Just a year later, on October 13, 1941, Harold would bury the man who raised him. Daniel Miller Faggart died of a cerebral hemmorhage at 82 and was buried in the same cemetery as his daughters, Pearl and Jenny. His widow Mary would live another decade. 

In the 1950 census, Mary had moved in with her oldest daughter, Virgie and it was just them, Mary at 91 and Virgie at 70. Harold was still living right next door, now in his early 40's, with his wife and three sons. He was still in the Cotton Mill, now working in the Finishing Department. One knows this good, hard-working man was taking care of his Aunt and Grandmother, all the while, too. 

Mary Rebecca Cress Faggart died the next year, August 5, 1951, at the age of 92, and joined  Daniel at the little Lutheran Church Cemetery in Rimer. 

Their youngest son and next to youngest child, Hedrick Miller, passed the next year in 1952, It would be over a decade before their fourth child, Albert, died in 1964. It was the two oldest siblings who lived the longest, and another decade off. Berry Barrier passing in 1973 at the age of 90 in 1972 and oldest sister, the longsuffering Virgie, passing in 1972 at the age of 92, the same age her mother had parted the world. 



Harold Lee Faggart led a pretty normal, uneventful life. 




In 1922, when he was about 16, he fell off a horse and broke his collarbone. Other than that, his was a quiet existence of a lifelong career in the Cotton Mills of Cabarrus County, living in the rustic rolling hills of Rimer and raising his three boys with his wife, Helen. 



The below link is to an article in the Salisbury Post, about a different Harold Faggart, perhaps a relation, in Rowan County. Although it's about a different family, from 1980, it is one of the best commentaries on Cotton Mill life for our Carolina predessors that I've ever read, from the way  the Mill controlled the lives of their employees, to the simplicities they enjoyed, to the hazardous they faced. Reminds me, in a way, of plantation stories.





Harold lost his middle son early, at just 15, to myocarditis.



Hal, himself, passed away in 1988, at the age of 81 and joined his parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents and cousins and son, in the cemetery at Prosperity, their home church.

The Charlotte Observer

Charlotte, North Carolina • Page 88



His obituary was brief and to the point. His family was small. Only one of his sons had children, two of them, and those two left that son with three grandchildren. I can only imagine how Pearls life would have been different had she stuck around. How different Hal's life may have been. 

Pearl could have looked towards the sunshine. She could have escaped the hiding in shame in her parents house and found her way to Concord, or even Charlotte, where she could have found work. Her face would have opened doors, so she could support herself and perhaps her son. She may have caught the attention of someone with whom she could have lived in comfort. She could have reinvented herself, and invented whatever tail she wished to disguise her past. She could have made a place and a path for herself into the future, enjoyed her son and grandchildren, and possibly met her great-grandchildren. 

Rest in Peace Pearl Marybell Faggart. 


Picasso's 'Melancholy Woman'