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Wednesday, July 22, 2026

Thirty Fathers in Thirty Days: Tillman Helms Jr.

 


Several years ago, while recovering from one ailment or accident or another, I was needing one particular deed involving one particular Helms, that should have been remotely accessible through the online website of the Union County Register of Deeds. Their website was down, as often was, and I was unable to drive. Not all counties offer online access to historic deeds, and among the ones who do, their systems are fragile. I was not able to make the drive, at that time, which was only about an hour away. 

Now, when speaking to employees of county registrars, or clerks of court, or the history corner of a library, or museum, it's like one of those boxes of chocolates that Forrest Gumps' Momma referenced. They have access to everything there. Some have loads of time on their hands in their sleepy little coves.Others, in growing metroplexes, do not. Some are as friendly as your best friends' Grandma who wants to feed everybody. Others are just there for a paycheck and do not want to be bothered. On this particular day, I had the fantastic luck of getting one of the latter.

The clerk sounded like a young girl, maybe someone just out of college, if that. I needed someone to email one particular deed to me. I had seen it before, couldn't find my copy, and unable to access it online. Their fault with that last part. If they could not email it, at least find it and read me one sentence from it. So, I asked the clerk to find it. 

"I don't see it, " she quickly answered. I spelled the first name. 

"Nope, not here." So, I asked her to look under the surname, Helms, hoping by scanning the list, she might see something that looked similar to the first name I had mentioned. 

"I don't have any Helms."

"You don't have any Helms!", I exclaimed, quite loudly in fact. Shocked at that answer, I asked, "Have I reached the Union County Register of Deeds?" Thinking I must have called the wrong number.

She answered with an affirmative. 

"In North Carolina?!?"

"Yes."

"Ma'am," I replied, "If you are in Union County, and you can't find a Helms in the deeds at the Register of Deeds, you are NOT in Union County, North Carolina."

My reason for recounting that little scenario was to express the fact that Helms in Union County are as common as fleas on a cow's back. 


 


Sardis Church. Court Minutes 1774–1800, Genealogies 1774–1800, Court Records 17

Tillman Helm Jr. was my 5th Great Grandfather. As such, his father, Tillman Sr., was my 6th. I will mention both, but my focus will be on Tillman Helms Jr. 

The surname Helms, also seen in the older records as Helems, is Teutonic in origin, and arrived to the British Isles with the Goths. Simply put, it means Helmet, or someone who wore a Helmet. 

Tillman Helms Sr. and his brother George, arrived to North Carolina from Bucks County, Pennsylvania, a common way station for immigrants heading south. It's unknown where they arrived from prior to that, some say they came by way of New Jersey. They were most likely related to other Helms who were also in the area early on, Jonathan and Thomas, as they were some of the pioneers to what was Anson County and would include what is now Richmond, Montgomery, Anson, Union and Mecklenburg Counties. 



The first record of them is when George Helms was issued 100 acres of land on October 11, 1749. The property was in Anson County on the North Side of the Pee Dee and on the East Side of Little River, mentioned on the bank of the river and along John Ashley's line, Land Patent Book 10 Page 346. Little River is not in current Anson County, but in Montgomery and Richmond. Montgomery split from Anson in 1779, as did Richmond. They would later relocate to a part of Anson that would become Union.

Below is a list of grants entered by Tillman Helms. This is not all the same Tillman Helms. 



The elder Tillman died between 1800 and 1805. Tillman Jr. died in 1825. The ones in "Union" County in 1844 and 1852 had to be a son or grandson, as Union County didn't exist while Jr. and Sr. were living. Tillman Helms Jr., born between 1755 and 1760, was definitely born in Anson County, but not necessarily in what we now call Anson. The 1762 Grant was the first one for Tillman, Sr., on the east side of Little River, near his older brother. Anything before 1780 should be considered that of Tillman Sr. The 1783 Anson Grant, on the southwest side of the Pee Dee River on Reedy Branch, I believe is the first for Jr, but I could be wrong. 




Reedy Branch is located in current Union County near Marshville. The December 10th, 1818, Grant was most definitely Tillman Jr. It was registered in Mecklenburg County, which had been established in 1762, but it was in the part of Mecklenburg that would become Union County, which was formed in 1842 from the western half of Anson and the eastern part of Mecklenbug.



The grant, shown above, was on Richardson Creek. Richardson Creek runs south of the Rocky River and crosses from Anson into Union. The grant was for 200 acres. Recorded in Mecklenburg County in Book 133 Page 167, it mentions hitting "Burris's corner", to Isaac Helms, Daniel Barnes' line. Daniel Ritch and Isaac Helms, chain carriers.

Sarah M. Myers compiled a book called " George and Tillman Helms 1720 -1900 History and Genealogy of the Helms Family Pioneers of Anson and Mecklenburg Counties Five Generations".

It is mostly a list of descendants, however, it includes a few interesting points. For one, she states that the family  became so numerous, they founded a town, called Helmsville, from the descendants of the family of Tillman Sr., in conjunction with his brother(s) George and Jonathan. She also points out that "The fact that gold and silver mines are mentioned in some land records might explanin why there was much wheeling and dealing in land before George and Tilllman Helms finally settled on Richardson Creek, and its tributaries, in what is now Union County, North Carolina. In 1762. Mecklenburg County was formed from Anson Co. with Richardson Creek being the dividing line between the two counties which resulted in some Helms families being divided by a county line." 

Richardson Creek is not the dividing line, as you can see below

The map above, from 1911, shows the town of Helmsville to be a little south of Monroe, sitting right on Richardsons Creek. 

The county was formed in 1842 from parts of Anson County and Mecklenburg County. Its name was a compromise between Whigs, who wanted to name the new county for Henry Clay, and Democrats, who wanted to name it for Andrew Jackson. The Helms, Starnes, McRorie, and Belk families were prominent in the town as well as Monroe and Charlotte. Most of these families came from Goose Creek Township. Eventually, the state would come to acquire a Clay County and a Jackson County, too


Wikipedia reports that "The Helms, Starnes, McRorie and Belk families were prominent in the town." 

I descend from both Helms and Starnes and there were Belks who married into my Davis family line. McRorie is the only name not hanging somewhere in my family tree.

It was said that George Helms had bought the land where Monroe, or part of it, now sits and Tillman settled about a mile and a half northeast. Ms. Myers said in her book, titled above, that when George sold his old planation, his nephew, Tillman Jr., bought it and divided that piece of property up between two of his sons, Andrew and Wiley. 





Another account of the same story, written by R. C. Griffin, was published in The Monroe Journal, on August 12, 1949. His is a little more detailed, revealing that they lived on Bearskin Creek and that George had settled on what was then called Gold Mine Road.


The Monroe Journal

Monroe, North Carolina • Page 3


In the July 11, 1911 editon of The Monroe Journal,  the above article was published. 
It was entitled "Two Big Families" and gave bried histories of the Helms and Richardson families

I've chosen a few paragraphs to highlight below.


The person recanting the history was a Mr. McNeeley.


The former settler whom Tillman purchased land from was a Scotman named John McCoy.


He listed the children of George and Tillman Helms and revealed the fact that there was intermarriage between Helms cousins. This was not uncommon. Tillman and George both had a son named John. While Tillman's son was referred to as "Whitehead" John, his cousin was called "Blackhead" John, to differentiate between the two of them. I would tale a guess this meant Tillman's son ws a blonde while George's son was a brunette.



The above is a complete list of the children of Tillman Senior. As you can see, there was much intermarriage between the Helms and the Presley/Preslar family. Out of ten children of Tillman Sr. and his wife, Rachel, five married Presley's. Population was not great in those days and neighbors married neighbors. Andreas Preslar/Presly Sr. was a German Palantine immigrant who settled around the same area as the Helms family.

Tillman Jr. married Elizabeth Presley, daughter of  Thomas Presley and wife, Sarah Culpepper. Below is a list of their children and whom they married. 
Susannah married John Helms
Richard married Mary Helms
Sarah married George Helms, Jr.
Elizabeth married Tillman Helms, Jr.
Thomas Presley Jr. married his cousin, Jennea or Jane Preslar. Some families settled with one spelling, some another, while the spelling would flip flop back and forth in records for the same individual.

Thomas Presley remarried after the death of his wife Sarah, and had four more daughters. Two married Pool's, one a Thomas and his youngest daughter, Jensie, was still single at the time of his Will, so it is unknown if she married.


NameTilman Hellums
Home in 1800 (City, County, State)Salisbury, Mecklenburg, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - Under 101
Free White Persons - Males -10 thru 152
Free White Persons - Males - 26 thru 441
Free White Persons - Females - Under 102
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 151
Free White Persons - Females - 26 thru 441
Number of Household Members Under 166
Number of Household Members Over 252
Number of Household Members8

Tillman Jr. is enumerated in the 1800 census of Mecklenburg County. He was in the part that became Union. Salisbury indicated the Court they would attend if business was needed. Among his neighbors were Hargetts and Matthews, and many other Helms. Helmsville. He heads a family of eight.


NameTilghman Helms
Residence Date6 Aug 1810
Residence PlaceCapt Legetts, Mecklenburg, North Carolina, USA
Free White Persons - Males - Under 101
Free White Persons - Males - 16 thru 252
Free White Persons - Males - 45 and over1
Free White Persons - Females - Under 102
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 152
Free White Persons - Females - 16 thru 251
Free White Persons - Females - 45 and over1
Number of Household Members Under 165
Number of Household Members Over 252
Number of Household Members10


In 1810, the neighborhood is seen to be diversifying. There are still alot of Helms and Hargetts, but Blounts and Chaneys, Moose and Matthews have joined the mix. His family size has increased to 10


NameTillman Helms
Enumeration Date7 Aug 1820
Home in 1820 (City, County, State)Mecklenburg, North Carolina, USA
Free White Persons - Males - 16 thru 181
Free White Persons - Males - 16 thru 252
Free White Persons - Males - 45 and over1
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 151
Free White Persons - Females - 16 thru 252
Free White Persons - Females - 45 and over1
Number of Persons - Engaged in Agriculture3
Free White Persons - Under 161
Free White Persons - Over 252
Total Free White Persons7
Total All Persons - White, Slaves, Colored, Other7

In 1820, his last, his family size has now decreased to seven, as his older children are flying the nest. We now have many Crowells, Hooks, Williams, Walkers, Coburns, Lemmonds, Pyron, Stewart, Freeman , Forsyth and Broom families. This is his last census.




Tillman and Elizabeth's daughter, Rebecca, born about 1795, will marry Samuel Ramsey, the son of Starkey "Stark" Ramsey, who lived along the Rocky River in the Burnsville area of Anson County.

The Court records found in Mecklenburg County, after 1790, we can safely assume referred to Tillman Jr. 


 The abovementioned 115 acres had been transferred to his son Wylie.



Tillman stood witness and posted bond to several transactions in Mecklenburg County, none really telling. Above he swore witness to the last Will and Testament of neighbor, James Chaney.

In 1804, he testified to the signatures on a deed from James Ritchie to Richard Preslar

The family of Tillman Helms, Jr. and Elizabeth Presley Helms was:

Burwell Helms (1785 -1871) a most prolific Helms, married Elizabeth Helms.


Andrew T. Helms (1776-1860) removed to Butler County, Alabama. Married Elizabeth Stancil.

Agnes Henrietta Helms (1787-unknown) married David Moose

Holly Helms (1791-1851) Married  Helton Milton Presley

Allen Helms (1793-1871) removed to Talbot and Harris County, Georgia, Married Anna Ritch.

Annie Isabel (1795-1811) Married Wiley Chaney.

Rebecca Helms (1797-1870) Married Samuel Ramsey.

Mary Delilah Helms (1801-1853) married Asa Traywick.

Wiley Helms (1804 - 1880) Married Martha Crowell.


Polk Mountain, Union County, North Carolina. The southernmost mountain in the Uwharrie Range. 
























Tuesday, May 12, 2026

The Flooded Ditch




Over the past few decades, I've had the pleasure of assisting several individuals of African American ancestry in assembling their family trees. Those with deeply rooted heritage in the Southern Piedmont of North Carolina, or the entire south, actually, who have taken DNA tests, are often shocked to discover how multi-racial they truly are. African Americans are factually a hybrid race and are a very different ethnicity than those born in Africa. 

When someone begins this journey and receives the results of their DNA testing and sees the multiple countries of origin of their African roots, and then as many countries of origin of their European roots, their minds first go to tales of slavery and the abuse of enslaved women by their enslavers or the supervisory men placed over them by their enslavers, and often, that was the source of their European ancestry. But sometimes, it was not. With the increase in YDNA and MtDNA testing, it is shown that a great deal of racial mixing occurred prior to the plantation era and was the results of Irish indentured servants mixing with the earliest arrivals of Africans to the colonies. A majority of indentured servants did not live long enough to find themselves free with the dangers of the new colonies from disease, starvation, wars and attacks and outright murder. Punishments often ended in death, whether intentional or not. However, men were more likely to make it to freedom than women. An out-of-wedlock pregnancy would lead to more years added to their indenture, and when they were abused, as they often were, pregnancies would occur. Many found companionship among the other enslaved people, including African men. But that wasn't the only other source of European DNA in the African American diaspora.  

Since I have begun researching my roots in Stanly and surrounding Counties that sometimes extends into neighboring states and beyond, I have run into a phenomenon that was not supposed to have existed, that was the existence of free white women who gave birth to mixed race children. A common occurrence now, this was not to have existed in the past, especially in the Civil War and Jim Crow eras, but it did. I have labeled my collection of the stories of these individuals as "The Women who did not exist, except that they did".  I've found many of them, not only in Stanly County, but Montgomery County, Anson County, Rowan County, and I am sure every other county and every other state. They were not numerous, but neither were they rare. 

I recently recounted the story of one of them, Charlotte Melton, a white woman with brown sons. She was a member of the Melton family who came to live in Stanly County from Eastern North Carolina around the turn of the 18th to 19th century. One of her sons married a white girl named Ann Byrd, and in the 1850's, they were brought up on charges of fornication, because the legality of their marriage was in question. These women existed, and for the most part, their offspring married into families that were either mixed, indigenous, or black. They existed prior to the Civil War, like Charlotte Melton, and after, as well. I believe some of the individuals disappeared from records due to foul play that was neither recorded nor reported, like the fate of Harris Melton, Charlotte's son, who died in 1855, just after the trial in Stanly County. Harris had moved to Gold Hill in Rowan County and was working in the mining industry there as a laborer. Mining is and was dangerous, and his demise may have been from that intrepid enterprise, but why was he brought back to Albemarle for burial and not buried in Gold Hill? And why was he buried in the Henry Marshall Cemetery? 

So sometimes those European genes showing up in your 23 and me DNA test were not the result of pre- emancipation rape, but of 'wayward' white women who fell for darker-skinned men. The brief story below mentions one of them. 

While searching for the mysterious "J. S. Honeycutt", the father of a woman named Arwelder who was the subject of my last post, I came across the following entries in the early court records of Union County, NC. 



"Union County, April Session, 1850

Ordered by the court that a baseborn boy of color a child of Martha Honeycutt named Henry now about eight years be bound unto James Beckett until he arrive at the age of twenty-one years and (illegible) he find him good victuals and clothes, learn him the trade of  laying stone and brick and give him fifty dollars when of age."

The next paragraph read nearly the same, a baseborn child of color, the son of Martha Honeycutt, named Monroe, "now about six years old", was bound to James Beckett until he reached the age of 21 to learn the trade of laying stone and brick. These children were not slaves, they were intended to be more like apprentices, but were they?

These were not the children of slaves. Those would not have been brought to this court or mentioned in this record. Martha Honeycutt, the mother, was not a slave or a person of color herself. She was white. Her sons were not.




James Beckett/Bickett in the 1850 census of Union County.


James Beckett is found as a 48-year-old Jailer in the 1850 census of Union County. It is obvious he is living in the fledgling town of Monroe, which only took up a meager four pages in the listing. The listing above him, his neighbors, so to speak, were 'Retailer of Spirits", William G. Winchester, Constable Henry S Neely, Merchants John W. and William B. Twitty, and their clerk, G. B. Broom. Jailer, J. D. Hayden and house carpenter, John Phillips. One unique feature the Union County census had, that surrounding counties did not, was that they gave a little more information in the birthplace column than just the state or foreign country, if that were the case. Because of this, we know Mr. Beckett was born in Union County, while his neighbor was born in Lancaster County, South Carolina, which bordered Union to the South.  

Beckett/ Bickett and his wife, Elizabeth, are shown at the bottom of the page, meaning his entry continues on the next one. 

Here, we find the list of 'Bickett' children, listed in an indicated 'jail'. Of course they were not in jail. It only revealed that their father resided at the place or house that was serving as the jail. These individuals included Harriett Bickett,  18, James S. Bickett, 15, Thomas M. Bickett, 13 and Mary Jane Bickett, 11. Fifteen-year-old James was noted as being a brick mason. He was also born in Mecklenburg County, as opposed to his nearest older and younger siblings, Harriett and Thomas, who were born in Anson County.  Also in the residence was L. A. Winchester, 24, first labeled a merchant. That title was stricken out and replaced with the occupation of 'clerk'. He was related to the previously mentioned Winchesters, a neighbor.

Next in the residence was 22 year old Jacob M. Long, a School Teacher. For some odd reason, the year was written beside his name. He seems to have been the only individual in the Beckett household, aka 'the jail', who was in jail. In the column labeled "Whether deaf and dumb, blind, insane, idiotic, pauper or convict" were the words 'Assault and Battery'. So, he was not a house guest.

Last, but not least, we find the two little boys bound to him by the court. Henry Honeycutt, age 7, male, mulatto, was listed as being born in Anson County, NC. His brother, 'Munroe', just 5, was listed as being born in Stanly County. This gives us three counties in which to search for their mother, Martha Honeycutt.

The page continued a list of those who lived in the small, but industrious town; J T Griffin, Clerk of Superior Court and his family, born in Lancaster County, SC, his wife, Mary, born in Mecklenburg County, NC and their children all born in Union County; House Carpenter A. G. Snipes from Johnston County, NC; Merchant Hugh Houston and his family and boarders, a clerk named James Rogers, and retailer of spirits, Hezekiah William and Mr. William B. Skipper.  Next was Hotel Keeper, William H. Hart from Lancaster County, South Carolina, his family, and the boarders in his hotel, which included teachers, attorneys, saddlers and other tradesmen. 

So, who exactly was James Beckett or Bickett, and by the way, which spelling was correct?

Born March 31, 1802, James Beckett, Jr. was the son of James S. Beckett, Sr., an Irish immigrant from Carha, Silgo, Ireland, himself the son of Samuel Bickett and Mary Stuart Shannon. Notice the change in spelling. James Sr. married in 1794 to Elizabeth Osborne, an American girl,  in Mecklenburg County, NC. They are found in Salisbury, in the 1800 census, so James Jr. may have been born in Rowan County. He grew up in Mecklenburg County, however, and as Union County was formed from portions of Anson and Mecklenburg, it appears they had settled in the part of Mecklenburg that became Union County. 

All of the Bickett children were educated and it served them well in the generations to follow, as they became professionals and leaders in their communities. James Sr. remained in Mecklenburg County until at least 1840, then he and his wife, Elizabeth removed to Tallapoosa, Tallapoosa County, Alabama, with some of their children, particularly William, their youngest son who survived to adulthood, Rev. Samuel Capers Beckett, and their daughters, Margaret and Sarah, who had married two brothers with the surname Wolfe. It appears to be the older children who remained in North Carolina. 

The Bickett Sr.'s are found in Alabama in 1852 and their tenancy there was brief, as James Sr. passed away on September 8, 1852, and his wife, Elizabeth, would return to Monroe, North Carolina, where she is found in the 1860 census living with one of her younger daughters. She died there on July 25, 1861, at the age of 85. The body of Elizabeth Tabitha Osbourne Beckett is thought to have been transported to Tallapoosa, Alabama to have been interred beside her husband. On a train, probably, can you imagine?


Sarah Beckett Wolfe and her husband, George, in old age, sister of James Beckett and last caretaker of their mother, Elizabeth Tabitha Osborne Beckett



James Beckett Jr. remained in Monroe for quite some time after his parents and younger siblings meandered down to Alabama. His name appears often in court records of the era, primarily in reference to his station as jailer, or constable, or in his later métier as an Innkeeper pursuing debts. However, one of his primary and germinal skills appears to have been that of a Stonemason, one he passed on to multiple sons and was bound to impart to children placed in his care, or bondage, however one may chose to regard the condition.

Just before the denouement of the Civil War, James Beckett appears in an indenture ordered by the Court that Harriett Watts, a free girl of color, only ten years old, " be bound to James Beckett to live with  the said James Beckett to live with the said James Beckett after the manner of an apprentice until she arrives at the age of 21 years and the said James Beckett is to feed, clothe, said Harriett comfortably and at full age is to give her one hundred dollars in money and a bed and furniture suitable to her color and a good freedom set of clothes." Did he fulfill his obligations?

On October 25, 1866, James Beckett of Union County, NC appears by signature on a petition found in the US Freedman's Bureau records nominating William Harding Broom for the office of  A.(illegible) Agent for the Bureau, signed by the Governor of the State, Jonathan Worth, who served from 1865 to 1968, during the early years of Reconstruction. While there was a buffet of rationale for signing such a document, it tended to be antipodal to the dominate attitudes of the region which was based in resistance. It was a pragmatic and beneficial action that could have positive results for former slave holders in the possibilities of the restoration of confiscated lands, and aiding in establishing labor contracts between property owners and freedmen, in the face of the attrition of the labor force due to the ravages of War and the migration of many of the manumitted. James Beckett had the discernment to survive the aftermath of the upheaval with little impairment. 

NameJames Bickett
Age in 187068
Birth Dateabt 1802
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Dwelling Number5
Home in 1870Monroe, Union, North Carolina
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Post OfficeMonroe
OccupationKeeping House
Male Citizen Over 21Yes
Personal Estate Value200
Real Estate Value1000
Inferred SpouseElizabeth Bickett
Household members
NameAge
James Bickett68
Elizabeth Bickett64
Mary J Delorme30
James E Delorme8
Harriet Watts16

In 1870, James Beckett had remained an Innkeeper, still living in the middle of the town of Monroe, between a Lawyer and the Clerk of Superior Court. Among the household was 16 year old Harriett Watts, said to be a Domestic Servant, not an intern. It appears that Harriett, at least, survived her term of Indenture, to marry and become a mother, and live to see the turn of a new century. She is buried at Watts Grove Baptist Church in Monroe. 

James Beckett did not remain in North Carolina in his old age, either. It is my notion that this removal to another state in the winter of ones life was not the resultant of seeking greener pastures as it would have been among a more youthful generation, but instead was a grapple for security and care in the waning years of a life. Hence, James and wife, Elizabeth Ross Beckett, being found in different households in 1880, in Georgia.

James and Elizabeth were the parents of seven well-educated children.
John Wade Hampton Beckett
  • John Wade Hampton Beckett (1825-1864), a farmer and married father of five, had also married into the Wolfe family, like his aunts. He was a Corporal in the Confederate Army and met his end at Orange County Courthouse, Virginia.
  • Theresa C. "Tressie" Beckett ( 1826-1888) Married Abel Laney Funderburk and relocated to Decatur County, Georgia and was the mother of 13 children.
  • Harriett E. Beckett (1832-1850) Married William Franklin Windell and died a newlywed five short weeks after her wedding.
  • James Sample Beckett (1836-18700, a Master Stone and Brick Mason, died unmarried at age 34 in Decatur County, Georgia.
  • Dr. Thomas Winchester Bickett (1836-1888), a Physician, retained the "Bickett" spelling of the name, and survived his service in the Civil War. He married Mary Ann "Mollie" Covington and remained in Monroe, becoming a father of five.
  • Mary Jane Bickett (1839 - after 1900) Married 1st to James Edward Delorme, Sr., having one son of the same name born 2 weeks posthumously to his father's death as a Civil War casualty in West Virginia on October 14, 1862. Her son was born in Atlanta, Georgia. She returned home to her parents and is shown above with them in the 1870 census. She later settled in Kershaw County, South Carolina and married Andrew Jackson Baker, with whom she had two children, Lillian in 1875 and James Edgar in 1879. It is unknown what happened to Mr. Baker, but in 1880, Mary Jane is found in a boarding house with 5 year old Lilly and 6 month old E.J.. He may have been out looking for a new place to settle, or working, or he may have passed away, like her first husband. She is last found in the 1900 census, living with her married daughter, Lilly Simms in Williamsburg County, South Carolina, where both of her younger children settled, while her firstborn took up with his paternal family and settled in Atlanta.
  • Rachel Louise Bickett (1829-1909) Married a Funderburk, like her oldest sister, Theresa. Hers was named George Washington, and they also settled in Decatur County, Georgia, raising a family of 11 children, a few who died young. the birthplaces of the children reveal the timing and their path of migration, as the oldest five were born in Lancaster County, South Carolina, ending with James Sample Funderburk, born in 1854 and picking up with the birth of Elizabeth Desdemona Funderburk in 1857 in Decatur County, Georgia, where Rachel died in 1909, at the age of 54.

Record details
NameRachel Funderbuck
Age51
Birth DateAbt 1829
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Home in 1880Pine Hill, Decatur, Georgia, USA
Dwelling Number231
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseWife
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameGeorge W. Funderbuck
Father's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
OccupationHousekeeper
NeighborsView others on page
Household members
NameAge
George W. Funderbuck57
Rachel Funderbuck51
Laura J. Funderbuck21
Jefferson G. Funderbuck19
Josephine L. Funderbuck17
Mary E. Funderbuck14
James S. Funderbuck25
Elizabeth Beckett74


The 1880 census shows Rachel as the caretaker of her mother, Elizabeth, 74. 



NameJames Bickett
Age78
Birth DateAbt 1802
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Home in 1880Pine Hill, Decatur, Georgia, USA
Dwelling Number230
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Relation to Head of HouseFather
Marital StatusMarried
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
OccupationFarmer
NeighborsView others on page
Household members
NameAge
Tricia C. Funderbuck55
Robert S. Funderbuck18
Effie Funderbuck12
James Bickett78


While Theresa was the caretaker of her father, James, 78. Elizabeth passed away in 1888, while James endured until 1917, being buried at the Brinson Cemetery in Decatur. But, back to the Honeycutt's. I still ponder Becketts motives for garnering the indentures of freeborn, but illegitimate, or orphaned children of color. Was he a benevolent guardian or a malevolent master? Were the children bound to him because of his skill set without his own bartering, or did he seek them out as a source of cheap labor?


But there was one more.

Martha had an older son. In the 1850 census, 11-year-old William Honeycutt, mulatto, was living in the home of Tilman Helms, a farmer in Union County, but not inside the town of Monroe. One of Tilman's sons was a merchant and his neighbors were farmers, save one, Dugald Carter, a Shoemaker whose son was a miner.




I have an ancestor named Tillman Helms, but this was not the same one. 





This was the son of Isaac Helms, as shown in the family tree above. 

The difference between William and the younger Henry and Monroe, is that he is found in the 1860 census, living in Union County, in the Monroe Post Office District. And he's not alone.





William is a Day Laborer, his age given as 19 here, placing his year of birth between 1839 and 1841, from the two census records, so around two to four years older than Henry. He's still living among a number of Helms', next to Levi Helms, a Stage Contractor and Dresser. William is a newlywed, married to Mary, 18, also a mulatto. This is still before the Civil War, so Mary was also a free person of color. That term covered free persons of any ethnicity, or mix of ethnicities, other than white. At this point, in this place, it appeared to be a catch-all, and in the area, most with this labor were either mixed race individuals with black and white heritage, or Native Americans. Free Africans with no European heritage were labeled "B" for black. 





William and Mary were included in the marriage documents, and revealed her maiden name was Richardson. The Richardsons, white, were a large slave-holding family found primarily in Anson and Union Counties. Mary was most likely of black and white heritage, source unknown.




No parents were named and the wedding was performed by G. W. Hargett. They're not found in the 1870. This couple seemed to weave and wave through various counties and even states until William was alone and ended up returning home and living out his last, and very long, days, although not as long as his death records indicate. I've seen this before. In those days, some, when they could no longer press for youth, embraced their long-lived status, claiming to be much older than they were. Papers would advertise an individual's age as near 100, or over, while earlier records would indicate they were factually around 80 or so. 

William was found in the 1920 census, working for a family as a laborer, with his age given as 95. But it was his death certificate that intrigued me most. 




William Honeycutt, the brown William Honeycutt, died on November 13, 1924. His cause of death was labeled Old age, and I recognize the word "palsy", but otherwise, the script is illegible. He was widowed and a resident of the County Home when he died and buried at the cemetery located there.


It was the excerpt above, where his parents' names were to be recorded, that caught my eye. His father was written in as an "Unknown Indian" and his mother as an "Unknown White Woman".  We know that his mother was named Martha Honeycutt because of the Court records. In the death certificate, William had been given "Indian" as his race. 



1920
In the 1920 census, he was listed as "Mu" for mulatto, however, as he had his whole life. 

There are those online who have this William Honeycutt conflated with a William Monroe Honeycutt who married Ophelia Pheobe Medlin, but that William was a white man, and the son of a William Honeycutt and Mary Fairley Love Honeycutt.. His father had passed away in the late 1840's.




Above is shown Mary's petition for her year's allowance as a widow, dated July term, 1850.

NameMary Honeycut
GenderFemale
RaceWhite
Residence Age43
Birth Dateabt 1807
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Residence Date1850
Home in 1850Union, North Carolina, USA
Line Number38
Dwelling Number1114
Family Number1114
Inferred ChildSarah Honeycut; Wm Honeycut; Dempsey Honeycut; Elizabeth Honeycut; Jane Honeycut; Susanna Honeycut
Household members
NameAge
Jane Honeycut8
Susanna Honeycut6
Mary Honeycut43
Sarah Honeycut21
Wm Honeycut20
Dempsey Honeycut18
Elizabeth Honeycut10

And this is Mary's household in 1850, with her six children, and William aged 20. He was not the "Indian" or "mulatto" William. William Monoe Honeycutt married Phoebe Ophelia Medlin in 1853. His year of death is unknown, but his descendants, some of them, have commandeered the death records of "Brown William", which is inaccurate.

Martha Honeycutt, who appears to have lived in both Union and Stanly County, appears to have had a great deal in common with Charlotte Melton from my earlier post. She gave birth to several darker-skinned sons, while she was white, outside of marriage. The father in both instances appears to have been Native American.

This leads back to the question of who Martha Honeycutt was, and where did this group of Honeycutt's come from? Searching for a Martha Honeycutt in the 1850 census of Union, Stanly, and even Cabarrus or Anson Counties, we find four Martha's, however, there was only one old enough, (or young enough), to have been the mother of these little boys. The others were just children, in the same age range of the boys, or far past their child-bearing years. This was Martha, the daughter of Lewis and Polly Rowland Honeycutt. She would shortly afterwards marry a Sides and have a lengthy marriage and many children. I do not believe this was the same Martha. There was no indication, and in this time and setting, she would have been a pariah among possible brides. 

The search for the origins of these boys appeared to be a dead end, but there were clues. 

GW Hargett

George Washington Hargett had applied with William Honeycutt on the marriage bond with Mary Richardson. There was only one man in the area that this shoe fit, the son of Daniel Hargett and Mary "Polly" Kesiah Hargett. He was born about 1830 and was a contemporary of William Honeycutt. I've found no other connection between George and William, and one can surmise they were probably just friends. 


Looking back to the 1840 census, for Honeycutt's that may have lived in this same area of Union County that neared the Stanly County border, we have to look in Anson County, as Union would not be founder until two years later. Union was born in 1842 as the child of Anson and Mecklenburg, with its portions from the west side of Anson and east side of Mecklenburg. Knowing Martha's children were born in Stanly, and then in Union Counties, the Anson County census was the one that held the part of Union that now borders Stanly. 


Here, of interest, we find the listing for "Bry T Honeycutt. While not definitive, I believe this given name may have been an abbreviation of "Bryant". I can't find anything else on Bryant, or anything close to this name or abbreviation, in Anson, Union, or any nearby counties in North Carolina. There was a Bryant Honeycutt, born June 15, 1828, in North Carolina, possibly Anson, who married Sureptia Bridges, and previously to a lady named Margaret, to Scott County, Tennessee prior to 1850. He was buried there in 1898.

The above clip shows B. Honeycutt on a list of the area that begins with Henry Marshall and Dominic Morton, both who would also show residence in Montgomery (Stanly) County during their lifetimes. There also is my ancestor Stark Ramsey, who lived around the Burnsville area, and a few Broadways, who did also. His name appears closest to my distant cousins, John and Milton Winfield, brothers, and sons of Edward Winfield, my fifth Great Granduncle. They lived along the Rocky River, which borders Anson and Stanly Counties. 




A variant view of the 1840 census of Union County shows a family of five, with the Head of Household being a young man in his 20's, three females: one in her 20's, a teen between 15 and 19 and a younger girl between 10 and 14. The final family member was a male under 10 who was a free person of color who could have been William. What was this family makeup? A young man whose parents were deceased and his sisters? A married couple in their twenties with two young sisters or boarders? This can't be determined, but one of the older two females could have been Martha, and the little boy, William.


The 1870 census of Scott County, Tennessee, shows an older Bryant Honeycutt, with his family, surrounded by other Bridges (his wife Surepta's family) and other Honeycutt's. Could this have been the same family?



And then there was Sam.




1830 West Pee Dee
In the 1830 census of West Pee Dee, we find a Samuel Honeycutt, listed near William Wall, Lewis Springer and the John Furrs, Junior and Senior, in an area that would become Stanly. 

A different view of the same family reveals a family of seven, two adults and five children, all free whites. 


NameSaml Honeycut
Home in 1830 (City, County, State)West Side Pee Dee River, Montgomery, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - Under 51 ?
Free White Persons - Males - 5 thru 92 Mike & ?
Free White Persons - Males - 40 thru 491 Sam
Free White Persons - Females - 5 thru 92 Mary & ?
Free White Persons - Females - 30 thru 391 Nancy 
Free White Persons - Under 205
Free White Persons - 20 thru 492
Total Free White Persons7
Total - All Persons (Free White, Slaves, Free Colored)7

However, ten years later, this same family has relocated temporarily to Cabarrus County. 

1840 Cabarrus


NameSamuel Henrycutt
Residence Date1840
Home in 1840 (City, County, State)Cabarrus, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - 10 thru 14
Free White Persons - Males - 30 thru 39
Free White Persons - Males - 40 thru 491
Free White Persons - Females - 15 thru 19
Free White Persons - Females - 40 thru 491
Free Colored Persons - Males - Under 103
Free Colored Persons - Females - Under 102
Persons Employed in Agriculture2
Free White Persons - Under 202
Free White Persons - 20 thru 493
Total Free White Persons5
Total Free Colored Persons5
Total All Persons - Free White, Free Colored, Slaves10

The ages match up somewhat exact with where Sam's family will appear later, with one exception, they have five free children of color in their home, all under the age of ten. Was Martha Honeycutt a member of this family, and were these her children? Did she have more than three?



1850 Burnsville, Anson County.

Jumping ahead another decade, they have relocated once again to the Burnsville area of Anson County. They are living next to James Ramsey, a son of the afore mentioned Stark Ramsey, my kin. This puts them in the same area that had been occupied by Bryant (?) Honeycutt. 



Sam is 70 and his wife, Nancy, is 60. An older, known son, Tillman Michael Honeycutt, was already an adult with his own family, living in the same general area. The others found in the Honeycutt home, in addition to Samuel and his wife, Nancy, were an 8-year-old Lucy, possibly a grandchild, and likely daughters, Mary, 25, Betsy, 16 and son, Ander, 13. 



1860



This year, Sam and Nancy are accompanied by a daughter or granddaughter, perhaps, named Margaret, age 19 and an infant, 6-month-old, Sarah, who may have been her daughter. Margaret is a day laborer, and it is noted that Sam was a pauper, and while it was showing him as 65, although he was counted as 70 a decade prior, this was the same family. I've seen hundreds of instances in my years of research proving that age was tentative and variable in these documents. 



The neighborhood was much the same in 1860. The family is still in the Burnsville District of Anson County. He's still on the same page as James Ramsey and with several Carpenters, descendants of Thomas Carpenter, shown at the bottom of the page in 1850. There is also Ben Hudson, a brother of Stanly County's infamous Joshua Hudson Jr. of Ugly Creek in Stanly County, and Stokes McIntyre, who was the estranged husband of my second Great Grandmother's sister, Elizabeth Murray McIntyre and had resided on the other side of the Rocky River, in Tyson Township, Stanly County, prior to moving to Anson County. He is buried at Rocky Mount Baptist Church, just across the river. On the same page was another Murray sister, Rebecca, and her husband, Richard Poplin. 




Sam Honeycutt apparently died between 1860 and 1870.



His widow, Nancy, is shown as 68, having been enumerated as 66 in 1860. Margaret, who was seen as 19 in 1860, has advanced 12 years instead of 10, and shown as 31. There are two small children living in the home now, possibly the children of Margaret; Clementine, 6, and Melinda, 2. Nancy was living in the household of Marion Blackman, who had married her daughter, Mary. 



The neighborhood reveals that Nancy and her remaining family were still in the same place as they had been since 1850.



They were still among the descendants of my ancestors, Thomas Carpenter and Stark Ramsey, as well as the Ledbetters, again. They lived right next to Stokes McIntyre, now, who was back with his wife, Elizabeth. Living in their home were two Huneycutt children, Levi, 12 and Elizabeth, 8. Future records would show that these were the illegitimate children of Stokes McIntyre and Margaret Honeycutt. Like other Civil Wars Veterans who had returned alive, Stokes McIntyre seems to have maintained, or generated, two families simultaneously. 

The 1880 census was the last one for most of Sam and Nancy's children. 






It would also reveal relationships, showing that Nancy had passed away, and Mary's husband had abandoned her to return to South Carolina, where he was from. She was now the Head of Household and had returned to her maiden name of Honeycutt. Margaret is shown as her sister, and although Margaret was not in the 1850 census, the child, Lucy was, and born within a year of Margaret's probable age, so I believe Margaret and Lucy was one and the same. She had continued to have more children, adding John W. Honeycutt, aged 7, to Tiney (Clementine), now 15 and Melinda, now 11. They seem to have been living in the Honeycutt homeplace, and while Stokes McIntyre had passed away in 1875, this last child, John William Honeycutt-McIntyre claimed him as father as well. It appears that Margaret Honeycutt was the mother of six children with Stokes McIntyre.




Marriage License of John William (Honeycutt) McIntyre, naming his parents as Stokes McIntyre and Margaret Honeycutt. 





The younger son of Sam and Nancy Honeycutt, Ander or Andrew, despite not showing up with them in the 1860 census, died on August 30, 1862, in Richmond County, Virginia, a Civil War Casualty. 

Elizabeth "Eliza" or "Betsy" Honeycutt in 1860



Daughter Elizabeth "Betsy" Honeycutt, struck out on her own, finding work and refuge among the Burnsville Lee family. 

NameJohn W. Honeycut
Age22
Birth DateAbt 1858
BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Home in 1880Burnsville, Anson, North Carolina, USA
Dwelling Number181
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Relation to Head of HouseSon
Marital StatusSingle
Father's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
Mother's NameEliza Honeycut
Mother's BirthplaceNorth Carolina
OccupationFarmer hand
Months Not Employed3
NeighborsView others on page
Household members
NameAge
John W. Honeycut22
Eliza Honeycut50


She is last seen in the 1880 census, living with her own son, John W. Honeycutt, not to be confused with her nephew of the same name, who was twenty years younger than his cousin. 

Mary Honeycutt remained childless. 

Oldest son, Michael "Mike" Honeycutt was first married to a woman named Lavina. He is also found in Cabarrus County in 1840, like his father. 




He would marry Lucinda "Lucy" Ramsey in 1871, daughter of Holden Ramsey, another Stark Ramsey son, after the family had relocated to Burnsville, Anson County. He was the father of five. I believe this is the family that Martha Honeycutt sprang from, due to circumstance, location, and the process of elimination. 




There was another, large Honeycutt family who had settled in the "Winchester" area of Union County, and that was the family of Dempsey J Honeycut (1807-1867), who had married Tabitha Helms and moved to Mississippi. They were the parents of 11 children that bore many of the same names that ran through the Samuel Honeycutt line, including oldest son, Samuel Wilburn Honeycut (1836- 1905). This line has been much better documented, and Dempsey was a common given name among the Honeycutt's hailing back to an earlier Dempsey.  He was supposedly the son of a Dempsey Jr. (1787-1856). They may have been related to Samuel. 

Martha Honeycutt and her sons were square pegs among the Rocky River community in the 19th century. She joins the club of the women who didn't exist, except that they did. While I found no answers, I found possibilities. I wonder who these Indigenous fathers were that left free brown children among the Rocky River population of settlers and crossed the color-lines along with that flooded ditch.