Showing posts with label Isham whitley. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Isham whitley. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Nancy of Stillwater Creek


Nancy Whitley did not appear in the 1850 census of Stanly County, but we can rest assured that she was there. Above is just one of a number of documents that name her as living along Stillwater Creek in the western part of Stanly County, in the 1850's.
My quest is to figure out who Nancy Whitley was, aside from the mother of the four children we know she was the mother of Hardin, Mary, William Pinkney and Taylor Whitley. Two of her sons died in the Civil War. Only one of them left children, and her daughter is a complete mystery, as there were so many Mary Whitelys. 





The location of Stillwater Creek does me no favors in the search to discover who she may have been the widow of among the Stanly County area Whitleys. It runs from east of Locust, south to the Rocky River,  between Stanfield and Oakboro. Shown above, it's the blue line between the two red ones. Covering a great deal of territory and territory common to the Whitley family. 




Nancy appears to have been on her own, and a landowner, soon after the inception of the county of Stanly. I found her in a tax list, with her son, Hardy, also seen as Hardin, listed above her, in 1863. They owned 50 acres each. They were next to Hezekiah Whitley. Make a note of that.



May Session of Court, 1855
"Ordered by the Court that Hardy Whitley be appointed overseer of the road from Hezekiah Whitley's to Charles Dry's Ford and that John T Griffin, John Yow, JH Griffin, Calvin J Austin, David M Harkey, Ezekiel M Brooks, Hezekiah Whitley, Temperance Austin's hands, Ezekiel Brooks hands, William Hinson and Charles Cagle work as hands and that the overseer Mile Mark the road from the County line to Albemarle." 
Again, we see the names of Nancy or her family in conjunction with Hezekiah.

On September 26, 1851, Nancy Whitley bought a tract of land for $50 from Daniel Freeman, merchant and businessman. It was located on Austin Road and met Hezekiah Whitley's corner, Henry Baker's line, back to Baker's corner, Caswell Smith's line and back to the Austin Road. 
Jess Morton was a witness, and it was processed on March 26th, 1852.


The above deed 169 is from Nancy Whitley to Hardy Whitley, both of Stanly County, dated the 28th day of November 1857. For $150 in hand, Nancy sold to Hardy beginning at a stake in the Austin Road containing 52 acres, ' more or less ', "both of love and equity of the said Nancy Whitley to be the said Hardy Whitley's at the death of his mother the said lands and tenements Hardy Whitley his heirs and assigns against the said Nancy Whitley and his (sic) heirs and assigns. Signed by Nancy Whitley. Witnessed by S.S. Crisco and Executed on September 3, 1863.

Hardy Whitley had fought in the Civil War and died on April 25, 1864, in Wilmington. So, this deed was proven after his death. It may have been his widow, Bathsheba, or an unknown administrator, who submitted the deed.

The above is the Grant of A. H. Nance for 100 acres in Stanly County North Carolina dated May 21st, 1856.  "Pursuant to a warrant No 728 Surveyor for Alfred H Nance one hundred acres of land on the waters of Rocky River adjoining the lands of Joseph Hatley and others Bounded as follows. Beginning at a stake by a white oak and? oak at Jesse P Nance's corner and runs with his line to Nancy Whitley's corner...stake in the Austin Road... Hezekiah Whitley's line.... George H. Huneycutt's ...Hatley's corner.
Chain carriers were Jesse P Nance and James L Russell.

We're seeing a pattern. Nancy Whitley lived a long the Austin Road, as it existed in that era, on property adjoining that of Hezekiah Whitley.

There was one more. 

John Hinson Sr.  April 24, 1854.
"Take notice that I have this day levied sundry executions at the instance of A C Freeman's and others on one hundred acres of land, on the waters of Stillwater Creek adjoining the lands of Nancy Whitley and others as your property and shall return thereof to the next Court of pleas and quarters sessions to be held for the County of Stanly at the courthouse in Albemarle and applied to sell same, subject to a deed of trust made to Lee Lowder for the benefit of JP Nantz.
J Marshall, sheff.
by J F Stowe DG" 

And these are all the mentions I can find of Nancy Whitley, the mother of Hardy, William Pinkney, Mary and Taylor.

The family, as a lot, appears in but one census, 1860. Hardy, with his wife, Bathsheba, and infant son, James, live next door to Nancy, born in 1798, and her younger children, Mary, Pinkney and Taylor. Both Hardy and Taylor were Civil War casualties. William Pinkney Whitley survived the War, married Civil War widow, Margaret Melinda Springer, maiden name unknown. 
The small grouping had an obvious connection to Hezekiah Whitley, if only as neighbors. Perhaps a look at him will offer up some clues.
Hezekiah Whitley, also seen as Hezekiah Isaac Whitley, was born about 1813, and lived in the Big Lick area. He married, Elizabeth ,supposedly a Cagle.



In these early land entries in Stanly County from 1844, we see that Isham Whitley enter 100 acres on the Austin Road that included his own improvements. Hezekiah Whitley entered 100 acres adjoining Isham Whitleys 100 acres. And then, Alfred Ledbetter enters 100 acres on the new road leading to Charles Dry's Ford, also adjoining Isham Whitley's 100 acres.

This is pretty significant. Keep those names and locations in mind.



The above document shows that Hezikiah was also in debt in 1852, to Daniel Freeman, like Nancy was at that time.




This one shows a lawsuit wherein Andrew Huneycutt, who was one of the largest land owners around Big Lick at that time, sues Daniel Freeman, who in turn supoenas Levi Eudy, Hezekiah Whitley, Jesse Morton, Alfred Ledbetter, and James M McCorkle. Most of them being neighbors in that particular area.


1847 Tax List 


The 1847 Taxlist shows the taxable Whitleys in Stanly County. On Stillwater Creek, we have Nancy Whitley with 100 acres and Hezekiah Whitley with 149 acres.  The other Whitleys were: Green Deberry Whitley with 470 acres on Little Running Creek, Benjamin Lindsey Whitley with 538 acres on Stony Run Creek, Temple Whitley with 250 acres on Bear Creek, William Whitley with 291 acres on Bear Creek and on Rocky River, his son Edmund with 70 acres on Bear Creek, and Adam Whitley, no land, but himself as a Poll.

No mention of Isham, who was there in 1844, but Nancy pops up.








On January 4,1850, there was an Indenture between Alfred Ledbetter, ( 'Member him?), and Daniel Freeman. The land Alfred Ledbetter was using as collateral met a corner post oak in Hezekiah Whitley's line. Then after meeting a blackjack in Hezekiah's line, it ran with Nancy Whitley's line, showing that their property all met. 



Back in the November 1843 session of court, it was ordered that George Cagle appointed overseer to clear out the new road leading from Charles Dry's Ford on Rocky River, to the signboard opposite George Whitley's. Remember the mention of Charles Dry's Ford in the land entries?

He was to work from the river to the Austin Road and summon the following: George W. Chrisco, John W. Austin, Michael Cagle, Ishmael Eudy, John Hinson, Lindsey Cagle, Hezekiah Whitley, Axiom Whitley, Hampton White, Harrel Hinson, Andrew Huneycutt's hands, Archibald Stancil, John Stancil, Henry Brooks, A. Ledbetter, Tempy Austin's hands, Charles Cagle, and Bryant Griffin. These were for the most part, young men. They were by no means old men. The term "hands" meant empolyee's of, as Tempy Austin was a woman, and not a young one, but her employees were required, as she probably lived on or near Austin Road.

A few names listed were not familar, possible sons of men who planted here, that would ride the wind west like dandelion froth. Axiom, or Axom Whitley was one of those. There are a few mentions of him in the 1840's Stanly County records. In the 1842 November Sessions of the P's and Q's Court, 'Axim" Whitey is mentioned as having 100 acres on Haw Branch, that was to be sold for back taxes of $1.39. Can you imagine? Haw Branch is in the vicinity of Aquadale, not particularly close to Stlilwater Creek.. I'm getting a little ahead of myself here, but the other Whitley who lived on Haw Branch was Lewis, another Whitley most people have never heard of, not in that time frame, at least. After Lewis, who passed away around 1838, came Mary, much in the same way that after Isham, came Nancy. See where I am going? Anyway, Axom Whitley was probably a young man, and maybe even moved in with Hezekiah for a brief while. He could have died, because he not to be found in the county by 1850, bur more likely he became one of those who went west or south or find their greener pasture.  If I had to guess at a relationship, my bet would be that he was a nephew to Hezekiah, because I believe he was most likely a son of Lewis, but of course, we really can't know. Much of genealogy is a hypothesis based on gut feelings, that one cannot prove, but may believe there is a possible relationship. It's just as possible that Axom was a Whitley from an entirely different place that stopped in for a minute, of no relation at all, but I doubt it.


In 1848, the taxable Whitley's were spread across two pages. They really hadn't changed much since 1847. Green had 470 acres on Running Creek; Ben, 538 acres on Stony Run. Temple Whitley was on Bear Creek, still with 250 acres. Hezekiah still showed 149 acres in Stillwater Creek, and William's lot has decreased to163 aces on Bear Creek alone.






On the next page, Edmund Whitley, Williams's son, is still showing 70 acres on Bear Creek. After him, Nancy Whitley again makes the list, but her former 100 acres do not. Instead, B. L. Lindsey is showing 19 acres on Stillwater. Jesse Whitley, another son of William's, has now become taxable, but without land. It makes me wonder if Ben Whitley bought Nancy's small allotment, so that she and her children could live there. Green D. Whitley also adds on to his quantity, now with 300 acres on Bear Creek. I don't know what the '/re' means.



When Daniel Freeman and son, A.C. Freeman, placed a levy on the property of George H. Huneycutt and George W. Russell, it is noted as being on Fox Branch, one I am not familiar with, and adjoining the property of Hastings (Hastin) Hatley and Hezekiah Whitley. Dated March 11th, 1848, Alfred Ledbetter was the constable. Knowing the general location of both Hezekiah and Hastings, it was probably in the Oakboro area.


And now we come to the very first tax list of Stanly County, February 1841.

George Whitley was the premier Whitley at this time. He had nearly 2000 acres of property, spread out from Bear Creek to Lick Branch to Cabin Branch. Needham Whitley the elder, claimed 100 acres on Bear Creek. Under Cami (McCamey) Willis, Benjamin Lindsey Whitley had become taxable, but had no property to declare yet. That would soon change. There were several of the Whitleys coming of age at this time.



On page two, Isham Whitley is taxable, but like Ben, with no property yet. He would make the claim on Stillwater Creek soon. There's Green on Stony Run, another Needham, just taxable, no land.

There's Axiom Whitley again, with his 100 acres on Haw Branch and Needham Whitley Jr, listed as just a taxable. There appears to have been three Needhams. Hezekiah Whitley does not show up yet. 

Hezekiah's first census was the 1850. In 1840, the list in West Pee Dee, Montgomery County, the year before Stanly County was created, included only Green D. Whitley, George, Needham, Isham, Allison, Edmund, William and Mary. 


He is shown as Isaac, his middle name, and 25 years old, with wife, Elizabeth, of the same age. Three small children have arrived quickly, Mary, 2, Caroline, one year old, and an 11 month old 'Linda', who very well may be Lindsey, as he was born about the same time. They live near George L Huneycutt, mentioned above, a Hinson, and a large group of Hatleys, including Hastings. 


In 1860, Hezekiah's family had increased exponentially. 


Living next to one of the younger Hardy Hatleys, Hezekiah and Elizabeth now have nine children. Portrayed as 47 and 40, having skipped their thirties altogether, they have Mary 12, Caroline 11, and Lindsey, 10, which corresponds perfectly with two year old Mary, one year old Caroline and the infant Linda, ten years earlier. I don't believe there was a Linda. The census taker may have misunderstood what was told to him about the baby. They dressed them all the same in those days. The first child born in the 1850's has been transcribed as "Ursra". I don't believe there was an Ursra, however, at the time this child was born, there was a Bathsheba, who most definitely was a child of this couple. I believe 'Ursra' was Bathsheba. She was followed by second son, Hardy, 8, then Martha, 6, Adaline, 4, Elizabeth, 3, and Sarah, the youngest, at one. There would be no more, that I know of.

Several of Hezekiah's daughters are unaccounted for.

In the 1870 census, Hezekiah is a widower. The only children remaining in the home were twenty-year-old Lindsey, and the two younger girls, Elizabeth and Sarah. It seems the others were bound out. Mary was in her early twenties and could have married. 

 Bathsheba didn't marry until 1880, but is nowhere to be found. The same with Hardy. Martha is seen no more, only in the 1860 census. Adaline, 14, is found across the river in New Salem, working as a domestic servant for the Henry Morgan family. 

Caroline was the oddity. She was 21 and on her own, and seemed to be living in a house between the notorious J C (Jordan) Kennedy and Sarah Kennedy and her family. Sarah was a freed slave, even though she is shown as white here. She was probably of mixed race. Her children most definitely were, their father was Jordan Kennedy. They would have more after this census. 

Sarah had been in the home of Jordan's sister, also named Sarah, who owned the Kennedy Mill. A road is still named for it. The enslaved Sarah had been sold to Edward Winfield Davis prior to emmancipation. Afterwards, she continued as the mistress of Jordan Kennedy. Her son Robert would marry my second Great Aunt, Matilda Aldridge, who was of Indigenous heritage. Was Caroline also a 'kept' woman of JC Kennedy?


1880

By 1880, Hezekiah was 59, and had three adult daughters living with him, Caroline, 27, Adaline, 23 and Sarah, 18. 


Where Martha and Elizabeth were, I haven't a clue. 

While we don't know the exact year of death of Hezekiah Whitley, a court case could narrow the time frame down a bit. 

In the Fall 1885 term of Court for Stanly County, a case came up of State vs Hezekiah Whitley and Ellen Safely. They were charged with F C & A, or Fornication, Cohabitation and Adultery. Now, Hezekiah was a widower of about 64 years old. His wife Elizabeth died before 1870. Ellen Safely is shown in the 1880 as a widow.
Ellen, 23, and her mother, Frances Safely, 39, are boarding with a Hatley family.


The only other early record I find for her is her 1877 marriage certificate to a John Hinson.


Her husband, John Hinson, a Civil War Veteran, must have died before 1880. Multiple people have him hooked up to other Hinsons that were not him, curious about where her children came from. 

Later, in the court records, Hezekiah and Ellen were called and failed. The next session of court, they were called again. Hezekiah was there, Ellen was not. Hezekiah and Caroline, his daughter were recognized in the amount of $200 for his appearance at the next session of court. Caroline owned her own property.

The final call of the court was a year later, in the fall of 1886. This time the case had changed to State vs Ellen Safely and Caroline Whitley. Hezekiah was no more.
I tried and failed to find a deed for Caroline Whitley. But one existed. So many records were just lost to time.




What I did find was the above document. This was from the case of J. C. Gilbert vs Hezekiah Whitley. It was an affidavit from Caroline. She stated that she was not ready "for a trial of this case at this time." 
The reason given was that a material witness, Jordan C. Kennedy, was not present and that she had heard and believed it true, that he was out of the county, at that time. It continued, "That she claims that the lands where she now lives as her own property under a deed from Conrad Crisco."

It was dated December 16, 1882, and signed with a mark as Conrad Crisco.

I looked for a deed from Conrad Crisco to Caroline, while I found one between Conrad Crisco and Ephraim Irenus Whitley, there was not one for Caroline. Conrad Crisco lived in Big Lick in 1880 and later on in New Salem,  Union County NC.

Caroline Whitley died in 1913 at the age of 64. She was buried at Hatleys Grove Primitive Baptist Church in Oakboro. The ties to the Hatleys were pretty strong. 


Caroline left a small estate and in her probate file, her heirs were named. They included her siblings, brothers Lindsey and Hardy Whitley, and sister, Bashy (Bathsheba) Whitley Hathcock. The fourth heir had me baffled at first,  Rebecca Thomas. 

As Caroline was unmarried and childless, her living siblings were her heirs. Her other sisters must have died before 1913. I thought maybe Rebecca was one of the five missing sisters, having married a Thomas and going by a middle name. Try as I could, I couldn't find a Rebecca Whitley who married a Thomas in this area, in that year of birth range. Then I dug a little deeper into Ellen Safely, curious about a few things in the court records. Ellen Safely was the mother of four children two, daughters and two sons. One daughter, Sarah, was born before she was a 23 year old widow, living with her mother. The second daughter, Rebecca 'Hinson', married a Jacob Thomas. She was born during the time Hezekiah and the young Ellen Safely Hinson were cohabitating. Rebecca was also Caroline's sister. 

Ellen's children all went by Hinson, claiming a man dead before they were born as their father. That's why descendants are giving him a middle name he didn't have, trying to find a man living at the time their ancestor was born that had to be him. What lengths these old-time folks went to trying to cover up the truth of their parents' indiscretions!

The family of Hezekiah Whitley and his wife Elizabeth were: 
1848 - Mary - shows up in the 1850 & 1860 census. Fate unknown.

1849- Caroline. Unmarried, died in 1913. Buried at Hatleys Grove Primitive Baptist Church in Oakboro NC.

1850- Lindsey - married twice. First, in 1871 to Sarah Morgan, daughter of Goin and Nancy Morgan. Second, in 1898 to Mary Francis Page, daughter of Simon Sion and Nancy Dove Page. No children. Lindsey outlived both wives, passing on January 31, 1917 at the age of 67. He had moved to Cabarrus County, but came back to Stanly during illness, and having no children, ended up in the County Home in Albemarle, where he is buried.

1851- June 8th - Bathsheba- married James Hathcock on September 5, 1880. Six children. Lived in Big Lick until 1900, Moved to Salisbury, Rowan County by 1910. Settled finally in Jerusalem, Davie County, NC where she passed away on June 13, 1928. Buried at Chestnut Hill Cemetery in Salisbury.
- William Fairly Hathcock (1882-1918)
- Adam Mel Hathcock (1890-1946)
- Eva Belle Hathcock (1890-1901)
-Green A. Hathcock (1891-1918)
- Maggie Hathcock Hinkle (1893-1956)
-Ritty Roseanne Hathcock Marlow (1896-1960).

1852- December 29- Hardy Married November 14, 1880 to Nancy Isabella Arey, daughter of Daniel Wilson and Delilah Hodge Arey.  Seven children. He started home making in Big Lick, then moved to Morgan Township in Rowan County, where he passed away on June 29, 1935. Buried at Corinth Cemetery in Rowan County. 

- Alice Martha Jane Whitley Stokes Garner (1881-1965)
-James William Whitley (1884-1972)
-Joyce Avaline Whitley (1886-1965)
-Chalmers Levi Whitley (1888-1952)
- Polly Lillianna Whitley (1890-1968)
- Hardy Eugene Whitley (1893-1933)
-John Oscar Whitley (1899-1968)

1844 Martha Whitley. Only appears in the 1860 census. Probably died as a child.

1857 Adaline Whitley. Appears in the 1860, 1870 and 1880 census records. Possibly married, deceased before 1913.

1858 Elizabeth Whitley. Appears in the 1860 and 1870 census records. Possibly married, deceased before 1913.

1859 - Sarah Whitley. Appears in the 1860, 1870 and 1880 census. Possibly married, deceased before 1913. 

With Ellen Safely Hinson-
- Rebecca 'Becky' Hinson born November 28, 1880. Married Jacob C. Thomas, 5 children:
-William Wesley Thomas (1901-1969)
-Anna Myrtle Thomas (1906-1978)
-Claude Houston Thomas (1910-1994)
-Benjamin Harvey Thomas (1916-1996)
-Alfred Thomas (1918-2007)






Before I completed this post, I decided to take a closer view at the neighbors of Nancy Whitley of Stillwater Creek. Recalling that Isham Whitley, and Nancy, lived on land that bordered that of Alfred Ledbetter, I decided to give his family a closer look. 
Taking advantage of my collection of Stanly County census books for the 19th century, I went on a successful hunt.  The books provide a more thorough search and for me, it's easier to compare one thing in relation to another, especially neighbors and distances. Seeing things from a different view. 
AND THERE SHE WAS!


Nancy, followed by her daughter, Mary her son Hardy and William Pinkney as William P., as I had first met him, and little Taylor, I now discovered was fully named Zachary Taylor, for the President who had been elected the year he was born: 1849. They were right beside Allen Ledbetter this whole time.

There was one difference, however, this was a family of Hatleys, not Whitleys. It was them alright, the place and parallels were too keen. Whitley was the correct surname, the one the children went forth with, and it wasn't a transcription error. It was clearly written as 'Hatley'. Something had happened, when asked her name, Nancy must have been mistaken and gave the man her maiden name and the children all fell under that roof. It made perfect sense.

Hardy Hatley is an ancestor of mine. There were more than one of them, the name ran like a mountain brook through the generations. Nancy named her oldest son Hardy. They lived near a grove of Hatleys it seems, Hezekiahs daughter was buried with Hatleys. 

And what about Hezekiah? He also had a son named Hardy. What was his wife's maiden name? In every tree, her name is given as Millie Elizabeth Cagle, daughter of Charles. But that can't be right. His daughter Millie Elizabeth married Lewis Brown over in Tyson Township. She had a child with my relative, James Pinkney Aldridge. She couldn't have been two places at once. She also lived well into the 20th century. Elizabeth Whitley appears to have passed before 1870. 

What if Hezekiah's wife was also a Hatley? Two brothers marrying two sisters was not uncommon. It's a theory. It will take a swim into the Hatley ocean to discover its possibilities. 

But back to the beginning, Nancy.

Isham Whitley entered 100 acres of land on Stillwater Creek in 1845 next to Alfred Ledbetter and Hezekiah Whitley. A few years later, in 1847, it was Nancy Whitley in this spot, on Stillwater Creek adjoining Alfred Ledbetter and Hezekiah Whitley. 

Could we go a decade back and look at the family dynamics? 

"Joam" is the transcription error for Isham.

NameJoam Whitley
Residence Date1840
Home in 1840 (City, County, State)West Pee Dee River, Montgomery, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - Under 52 Hardy and William
Free White Persons - Males - 15 thru 191
Free White Persons - Males - 40 thru 491 Isham 
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 141 Mary
Free White Persons - Females - 40 thru 491 Nancy 
Persons Employed in Agriculture2
No. White Persons over 20 Who Cannot Read and Write2
Free White Persons - Under 204
Free White Persons - 20 thru 492
Total Free White Persons6
Total All Persons - Free White, Free Colored, Slaves6

The dynamics fit perfectly, with the exception of an older teenage boy in the home. I thought it may have been Hezekiah, as he doesn't appear in the 1840 census, but he was a decade too old. Perhaps it was Axiom. There's no way to know. There were mysterious Whitleys in the early records. In the early court records of Stanly County, there is a Zeb, short for Zebulon. Every one is a piece of the puzzle.

To sum things up, it's my belief that Nancy Whitley was the widow of Isham Whitley, and could have been a Hatley before marriage, likewise with Hezekiah's with, Elizabeth. 

It also appears to me that Zachary Taylor Whitley was more likely to have been the son of Mary, than Nancy, due to their ages. This fact was cogent and amplified when I went one decade further. 

I knew Taylor and Hardy died in the Civil War, but I haven't found William P in 1870 yet, or Mary and Nancy. So another look at the Allen Ledbetter family.



The only Whitley next to them, well actually living with them was Telitha Whitley, born in 1856, who I was fairly certain was the Telitha Jane Whitley who had married John Alexander Springer in 1882 in Iredell County, the son of Israel Springer and Margaret Malinda who married Nancy's son, William Pinkney Whitley. That is when 2 plus 2 equaled 4.

Talitha Jane Whitley was living in Iredell County in 1880 with her mother, Mary and little brother, William Alexander Whitley, who was born in Stanly County in 1868. 
All this time, I had been trying to find out who Mary was the widow of, looking at every Whitley who had been in the War!

Mary wasn't a widow, but she was a mother. Talitha Jane Whitley was living with who had been her next door neighbor. Perhaps as a fatherless child, she had been bound to the family. Mary had followed her brother to Iredell County and her daughter had married her brothers stepson. Her son had married two sisters from Union County, and perhaps Zachary Taylor Whitley was also her son. 

I still have two mysteries to solve.

A) Where were Mary, her little son, William A Whitley and her brother William P. and Margaret Malinda Whitley in 1870?

B) What was Margaret Malinda's maiden name? Was she in Stanly County as a child, or just across the river? 

I'm not so curious as to who were the fathers or father of Mary's children. Perhaps a court record or a bastardy bond exists, or perhaps not. The only one of her children to have children was Alexander, and that would be a DNA challenge for them.

'People didn't do that back then '. Please! They did it quite often, in fact. The base of a number of brick walls was a fatherless child. 

Alfred Ledbetter and his family lived along what is now called Ledbetter Ford Road, just above the Rocky River. Remnants exist. A cemetery is there.



The family of Nancy Whitley lived nearby. Nancy is not found in 1870, but neither are those we know were living, Mary and William Pinkney Whitley. She may have made it to 1870, but I don't believe she made it to Iredell. Perhaps she rests near the Ledbetters. 

The descendants of Nancy (perhaps Hatley) Whitley and Isham (probably) Whitley were:

A) Mary Whitley born about 1824. Unmarried. Two children.

1) Talitha Jane Whitley, born about 1856. Married John Alexander Springer, son of Israel Springer and Margaret Malinda Springer Whitley on December 121882, in Iredell County. Died February 28, 1920 in Mount Ulla, Rowan County. 

2) William Alexander Whitley, born April 8, 1868 in Stanly County. Married 1st Rebecca Louisa Helms, on April 6, 1887, in Iredell County, daughter of Austin H. Helms and wife, Melinda Williams Helms of New Salem, Union County NC. Nine children.

A)  Mary Melinda Whitley, born June 26, 1888. Unmarried. Lived for a few decades with her Aunt Telitha Jane Whitley Springer and her husband, John Alexander Springer, until their deaths. Died on May 28th, 1965 in Concord.

B) Delitha Jane Whitley born March 14, 1890. Married Walter Sanford Avery Livengood. Five children. Died August 29, 1969 in Kannapolis.

C) Carl Quitt Whitley born July 19, 1892. Married Alma McDaniel. Died June 10, 1972. 

D) John Adam Whitley born January 27, 1894. Died November 25, 1967  Unmarried.

E) Julia Estelle Whitley born March 9, 1986. Married Otho Stanhope Westmoreland. Died January 20, 1981.

F) Maggie Ann Whitley born on December 11, 1896. Died on June 19, 1961.

G) Arie Whitley born August 31, 1897. Married Dewey Hobson Meadows. Three children. Died December 9, 1961, in Morganton.

H) Lee Roy Whitley born October 11, 1900. Married Lottie Mae McDaniel. Two children.

I) Bertha Estelle Whitley born November 14, 1902. Married Ralph E. Rogers. Five children. Died May 4, 1896 Mooresville.

J) Louise Rebecca Whitley born February 19, 1905. Her mother died February 22, 1905, three days after her birth. Louise was given to John Alexander Springer and Talitha Jane Whitley Springer, her Aunt and Uncle, to raise. They were still her guardians upon her marriage. She married Clarence Thomas Wensil. Fifteen children. She died April 19, 1976.

Married second Caroline Helms Smith, the sister of his first wife. Two children.

K) James William Whitley born December 8, 1908. Married Viola May Walker. One son. He died on April 27, 1966.

L) Victor Mott Whitley born April 27, 1966. Married Evelyn Marshall. One daughter. Was raised by his brother Carl. Died on July 19, 2002.

B) Hardin W. 'Hardy' Whitley. Born about 1835. Married Bathsheba Whitley, daughter of Wylie Hatley and wife, Maza Billie Harwood. Two children: 

1) James Whitley, born about 1857. Died young, sometime after his mother in 1877.
2) Eva Ann Whitley, born September 17, 1861. Married John Wesley Austin. Eight children: Lula, Rufus, Thomas, Mollie, Henry, Jonah, Lucy, Mary.
Hardy died April 25, 1864, in Wilmington,NC, a Civil War Casualty.


C) William Pinkney Whitley was born about 1836. He married Margaret Malinda Springer, widow of Civil War Casualty, Israel Springer. No children for the couple, but he helped raise her son, John Alexander Springer. William P Whitley died on January 8, 1923, in Iredell County, NC. He is buried at the old Iredell County Home for the Sick and Aged. 

D) Zachary Taylor Whitley was born about 1849. He may have been the son of Mary, who was 21 when he was born, instead of Nancy, who was 52 when he was born, especially since Isham Whitley, whom I believe was his grandfather, died before 1847. Taylor died on April 12, 1865, in New Bern, NC at the Cedar Grove Cemetery, a Civil War Casualty. 

Every life has a story and every piece of the puzzle is important. Nancy Whitley was one piece. 



Addendum: I've discovered another piece of the puzzle. I now know the father of Telitha Jane Whitley. But that's another story for another day. 





Wednesday, June 17, 2020

Mary Whitley

My first encounter with a mysterious woman named Mary Whitley was when I was studying the story and tragic beginnings in life of Drucilla Beasley. Drucilla Beasley had been born in the Olive Branch community of Union County, North Carolina near the Anson and Union County border. Her mother was a young woman named Martha Beasley, known as "Patsy".

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Patsy was the daughter of John Beasley and lived alone with her infant daughter in a cabin on the corner of her father's property. Pasty had been disgraced by the birth of her child out of wedlock. The baby's father was one Thomas Nash, son of Walker and Edna Nash. It's recorded that he was a blonde, good looking young man. Tom apparently frequented the home of Patsy Beasley, but would not marry her. About a year afer the birth of their daughter, Drusilla, His attention had been captured by a different lass, a girl named Mary, maiden name unknown. Mary had refused his attentions based on his ongoing sexual relations with his "baby momma", Patsy Beasley. Tom had confessed to Mary that he would get rid of that obstacle. And he did, quite savagely, Tom Nash had murdered Patsy Beasley.


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He had found Patsy, as the story goes, washing clothes at a spring. From the scene later discovered by neighbors, they assumed she had decided to do the laundry while the baby napped, as she was found crawling around the cabin unharmed. Patsy had been shot and stomped and her head bashed in with a large stone. It was a particularly grievous crime. One can imagine him shooting her first, and as his aim was bad and had merely wounded her, he either beat her first and then attacked her with the stone while she was down, or he knocked her unconscious with the stone and then proceded to stomp on her lifeless body.

He was soon found out and jailed, having given his guilt away at Jerusalem Church and having had admitted his plot to rid himself of the obstacle, Patsy, to win Mary's heart, to Mary. It took 3 or 4 years of delays and appeals and bouncing the trial from county to county because so many were tainted against Tom Nash, his right to a fair trial was hindered.

In 1964, in the Rowan County newspaper, The Salisbury Post, a staff reporter named Heath Thomas gave an account of the story of Patsy Beasley's murder for the Sunday, April 12 edition of the newspaper. This rendition has been attached to the profile of Tom and Patsy on ancestry.com by user billieranson from an account by Dee Austin Creech quoting the 1964 article. Below is the mention of Mary Whitley, as given in this account. She went on after the romantic leanings of murderer Tom Nash, to marry someone else, an unknown Mr. Whitley, and was expecting her first child.



C.W. Wooly, Clerk of Montgomery Superior Court on February 25, 1846. Clerk Wooly also ordered the prisoner be returned to Wadesboro, and that he be returned to Troy on the last Monday in August 1846. At the August term at Troy, Judge Thomas Little was on the bench and Robert Strange again filled the role of prosecutor. This time it was the state that asked for a continuance. John Beasley (Patsy's father) made oath that Mary Whitley was a material witness for the state, by whom he expected to prove admissions of the defendant that he was guilty of the murder. Mary, it was pointed out, had attended prior sessions, but was then in a state of pregnancy, "so far advanced as to render it very unsafe for her to attend the present term of court." Beasley also swore that he had recently learned that Henry Marshall of Stanly County was a material witness by whom he expected to prove that Nash admitted to Marshall that he had killed the Beasley girl. John Beasley made the affidavit on September 2, 1846. It was then ordered by the court that Thomas Nash be committed to the custody of Col. George D. Boggan, sheriff of Anson, who was to keep the prisoner in Wadesboro until the next term of Montgomery County Superior Court, the first Monday of February, 1847. Thomas Nash made an oath that A. Kael Burger would be a material witness for him in this trial of this cause, that he had been summoned and was absent without the consent of the affiant, who expected to prove by him that the gun of the prisoner was in the same condition on the 1st of August, 1844, as it was on the 5th of August, and that prisoner was not within two miles of the place where Martha Patsy Beasley was killed, between the hours of 10 o'clock in the forenoon and 2 o'clock in the afternoon, on the day of her alleged death. This affiant further swore that on his arrest upon the charge, he was carried before a justice of the peace before whom the examination was taken and many witnesses were examined on the part of the State, whose testimony was reduced to writing by the said examining magistrate; this defendant was informed and believes that the said examining magistrate; this defendant was informed and believes that the said examination was regular and was returned to the clerk's office of the Superior Court of the County of Anson and he could not come safely to trial without the benefit of said evidence. So Nash was ordered back to Wadesboro once more to wait the August term of Montgomery County Superior Court. At last in August, 1847, Thomas Nash was put on trial for the murder of a woman who had died more than three years before.




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So, who was Mary Whitley? While over the years in Anson County and most espcially, in neighboring Stanly County, there were a few Mary Whitley's, only one would have been the right age for this Mary, and she had been pregnant in 1847. The others were either far to young or far too old, or were not yet born at all.




Name:Mary Whittey
Gender:Female
Age:31
Birth Year:abt 1819
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1850:Lanesboro, Anson, North Carolina, USA
Cannot Read, Write:Y
Line Number:32
Dwelling Number:1101
Family Number:1101
Household Members:
NameAge
Mary Whittey31
Sarah Whittey7
Rosa Whittey5
James Whittey3






Mary first appears in the 1850 census, alone with her 3 children,  Sarah, Rosa and James, in Lanesboro in Anson County. She is sandwiched between the family of Joseph J Williams and that of his older son. One might think she may have been a daughter of his, but she isn't. He does have a widowed daughter named Mary living with him and she had married an Allen.

I looked into land records involving Joseph Williams to see if there is any mention of a neighbor named Whitley, and there is not.

The only Whitley mentioned in the 1840 census of Anson County, the one before Mary would have gotten married is a Henry Whitley and he clearly already had a family. In 1830, there is Henry and Allen Whitley. I found this information on Allen and Henry Whitley.

Allen Whitley was born in 1806 in North Carolina. A birthdate of October 10 is given for him. On November 25, 1820, at the age of 19, he purchased land in Anson County from Thomas Trull. Four years later, at the age of 23, he married Mary Ann Price, age 15, and daughter of Abraham and Ester Price. In 1830, the couple is shown next door to her parents. On November 18, 1835. Allen Whitley sells the property to Daniel Sneed. The deed is witnessed by Henry Whitley and David Webb. It is believed that Henry and Daniel were brothers, or some other way related.


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Allen moves to Roswell, Cobb County, Georgia. Henry is found in Cherokee County, Georgia in 1850 and then later moves to Fayette County, Alabama where he remains until his death in 1881. He has a large family with a wife named Nancy, who was his contemporary, so he was not the husband of Mary Whitley, although a relative of his could have been. As Henry was born in 1793, he may have even had a son who was old enough to have married Mary.

This set of Whitley's originated in Nash County, in fact ,there seems to have been a very close connection between the Whitley's and the Nashes of Nash County and those of Anson County.  In fact, in the Allen Whitley deed was noted that the property adjoined that of Richard Nash.

And then there was Exodus. Exodus Whitley, through grants and census records, clearly lived in Montgomery County, North Carolina. A petition drawn up by the citizens of Montgomery County in 1811 asking to be annexed into Cabarrus County, due to the dangers of having to cross the Pee Dee River in order to go to Court and take care of business, asked that the annexed section include those on the West Side of the River, which eventually became Stanly County, down to Exodux Whitley's ford on the Rocky River.

This meant that Exodus Whitley lived on the (now) Stanly County side of the Pee Dee River, along the Rocky River just across the Anson County border, near the edge of the county.

He had two deeds, however, recorded in Anson County. In the first one, he made a purchase of a tract on Cedar Branch from Daniel Hinson. It's noted that Exodus Whitley was from Montgomery County and Daniel HInson from Anson. Dated March 29, 1809, the property bordered John Robbins property and went to the Gurley's corner stake. I had already researched the Gurleys and may be related to John Robbins, so I am familiar with  the general location of this property. It consisted of 150 acres and also bordered the Phillips property. Steven Whitley and Benjamin Grey were witnesses.

The second deed, in Book Y Page 472 is even more interesting. On October 28th, 1833, 24 years after he bought the property on Cedar Branch, Exodus Whitley sold it to Walker Nash. Exodus was still described as being from Montgomery County and Walker Nash from Anson. It was the same property in the same dimensions, still bordering the lines of John Robbins, Phillips and Gurley's corner. It was signed by Exodus Whitley and witnessed by Isham Whitley and Wyatt Nance.


What makes this interesting is the association of persons. Walker Nash was the father of Tom Nash who murdered Patsy Beasley and at whose trial Mary Whitley was called to testify. Wyatt Nance was the father of Robert Nance who would marry Mary Whitley's daughter, Sarah. It would make perfect sense that Mary Whitley was somehow related to this group of  Whitley's, due to the fact of the spot she landed and is shown is for 4 census records, being the only Whitley around, nearly. Addison Whitley shows up in Union County, later and supposedly the son of George Whitley. From what I've seen online, George and Exodus were brothers, but I've not done a great deal of research on it myself, so I couldn't swear by it.


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I had decided Exodus Whitley deserved a closer look. He recieved 5 Land Grants in Montgomery County, with the first being 50 acres on the West Side of the PeeDee River (now Stanly County), in 1790,and two in 1795 being described as being on Stillwater Creek. Stillwater Creek is now known as Island Creek and empties in to the Rocky River at the site of Old Nance's Mill. Remember the property in Anson bordering that of Wyatt Nance?


He recieved a 4th Grant in 1802 on the Rocky River and the 5th and last one in 1820 on the Rocky River. 


Name:Exodus Whitley
Home in 1800 (City, County, State):Montgomery, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - Under 10:1 1790-1800
Free White Persons - Males -10 thru 15:1 1785-1790
Free White Persons - Males - 16 thru 25:2  1775-1784
Free White Persons - Males - 45 and over:1 Exodus- born before 1755
Free White Persons - Females - Under 10:1 1790 - 1800
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 15:2  1785 - 1790
Free White Persons - Females - 45 and over:1 Wife- born before 1755
Number of Household Members Under 16:5
Number of Household Members Over 25:2
Number of Household Members:9



Exodus Whitley first appears in the 1800 census of Montgomery County, NC, wherein the oldest male in the Household is over 45, meaning he was born in 1755 or earlier. Right next to him is a Cager Whitley, (the nickname for Micajah), a much younger man. They live right next to James Gurley.

Name:Cager Whitley
Home in 1800 (City, County, State):Montgomery, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - Under 10:1
Free White Persons - Males - 16 thru 25:1 1775-1784
Free White Persons - Females - 16 thru 25:1 1775-1784
Number of Household Members Under 16:1
Number of Household Members:3

Exodus appears in the 1800 - 1830 census records. In the 1810, he is still listed as over 45 and near him is a young man named Needham Whitley. Up the page just a little is an older Needham Whitley, with George Springer appearing between that older Needham and a Titus Whitley and Patsy Whitley right next to him, most likely a widow. Below Exodus Whitley and young Needham is Bryant Austin, an ancestor of mine who lived on the Rocky River below Oakboro, and James Gurley. I've done research on James Gurley and he obviously owned property on both sides of the Rocky River in Anson and Stanly. The property that Exodus had bought in Anson bordered that of James Gurley and he will come up again in a minute. Just below them, you find Cager Whitley and a new one, Jonathan Whitley, listed side by side. Keep going and some distance down is not one, but two,George Whitleys, but all within two pages.

Name:Exodus Whittey
[Eadus Whitley] 
Home in 1810 (City, County, State):Wagster, Montgomery, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - 10 thru 15:1795-1800
Free White Persons - Males - 45 and over:1 Exodus before 1765
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 15:1 1795-1800
Free White Persons - Females - 16 thru 25:2 1785-1794
Number of Household Members Under 16:2
Number of Household Members Over 25:1
Number of Household Members:5
In 10 years, the family of Exodus Whitley went from 9 members to 5. There is no longer an older lady, presumably his wife, in the household. The same 3 younger females, (daughters), match up exactly in a decade progression from the 1800 census, but only the youngest son is left at home. The younger Needham and Jonathan could possibly be sons of Exodus.


Name:Cager Whittey
[Cager Whitley] 
Home in 1810 (City, County, State):Wagster, Montgomery, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - Under 10:3
Free White Persons - Males - 16 thru 25:1 1785-1794
Free White Persons - Females - Under 10:1
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 15:1
Free White Persons - Females - 16 thru 25:1
Number of Household Members Under 16:5
Number of Household Members:7

Again, Cager is still a young man and living close to Exodus in 1810. There are several children in his household.
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In the late 1700's and early 1800's, a Palantine immigrant from Pennsylvania migrated to this area named John Melchor. Instanly, I began to wonder if he was a relation to Mathias Melchor who settled in Stanly County near Albemarle. John Melchor operated a Grist Mill on the Rocky River in what is now Cabarrus County, but was, in the beginning, part of Mecklenburg. He also ran a country store neat the current village of Mount Pleasant. Portions of his account still exists and can be found online in the archives. The names in the book cover a wide range of territory with citizens of Anson, Cabarrus, Mecklenburg, Stanly, Rowan and Union Counties being his customers. In 1794-1796, he makes the first mention of Exodus Whitley in this area, along with Titus Whitley and George Whitley "Jr.". I've seen it written that these 3 were brothers. That, I don't know, but they were contemporaries.Neighbors of Exodus Whitley are also named in the book, like Richard, Killis and Martin Almond, "Andy" Bird, Harbard Suggs and James and Jacob Gurley.Exodus Whitley is listed in the book in association with a Thomas Motley.Titus Whitley made a purchase for  a "Mainor". George Whitley is designated as "Jr.", indicating the older George Whitley, said to be the father of these three, was alive.

I mention this because Jonathan Whitley, who makes his first appearance in the 1810 census next to Cager Whitley, is shown as a young man under 25 with a young wife and 3 little girls. 

Name:Jonathan R Whitley
Gender:Male
Bond date:23 Aug 1813
Bond Place:Mecklenburg, North Carolina, USA
Spouse:Jane Price
Spouse Gender:Female
Event Type:Bond

A Jonathan R. Whitley is shown as marrying a Jane Price in 1813 in Mecklenburg County. The surname Price will reappear later. The bondsman was B. Wilson Davidson. Addison Whitley, who would later live in Union County and is thought to be a son of George Whitley II, also married in Mecklenburg County to Samira Medlin.



Cager Whitley the younger, would move to Walton County, Georgia. Several other of the Whitleys did too, like James and Nathaniel.There was an older Micajah Whitley from Wayne County, who was a Revolutionary War soldier. He lived in Wayne County and left a will there about 1835. It's quite possible he was the older "Kager" in the 1810 census, and had returned to Wayne.There is no surviving 1820 census for Montgomery County. It was probably lost in one of the many courthouse fires. Jumping ahead to 1830, the Whitley family had grown, so much that a portion of Stanly County, around the area George Whitley settled, was known as "Whitley". 
There's a young Zachariah Whitley living near Thomas Motley, Jr.. Not far is a Thomas Whitley, Isham Whitley, George Whitley and Needham Whitley. A second Needham Whitley, designated as "SR." is on the next page living near Bryant Austin, Esq. Exodus is not far behind. James Gurley is no longer listed, but David Gurley is.Thomas Castle and Henry Manuel, supposedly their kin, are listed on the next page, along with John Whitley. William Whitley is living near the Almonds and Solomon Burris. Lastly an 80 plus year old George Whitley is living near John Gilbert, the bondsman for Addison Whitley and Silvia Springer, who will be mentioned again shortly.In the two deeds in Anson County involving Exodus Whitley, Isham Whitley signs as a witness in the first deed in 1809, while a Stephen Whitley signs as witness in the later one. 

Name:Stephen Whitley
Home in 1810 (City, County, State):Anson, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - 16 thru 25:1
Free White Persons - Females - Under 10:2
Free White Persons - Females - 16 thru 25:1
Number of Household Members Under 16:2
Number of Household Members:4


While Isham is in Montgomery (Stanly) in 1830, Stephen is in Anson, and I have came across him before in my Gurley Research. 

Name:Stephen Whitley
Gender:Male
Age:68
Birth Year:abt 1782
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1850:Division 12, Cass, Georgia, USA
Occupation:Laborer
Industry:Industry not reported
Cannot Read, Write:Y
Line Number:24
Dwelling Number:80
Family Number:80
Household Members:
NameAge
Stephen Whitley68
Unity Whitley54
Lucinda Whitley20
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Stephen Whitley married Unity Gurley, daughter of Jacob Gurley and is mentioned in his will. They later migrate to Cass County, Georgia.  In 1840, no Whitley's are in Anson County. In Montgomery, Exodus Whitley is no more. He died between 1830 and 1840 and no will is found. As Montgomery is a burned county, he may have had one. 
Although many of the young Whitleys had migrated away to take that gene pool onward to Georgia and Alabama, many remained in what was soon to become Stanly County. Green D. Whitley makes his first appearance near the Burris and Tucker clans.A cluster of Whitleys appear near the Cagles and Bryant Austin still. There's George, Neeham, Jr., with Isham 'Isam' in this appearance, right next door, and Allison.A different cluster involves Edmund Whitley, near the Castles and Henry Lowder. The Castles were relatives as a Martha Castles supposedly married George Whitley I, father of George II, Titus and Exodus. Also in this cluster is William Whitley, Sr and Mary Whitley, an older lady of 70 +, living with a man about 40 named J or G Mills.Nash County | PoliticsNC

I've definitely got to do more Whitley explorations, for a number of reasons. One, I've found that I share DNA with several descendants of a Meredith "Mereday" Whitley from Nash County, NC. Second, I share DNA with the descendants of the only Grandchild of Mary Whitley, the main subject of this post. Although I have no rock solid Whitley ancestry in my family tree, as of yet, I have two viable possibilities.I discovered that a lady named Fannie Robbins, widow of Isham Robbins, who had a close relationship with my ancestor, John Honeycutt, was born a Whitley and was a sister of George II. I believe that she was the mother of John Honeycutt's wife, Sylvia. Some have Sylvia pegged as a Cagle, and while the couple was a neighbor of some Cagles, my leanings are with her being a Robbins.The other possible connection is that of my 5th Great Grandmother, Piety (seen as "Phida" in the 1850 census) Lambert, maiden name unknown. Her husband, Elder John Lambert, was a resident of Johnston County, North Carolina before arriving to the area of Stanly County known as "Lambert". His connection as a Primitive Baptis Minister was under the tutelage of a Rev. Whitley in Johnston County and those Whitleys are related to the Stanly County Whitleys. In fact, some of them became Stanly County Whitleys. He also lived near a Drury Honeycutt, and of course, the Honeycutts also arrived, en masse, to Stanly County. If I took bets on what Piety's maiden name was, which I may never know for sure, my bets would be on either Whitley or Honeycutt.


While most of the Whitleys that pop up in 1840 or 1850 are attributed to George, Exodus Whitley definately had children. I believe Stephen Whitley was his, and we know he married Unity Gurley. But I also believe Isham and Cager the younger was probably his as well, and probably Johnathan.Where Mary Whitley of Anson County shows up and the Nash connection points me to the family of Exodus Whitley as her most likely origins. And the one Whitley who disappears between 1840 and 1850, who witnessed a deed with Exodus Whitley, and who doesn't pop up in another state, was Isham.So there is my theory of Mary Whitley. It's going to take a great deal more digging on my part before it is anything more than a substantive theory, but I believe Mary may have been the second wife of Isham Whitley. He most definately had a first one, and all of Mary's children were born after the murder of Patsy Beasley in 1844 and before she is alone with her three children in 1850.

Name:Mary Whitley
Age:40
Birth Year:abt 1820
Gender:Female
Birth Place:North Carolina
Home in 1860:Diamond Hill, Anson, North Carolina
Post Office:Ansonville
Dwelling Number:133
Family Number:133
Personal Estate Value:25
Household Members:
NameAge
Mary Whitley40
Sarah Whitley15
Rosa Whitley13
James Whitley11
Wm Thomson18

We last saw Mary in 1850 with her 3 children as youngesters. In 1860, we see her with them as teens. She has a laborer named William Thompson living with her.
Over the next decade, both daughters marry. Sarah will become the second wife of Robert Nance, a much older man with a large family. Robert was the son of Wyatt Nance.Rosa will marry Andrew Jackson Newton, son of David and Rosanna Haire Newton.There is no further trace of James Whitley. He may have been the 17 year old James Whitley killed in the Civil War, although he would have been too young, and more like 14 that year. Of course, many a young soldier had lied about their ages. If he were large enough to pass as older, it's possilbe, but I have no way to certify this and so all I know is that he disappears from record without trace.

Name:May Whitley
Age in 1870:49
Birth Year:abt 1821
Birthplace:North Carolina
Dwelling Number:91
Home in 1870:New Salem, Union, North Carolina
Race:White
Gender:Female
Post Office:Beaver Dam
Occupation:At Home
Cannot Write:Y
Household Members:
NameAge
Robert L Nance62
Sarah Nance25
Sarah M Nance15
William Nance12
Colin M Nance10
Joseph H Nance6
May Whitley49

By 1870, Mary Whitley is living in the home of her daughter, Sarah Nance, with her son-in-law Robert Nance and his children. Sarah was not the mother of any of them, just the stepmother.

Name:Mary Whitley
Age:58
Birth Date:Abt 1822
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1880:New Salem, Union, North Carolina, USA
Dwelling Number:339
Race:White
Gender:Female
Relation to Head of House:Self (Head)
Marital status:Widowed
Father's Birthplace:North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:North Carolina
Occupation:Keeps House
Cannot Write:Yes
Neighbors:
Household Members:
NameAge
Mary Whitley58
Sarah E. Nance34

By 1880, Sarah is a young widow and she and her mother Mary are living in New Salem together.Daughter Rosie Whitley Newton passed away before 1874, when her husband remarries to his cousin, Sarah. She had one son, James David Newton.Sarah Whitley Nance passed away in 1882 at the age of 36, leaving a will and leaving everything to her nephew, James David Newton.It is quite possible that Mary Whitley outlived all of her children, however, she did not make it to 1900. The only grandchild she had that I can discover was J. D. Newton, and sometimes that is all you need to march into the future.I am very curious to Mary's origins because several of the descendants of her grandson share DNA with me and as of yet, I can't determine how. Not Yet.