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Tuesday, August 25, 2026

Thirty Fathers in Thirty Days: Mathias Marriott

 


The Old Mill by Jacob Alfred Miller




The surname of Marriott entered my family tree with the marriage of Henry Davis and Mary Marriott, who became my 7th Great Grandparents. Mary was the daughter of  William Marriott and Sarah Collier Marriott, daughter of Thomas Collier, my 8th Great Grandparents. William was the son of Mathias Marriott and his wife, Alice, my 9th Great Grand parents and Matthias is the subject of this post.

The name has French origins and means literally "Little Mary" or "son of Mary". It originated with French Huguenots, a group of Protestants who held to Calvinist, or Reformed, Protestant values and traditions. They arrived in England by the 12th Century, when the first recorded Marriott (in its varying forms) was Hervicus Mariot who was found in a listed in the Register of Knight Templar for Warwickshire.

The clip above was shared anonymously on Find-A-Grave from a list of Surry County individuals receiving acreage for the transportation of British settlers to Virginia. Mathias Marriott and his partner, Thomas Hart, received 338 acres of the north side of Blackwater Swamp for transporting seven people from England to Virginia. The land bordered the property of George Blow.







Blackwater Swamp is in the headwater section of the Blackwater River. It begins in Prince George County, flows southeast through Surry and forms borders with Sussex and Isle of Wight, Virginia before crossing into North Carolina. It's a beautiful, but not particularly navigable or profitable area for the early colonists to plant farms. Mathias Marriott became a miller.



From "Early Virginia Families Along the James River: Their Deep Roots and Tangled Branches Vol. III  Louise Pledge Heath Foley

These were the first generations spreading south, west and north out of Jamestown, in someways still inextricably tied to Jamestown. The growth spread like wildfire. Mathias Marriott and his partner Thomas Hart had received that first tract of land in 1672 for transporting William Jellett or Gilette, John and Richard Booth, an unnamed African couple, and two women, Ann January and Alice Price.  Ten years later, in 1782, Robert Caufiled was granted a parcel of 2250 acres, with record of a trail of cadaster from George Blow in 1664 to Mathias Marriott and Thomas Hart in 1672, those before and said 'deserted', meaning they no longer were in possession of this particular property. Why had Marriott & Hart deserted this particular parcel?  Was it dangerous or untamed? Caufield had transported 26 people including "Jacob, an Indian" and "James, a negro" and  Thomas Turner, someone I'm looking at to see if he is the same possible ancestor in another line. 


Mathias Marriott was the son of a William Marriott of Swan's Point, Surry County, Virginia, and I elaborate a little more later on. His date of birth is given as anywhere from 1641 to 1645, with 1644 being given the most often. Sometime during the 1660's, most likely the latter part of the decade, he married Alice Warren, daughter of Col. Thomas Warren, Esquire. I have Warren ancestry through Henry Davis who married Mary Marriott, Mathias's granddaughter, and also, this line through Mary, herself. Whatever the actual marriage, date, we know it preceded 1670.

In the above record from 'Surry County Records" compiled by Eliza Timberlake Davis, Baltimore, on page 377, is found a September 1670 record of an indenture by Mrs. Jane Warren, the widow (seen as 'relict') of Thomas Warren, "late of Surry County, Virginia, deceased, " and "Mathais" Marriott, who had married their daughter, Alice (Alyse) Warren, "ye only sister by ye whole blood unto Wm. (William) Warren, deceased and sonne (son) To ye aforesaid Thos. (Thomas) Warren.'  Apparently Mathias and his mother-in-law, Jane, were not in agreement on the division of property after the death of Thomas Warren Senior. "controversie and variance" the document called it.  Jane was given her due and a stipulation was made that if she or Thomas Jr. (sonne of above said Thomas Warren and Jane his wife) should die before Thomas reached the age of maturity, twenty-one, their portions are to go to the youngest son, named William, and when he died to the heirs of Mathias and his wife, Alice Warren Marriott.


The inheritance was listed as 1667 pounds of legal tobacco, casks, a white mare and her foal, a bed, a gold ring, a castor hat from the estate of William and the full share of a child. Jane, the widow. was given one third of the value of the house, orchards, and estate and Mathias was allowed his own share of the crop of wheat. It was signed Jane Warren, Mathias Marriott, George and Gertrude Watkins, neighbors.




The above clip from the same book, just down the page, leads in with an entry that mentions a Major Marriott on the west side of Besse's Swamp. I don't believe this is Mathias, but his father, William. However, two entries later, we see that on February 24, 1670, John Hunnicutt and Elizabeth Warren had contracted to enter marriage. Witnesses were John Corker and Jane Warren. This was the sister of Alice Warren, and the Jane signing as witness, the widow of Thomas Warren. Elizabeth, who'd received a small inheritance from her father, had suddenly became more marriageable and John Hunnicutt was an opportunist. The Hunnicutt family was an early and expansive one. I don't know it the descendants of this couple were among those who would populate our area of North Carolina, but it is certainly possible. The river of migration flowed in the right direction.





At the bottom of the page is a mention of James Stradling being indebted to William Marriott, father of Mathias. He owed 755 lbs. of tobacco. There were also some random, yet interesting entries that simply told of the details of life at the time in early Virginia. A 19 year old boy testified of the hogs on Hog Island. Had they been placed there for keeping, or were they wild hogs? Also, the body of a man, who had been dead a long time was found in the river. Who was he? Was he English? Had foul play been involved?



On the next page, which ventures into the year 1671, we find the entry stating John Hunnicutt, brother-in-law now of Mathias Marriott, had been given Elizabeth's 'due portion' of the estate of her father, Thomas Warren Sr. by Mathias. Jane Warren is mentioned and George Watkins was witness. The lead in was concerning a Hannah Davis, servant to 'ye Watkins', maybe or maybe not, George. She came to court to testify about her child. What issue about the child was not explained.


Another page over, in 1672, Mathias Marriott sold to George Watkins a man named "Kie". This shows that slavery had began. There were two types of servants, slaves and bond servants. The lead-in mentioned a servant boy with two and a half years remaining in servitude to the Allen family name Edward Welbanks. I hope Edward made it. Only one in ten child servants made it to adulthood and freedom. They were worked hard and fed poorly, sometimes abused. If they fell sick, their recovery was rare, due to lack of treatment, cleanliness, and nutrition. A few were treated like family, and those were the most likely to survive. 



A preserved Colonial Sawmill


In a list of Surry County Proprietors of Surry County is found the name of Mathias Marriott. It was located, "within one mile of the courthouse on the head of Grey's Creek.'  Marriott's Mill was located at Wier Neck, Gray's Creek, Surry County. 


Location of Gray's Creek across from Jamestown



- From the Virginia Gazette (Dixon) October 23, 1779:

"To commence from the first day of Jany 1780, at which time possession will be given, the plantation whereupon the late Mr. Mathias Marriott formerly lived, lying in Surry County, within one mile of the courthouse on the head of Gray's Creek...The sawmill with her appurtenances and a 25 hogshead flat for the use of the sawmill will be included in the lease of his plantation. "Virginia Gazette (Dixon), 23 October 1779, 1:2

His sawmill was so sturdy it would survive him for decades.

While Mathias's year of birth is assumed to have been between 1641 and 1645, that of his wife Alice is known to have been 1645, as she gave her age as 32 in a 1677 deposition. 

Mathias and Alice were the parents of five known (some debatable) children:

Margaret Marriott Flake (1673-1722) Married Robert Flake III

Elizabeth Marriott Mizell Hill (1676-1738) Married Luke Mizell 1st, then Robert Hill, son of Sion Hill

"Marion" Marriott Cripps (1679-1767) Married William Cripps (Matthias's Will names her as "Marriott Cripps, not Marion). 

Rachel Marriott Browning (abt. 1680-?) Married Francis Browning

William Marriott (1688-1767) Married Sarah Collier

William (my line) was the only son.

Some include a daughter, Alice, who married a William Gwaltney. She was instead a granddaughter, daughter of Margaret Marriott Flake. (See lineage at end of post)


Among appearing in other lists of early Virginia colonists, and Surry County records, the family Matthias Marriott and Alice Warren Marriott are also among the descendants of Charlemagne. 


While interesting, this is not rare among anyone who can trace their family lines back to Jamestown. Charlemagne currently has an army of descendants, and any Warren line carries this honor. This brings us to face with a few horrifically sad facts. Many poor families came to unfruitful ends, not having the ways and means to support growing, healthy children who would grow up to propagate. Many of the settlers in the new world, and Jamestown in particular, were the families of younger sons of the landed gentry. Oldest brothers were heirs to the estate, and the younger sons had to seek their fortunes elsewhere. They were, however, not without resources. Many would transport servants and the indentured and endured the same harsh winters, Native attacks and diseases that the disenfranchised and bonded servants did, but they had better accommodations, skills and education, and they ate better, so their offspring were the more abundant and viable. 


One of the earliest records of Matthias in Surry was when he was called to serve on a jury in 1665.  He was called for an inquisition into the death of a young boy, an indentured servant of a man named Ralph Coats. In the end they found that the child had died a natural death. Mathias would have had to have been over 21 at the time to serve on the Jury or born before 1644.

In a timeline of Matthias Marriott's name appearing in court record we next find:

1669- He appears on the list of tithable or taxable citizens with himself and two other people, one of which was a slave.

1670- Matthias was in court in an argument with his mother-in-law, Jane. Jane was an incredible woman. One must keep in mind that women often married very early in these days. Life expectancy was brief, childbirth was dangerous and marriage was often a game played by the parents of a couple that involved inheritances and fortunes and associations. It was not uncommon for a 15-year-old girl to be married to a 48-year-old man. Widows still in their child-bearing years were encouraged to remarry quickly and men with young children often sought a wife to aid in their care quickly, as well.  

Jane Allen had first married a man named John King. After he died, she married Thomas Warren, Sr. on January 1, 1659, at the age of 29.  She married a third time to Samuel Plaw in 1669 at the age of 39. She had three sons, all of them with Thomas Warren: Thomas Jr., Robert Sr. and Allen Warren. Some attribute Elizabeth Plaw, daughter of her third husband, Samuel Plaw, to Jane, but that would be a little disgusting. Elizabeth Plaw would become the wife of Thomas Warren Jr. While stepsibling marriages were not uncommon, as life was short and women were few in those days, but not half-sibling marriages. I would then propose that Elizabeth Plaw was the daughter of a previous marriage of Samuel Plaws, not Jane's child. 

Jane was not Alice's mother. She was Thomas Warren's second wife, as he was her second in exchange. His first wife was Elizabeth Spencer, daughter of William Spencer and Alice Lightfoot. Elizabeth had been previously married to a Robert Shepherd but had married Thomas Warren on September 23, 1654. She was the mother of Alice Warren Marriott, William Warren and Elizabeth Warren Hunnicutt. Also, by her first husband, Anne, John, Robert and William Shepherd. 

In 1670, Jane Allen Warren Plaw and Matthias Marriott had a dispute involving the division of the estate of Thomas Warren, which had been burdened with a number of stipulations, one that had also involved the estate of William Warren, son of Thomas Sr. To solve the issue, a slave or servant by the name of Thomas was to remain in the servitude and home of the Marriotts. The next year, 1671, is when Matthias sold the slave he was likely taxed for in 1669, named "Kie", or in some transcriptions, "Kid", to his friend, George Watkins.

1672- September 4th - Matthias Marriot was found in Contempt of Court. The "Act of the Assembly" was awash with inane rules, one of which forbid servants from walking willy-nilly about town, or anywhere really, on Sunday, typically their only day off. He had given his man, "Thomas", a note, "to go abroad on Sunday, he having no business, also he rendered scurrilous language (Matthias) to the Court both yesterday and to-day". Boy, I'm sourcing the renowned Davis temper that our genomes still carry to this day further and further back. Matthias was fined 200 lbs. of tobacco, the favored currency of the time, and costs. 

1673- Matthias and his wife, Alice sold to John Salway on Jul 23rd, a tract of land that had been inherited by her brother, William, from their father, Thomas, and upon William's death, to her.





1674- Mathias again appears in the list of Tithables, with someone named N. Witherington and one slave, probably Thomas. 



Now, here is where it gets a little confusing.




1675- Matthias Marriott barters the services of one Thomas Boggs, his "manservant" , as security, to Nicholas Meriwether for a debt owed. Now, from previous records, we know Matt had a slave named Thomas. We know from the tax list, that Thomas had to have been black, as his slave was referred to as "Negro", a Spanish word for black, that was used archaically to refer to someone of African origin. In later records, it appears that Thomas Boggs was freed from services and lived as a white man, so there must have been two Thomas's, Thomas Boggs, an indentured servant and an English or Irishman, and Thomas, an enslaved man of African origin.



In 1679, Mathias is listed with two taxables, the other being Thomas Boggs, above.





In 1680, Thomas Boggs is a free man and responsible for his own tithes, or taxes. There is a Mizell next to him, whereas Matthias's daughter would marry a Luke Mizell, and a Charles Marriott, relation unknown, showing up in the household of Walther Flood (later Floyd).



Matthias Marriott is also one of the enumerators that year.

1683, Matthias is in a list of debtors to George Proctor. He is probably 40, or close to it by then.




This document also lists John Hunnicutt as a debtor to the same estate. 



It also mentions the estate of Major Marriott, which refers to Major William Marriott. While there is not one particular document that names Matthias as a son of Major William, there is a weight of circumstantial evidence that implies as much. There was about a three-decade age difference, multiple connections, and locational proximity, for the support of it. 

1688 Matthias is alone as a taxable. No more slaves or indentured servants in his home. His children and in-laws may have been able to provide labor by then, the oldest entering their twenties. 

1695- Things were quite for a number of years until Matthias received a small stipend for some service from the estate of Mary Ironmonger.

1696- Matthias must have been a good boss.


In July of 1696, he purchased land in Southwark Parish in conjunction with Thomas Boggs, his former servant. The land was from the estate of Christopher Lewis, consisted of 200 acres, and part of a grant to Christopher Lawson. James Stanton and Richard Hargrave were witnesses.


As an example of how small this community really was, and how interconnected its people, Jane Plaw, widow of Thomas Warren, Sr., is also mentioned on the same page.

As was Robert Flake (Flacke), who married the Marriotts daughter, Margaret.


The two entries also connect Alice Gwaltney with the Flakes, her parents.

Mathias Marriott died in 1707. He knew the end was near when he wrote his Will on June 12, 1707. It was probated on September 2, 1707, so he passed away sometime that summer between those two dates. Probably in August. He would have been around 65-66 years old. Life was hard.

1707



He left his soul (written 'soule') to God and named Alice, his wife as Executrix.


He required his debts to be paid and wanted all of his 'profits and commodities' to go to Alice, and upon her death or remarriage to go to his son, William. He left his land to William Marriott, his only son, with the stipulation that if William should die without issue, (heirs/children), then his share to go to his grandson Thomas Flake, son of Robert and Margaret Marriott Flake.





Everything else, not before stated to go to William, exceptions listed below that statement. He left a book of 'Deniry" to each of three listed daughters, Margaret Flake, Elizabeth Hill and Marriott Cripps.  Some have her as 'Marion' but it is clear to me in her father's will that it was Marriott. He also left for Elizabeth Marriott Hill a spotted rug, to go to her after the death of her mother. Witnesses were Samuel Thompson, William Humuford and Roger Williams.





One of the coolest things to me when I began climbing my family tree was to be able to see the actual signatures of these long-ago ancestors on the ancient documents. This is Matthias's signature from 319 years ago. 









Inventory of the estate of Matthias Marriott, November 1707.
 Matthias's estate was not much compared to today's capitalistic standards, which is a blessing to us all. But for these early years of scrapping the Virginia swamps, he did pretty well.  Listed was 4 cows, three heifers and one young steer, three calves and one small yearling. He had 32 old books, that must have been shipped over from England. There was the standard amount of furniture, beds, blankets and such, a pallet of pewter, candlesticks, mortar, pallets of wool and cotton, cookware, farming utensils, bridles and other horse-riding apparatus, three sheep, shearing utensils and pottery and poultry and one breeding cock. And several mules.


Descent from William Warren to Mary Marriott Davis


Below is the lineage of Alice Gwaltney to Thomas Warren.


The Order of Americans of Armorial Ancestry. Lineage of Members


Mathias was one of my earliest Virginian ancestors, and an ancestor of Job Davis


Friday, July 20, 2018

Bad Girls of Stanly County Part III: The Bigamist

Sarah Swaringen was not as active a participant in her journey to the Stanly County jail as the subjects in my first two "Bad Girls" series. She didn't run a brothel and party house, and she didn't make the papers. But what she had in common with Julia Ann Ross landed her in the hot seat.


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Sarah was born in Anson County, probably near the banks of the Rocky River, not far from the forks of the Rocky and Pee Dee rivers, near Norwood, NC. She was born Sarah Flake, daughter of Daniel Flake and his wife, Mary Cole Flake, aobut the year 1856.


Name:Sarah Flake
[Sarah Fowlks] 
[Sarah "Sallie" Flake] 
Age in 1870:14
Birth Year:abt 1856
Birthplace:North Carolina
Dwelling Number:88
Home in 1870:Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Race:Black
Gender:Female
Occupation:At Home
Cannot Read:Y
Cannot Write:Y
Inferred Father:D Flake
Inferred Mother:Mary Flake
Household Members:
NameAge
D Flake47
Mary Flake43
Ephraim Flake16
Sarah Flake14
Jane Flake10
Mary Flake5
William Flake2


She first shows up in the 1870 census, with an older brother, Ephraim and 3 younger siblings. Her father David was listed as a farmer, but had no property value, which probably meant he was working for another farmer, or perhaps share-cropping, as was common at the time. Perhaps he was working in conjunction with his neighbor John Hudson, who did have property, which puts him in the area of East Macedonia Church.


Name:Sallie Flake
[Sarah "Sallie" Flake] 
Age:24
Birth Date:Abt 1856
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1880:Center, Stanly, North Carolina, USA
Dwelling Number:20
Race:Black
Gender:Female
Relation to Head of House:Daughter
Marital Status:Single
Father's name:Daniel Flake
Father's Birthplace:North Carolina
Mother's name:Mary Flake
Mother's Birthplace:North Carolina
Occupation:Works On Farm
Cannot Read:Yes
Cannot Write:Yes
Neighbors:
Household Members:
NameAge
Daniel Flake60
Mary Flake55
Sallie Flake24
Willie Flake13
Tawnie Flake6
Ginnie Flake2


The 1880 census still shows Sarah as being born about 1856 and still living with her parents in Center Township, now a young adult. She, and her younger brother, Willie, were helping their father work the farm. None of them could read or write.




But Sarah's simple life as a farm girl was about to take a big change, when on February 6, 1882, 23 year old Sarah Flake, daughter of Daniel and Mary Flake, married 30 year old Charlie Tillman (Jr), son of Charlie and Jane Tillman.


The problem with that, was well, this is where Sarah Flake fell into the same category, was that Charlie Tillman had married Laura Ledbetter in Anson County, where he was originally from, on November 29, 1873, nearly ten years prior. The 1880 census showed Charlie and Laura as the parents of two children, already.

Name:Charles Tilmon
[Charles Tillman] 
Age:40
Birth Date:Abt 1840
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1880:Wadesboro, Anson, North Carolina, USA
House Number:145
Dwelling Number:241
Race:Black
Gender:Male
Relation to Head of House:Self (Head)
Marital Status:Married
Spouse's Name:Laura Tilmon
Father's Birthplace:North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:North Carolina
Occupation:Farming
Cannot Read:Yes
Cannot Write:Yes
Neighbors:
Household Members:
NameAge
Charles Tilmon40
Laura Tilmon30
Lucy Tilmon5
Mary Tilmon3/12


And Laura was not dead when Charlie and Sarah married in 1882. In fact, the 1900 census shows the couple still living together, and having had more children together as well.


Name:Chas Tillman
[Charles Tillman] 
[Char Tillman] 
Age:50
Birth Date:1850
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1900:Wadesboro, Anson, North Carolina
House Number:6
Sheet Number:7
Number of Dwelling in Order of Visitation:130
Family Number:131
Race:Black
Gender:Male
Relation to Head of House:Head
Marital Status:Married
Spouse's Name:Laura Tillman
Marriage Year:1877
Father's Birthplace:North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:North Carolina
Occupation:Farmer
Months not employed:0
Can Read:Yes
Can Write:No
Can Speak English:Yes
House Owned or Rented:O
Farm or House:F
Neighbors:
Household Members:
NameAge
Chas Tillman50
Laura Tillman45
Lucy Tillman22
Ellis Tillman16
Eliza Tillman10
Charles Tillman6


It's not clear if Charles and Sarah actually lived together, or if they did, how long. What is clear is that on October 29, 1884, just two years later, Sarah married Elizah or Elijah Swaringen, of Norwood. She forgot about one little thing, though, she forgot to obtain that complicated piece of paper better known as a "Divorce".





For her benefit, Sarah was probably just a simple country girl. The census records detail that she was uneducated. Her family was also not that far removed from a subculture, where, well, rules did not apply, as her death certificate would detail. Her parents, and Sarah herself, were born into slavery. Slaves were not held to the same social constrictions of marriages, divorces, and legal proceedings as freeborn persons. Then suddenly, they were freed, when Sarah was but an 8 year old girl. And just as suddenly, they were expected to "know all this stuff", to conform to the legal jigamorro that freeborn and better educated persons were expected to uphold. To go from "jumping the broom" to filing for divorce in a court of law. When you could not even read, how could you be expected to know the law?

Name:Elija Swaringin
Age:38
Birth Date:Abt 1842
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1880:Center, Stanly, North Carolina, USA
Dwelling Number:8
Race:Black
Gender:Male
Relation to Head of House:Self (Head)
Marital Status:Married
Spouse's Name:Anjaline Swaringin
Father's Birthplace:North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:North Carolina
Occupation:Farmer
Cannot Read:Yes
Cannot Write:Yes
Neighbors:
Household Members:
NameAge
Elija Swaringin38
Anjaline Swaringin37
Robert Swaringin16
James Swaringin10
Charley Swaringin7
Huston Swaringin2



To his credit, Elijah Swaringen had been married to his first wife, Angelina Huckabee, and had a few children already, but was a widower when he married Sarah Flake. Angelina seems to have died immediatly after the birth of her last child, Clarence.

It took a couple of years for someone to figure out that Sarah Flake/Tillman/Swearingen had more than one husband at a time.


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She was first brought to Superior Court at the Spring Term of 1886. She may have been to a lesser court before that, but I disc I am currently involved with was for Superior. She was charged with bigamy. The case would drag on for a few years.

In September of 1887:

State vs Sarah Swaringen - Bigamy
Continued for defendant for want of witness, Martha Bennett, ipus subpoena to Anson for witness Deft. recognized with David Flake as surety in the sum of $200 for her personal appearance at the next term of court and not depart the same without leave. 




Name:Martha Bennett
Age:35
Birth Date:Abt 1845
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1880:Ansonville, Anson, North Carolina, USA
Dwelling Number:394
Race:Black
Gender:Female
Marital Status:Widowed
Father's Birthplace:North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:North Carolina
Occupation:Servant
Cannot Read:Yes
Cannot Write:Yes
Neighbors:
Household Members:
NameAge
Martha Bennett35

Martha Bennett, Sarah's witness, lived in Ansonville.



Name:David Flake
Age:21
Birth Date:Abt 1859
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1880:Wadesboro, Anson, North Carolina, USA
Dwelling Number:117
Race:Black
Gender:Male
Marital Status:Single
Father's Birthplace:North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:North Carolina
Occupation:Laborer
Cannot Read:Yes
Cannot Write:Yes
Neighbors:
Household Members:
NameAge
David Flake21



David Flake, her bondsman, also lived in Wadesboro, and was close in age to Sarah. He may have been her brother.

The next time her case came up, Sarah was found guilty of Bigamy and given to the custody of the sheriff until the costs of court were paid.

Fall Session 1887  - State vs Sarah Swaringen 
Charge: Bigamy
Plead: Not Guilty

Jury called: 

T. S. Wright      W. A. Calvary
Jacob Shankle  F. F. Lowder
S. S. Lilly         Tillman Fesperman
F. W. Tally        C. A. Dry
John Smith      W. P. McLester
E. M. Osborne

Verdict: Guilty

Judgement suspended upon payment of costs. 
Defendant placed in custody of Sheriff

I was pretty certain, but I did a little background searching to be sure, but Sarah was judged by an all male, all white jury.

Sarah was by far not the only female sent to jail that day. Judge John A. Gilmer had sent quite a few ladies into the custody of the sheriff that session. Sarah Swarengen joined Catherine Bowers and Catherine Hinson, Mary Reap, Ella Yow, Ann Carpenter, Martha Almond and Phoebe, alias Neely, Huneycutt.

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Sarah's marriage to Charles Tillman was anulled, he having had a living wife when he married her. His case was remitted to Anson.

It appears that Sarah, after her experience on the wrong side of the law, returned to a life of married bliss with Elijah Swaringen, and became a mother.

Name:Sarah Swaringen
[Sarah "Sallie" Flake] 
Age:37
Birth Date:abt 1863
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1900:Center, Stanly, North Carolina
House Number:1
Sheet Number:25
Number of Dwelling in Order of Visitation:418
Family Number:427
Race:Black
Gender:Female
Relation to Head of House:Wife
Marital Status:Married
Spouse's Name:Eliga Swaringen
Marriage Year:1886
Father's Birthplace:North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:North Carolina
Mother: Number of Living Children:3
Mother: How Many Children:5
Can Read:Yes
Can Write:No
Can Speak English:Yes
Neighbors:
Household Members:
NameAge
Eliga Swaringen53
Sarah Swaringen37
Isabella Swaringen21
Clarence Swaringen18
Ella Swaringen16
Jackson Swaringen15
Adie Swaringen12
Froney Smith5


The 1900 census has the family living in Center, Elijah was a farmer and owned his own farm. What was even more encouraging was that all of the children could read and write. Sarah was noted as being the mother of 5 children, with 3 living. Those three would have been Ella, Jackson and Addie. Isabella and Clarence were the children of Elijah and first wife Angelina. Froney Smith was noted as being a daughter, but with a different last name, she was possibly an adopted daughter. The two that passed away may have been the two little girls in the 1880 census who were named as granddaughters of Daniel and Mary Flake. The couple was noted as having been married for 14 years, but it was actually more like 16.


Name:Sarah Swaingen
[Sarah "Sallie" Flake] 
[Sarah Swaringen] 
Age in 1910:53
Birth Year:abt 1857
Birthplace:North Carolina
Home in 1910:Center, Stanly, North Carolina
Street:The Old Concord Road
Race:Black
Gender:Female
Relation to Head of House:Wife
Marital Status:Married
Spouse's Name:Eliza Swaringen
Father's Birthplace:North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace:North Carolina
Native Tongue:English
Able to Read:No
Able to Write:No
Years Married:25
Number of Children Born:6
Number of Children Living:2
Neighbors:
Household Members:
NameAge
Eliza Swaringen68
Sarah Swaingen53
Jack Swaingen20
Ada Swaingen18





By 1910, Sarah was said to have been the mother of 6 children, with only two living, Jack (Jackson) and Ada (Addie). This would have  meant that Ella had died. But this was incorrect, as just the year before, Ella Swaringen, daughter of "Lige" and Sarah Swaringen married John Deberry, son of Jerry and Violet Deberry, on October 17, 1909. She was very much alive and well in 1910 all the way through 1940 and raised a daughter, Annie Mae and a stepson, Clyde. Perhaps Sarah misunderstood and took it as how many children were living with her.

1910 would be Sarah Flake Swaringen's last census. She passed away on September 29, 1916. Based on the two census records when she was young, giving her year of birth as 1856, which I believe is the most accurate, this would put her at about 60 years old. Her death certificate is rather sad.




She is described as a Laundress and the reason for her death was a "Leaky Heart", which is also called Valve Regurgitation. Her birthdate was unknown, but her age estimated at 55 "about". Her birthplace was given as Anson, and her parents correctly listed as Daniel Flake and Mary Cole. Elijah had preceded her in death, as she was a widow. There was no informant listed, but the Registrar, W. E. Snuggs left a note. The undertake was G. W. Springer of Norwood, although the handwriting is particularly rough. I believe the place of burial says, "near Porter, NC" because that is the area where she grew up.

The note left by the registrar in place of an informant states " The above information is brief due to the fact that no one knows.exact age of deceased having been born of Exslaves". 

Sarah Swaringen shared the fact that she became involved with a married man with Julia Ann Ross, however she did not make the papers as all parties involved were of African ancestry. She and Elijah and Charlie and Laura Tillman left descendants to carry on, many of them migrating to larger cities, such as Charlotte and Winston-Salem, and other states, like South Carolina and New York.